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Pregnancy with Weight Loss Surgery

Pregnancy after weight loss surgery. Trying to conceive, nutrition, recovery, breastfeeding, and parenting post-op.

  1. Started by jessicalynnestadler,

    I had my son last December and was a year into my lap band down 45lbs. My son was very unexpected and I can't seem to get out of this mind set that it was a waste considering I gained 60 through my pregnancy and have only lost about 15lbs since I had him! Any words of encouragement?

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  2. Started by andi0120,

    Can't believe I am pregnant. Definitely wasn't planned and I'm freaking out. I am 20 pounds from my weight goal. I'm really healthy not on any medications. Going to the doctor in two weeks. My youngest son is 14. I am so worried this baby won't make it to term. I would appreciate any positive advice or stories. No negative stories please I have enough negative thoughts going in my head.

  3. Started by Mjv013,

    Sept 1st we welcomed our first baby and a lapband baby!! Without the band, my little sweet man would not be here! The band is the only reason that after 17 years, I was able to get pregnant. Anyone who needs encouragement, the band is worth it and with time fertility can be returned. It has been a very emotional 17 years and I am so excited that I am healthy enough to have given birth to a beautiful baby boy.

  4. Started by Lady Lap Band,

    My husband and I are going to start trying to conceive in the next couple of months. I was hoping those who are pregnant or who have already had a baby after having the lapband would have any advice or comments for me? Anything you have to tell me would be so much appreciated! We're a little nervous! =)

  5. Since I've had two previous miscarriages my doc put me on vaginal progesterone gel. So far so good but there is a serious amount of possible side effects that come with it some even for the baby!! Which has me a little nervous. Was wondering if anyone else has used this and what your experiance with it was.

  6. Started by caitlint88,

    Not sure what's up but I'm currently2 Weeks late. Tested this morning and I got a negative. I had my surgery at the end of may. Have had 3 cycles, first one was 33 days the other 2 were 36. So I thought cool for once my cycles are becoming normal. Well not this month. Any ideas? I have a Obgyn appointment Monday but I'd like to get some ideas first.

  7. Started by Krussell19,

    I've had two miscarriages in the last two years. My husband and I decided to wait until I was at a much lower weight to try again but we had an unexpected surprise when my period never came. I'm so scared and have cried my eyes out I dont think I can mentally handle another miscarriage. I know I need to stay positive but at this point all I can think is how long till this one is taken away from me . I've lost around 45 lbs since the last one I hope it helps. Doc appointment is August 28th I hope things are diffrent this time.

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  8. Since I have had a lot of trouble finding information about pregnancy with the lap band, I thought I'd share my experience on here . . . My lap band surgery was on 11/12/10, I found out I was pregnant at the end of June 2011. So, it was only about 7 months after my surgery. At the time I became pregnant, I had lost about 25 pounds and my lap band had 7.5 cc's in it. Right now, I am 33 weeks pregnant and my total weight gain has been around 8 pounds. This is my 3rd pregnancy and I'm 35 years old . . . my other children were born when I was 27 and 29. Also, I gained around 37 pounds with each pregnancy. With my first pregnancy, I lost all but 5 pounds of my pregnan…

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  9. Started by m.boyer,

    So I have had my band almost 5 months. I am down 34 since surgery. I am pretty much at the weight I was when I delivered my son. He is now 4! I ideally would like to get under 200 before conceiving, but it is so hard trying to be patient. I feel like I am focusing too much on the future and not the present. Doesn't help that a lot of my Mom friends are having more too. On the plus side, my husband and I can at least talk about it without me ending up in tears. He likes to plan everything, whereas I just like to let things happen. Anyone else feel like they are in the same boat?

  10. Started by 911chrystal,

    Did anyone get pregnant an still loose some weight? (doubtful at the end lol) Who all kept their fluid?

  11. Started by jessfharris,

    So I found out my husband was cheating on me 2 days ago and I just had surgery 8/15... We had unprotected sex a week b4 surgery and also like a week ago... Stupid I know but we haven't been able to conceive cus of my weight but the last 3-4 days I been spotting and I been throwing up... Dont know if it's cus surgery or if I'm pregnant... I hope I'm not! I should b starting my period in a week n half ... Any advice? Or ideas what it could be? I also gained 2 lbs.. And I haven't really been eating cus of stress... :-/

  12. Started by roziecakes,

    Hi there, I'm wondering if there is anyone on here with experience breastfeeding with your lapband. How did you calculate how many calories you needed? I have found some conflicting advice. I'll talk to my doctor too, but I was wondering what your experiences were. Thanks in advance!

  13. I am 13 weeks pregnant and I think my band has slipped because I am having problems with solids and with fluids. I am constantly throwing up. I have no Fluid in my band. I am done with morning sickness. Just can't eat or drink anything. Has anyone experienced this while pregnant?

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  14. Started by Im done mooing.,

    I have a cousin who is just as heavy as I am. We are both over 400 pounds. I have only been able to carry one pregnancy close enough to term for the baby to survive. I am a good mom, own my own home, support my son without the help of dss, except for health insurance because my employer did not offer insurance. I have tried and tried to have more children. I have been pregnant 8 times. They all die. My doctor tells me every time that it's because I am overweight. Today I had to watch as my just as fat as me cousin gave birth to baby number 8. Her and her husband are homeless more often than not, sleeping in her mothers spare bedroom. They don't work. Their kids are always…

  15. Started by ckg123,

    Okay, so I had a slip up and haven't been on my nuva ring since after surgery because the antibiotics cancelled it out. I'm 5 and a half weeks post op. How is my body going to absorb this plan B pill? Do I need more than 1? I'm confused?

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  16. Started by kelliecalgary,

    I am almost 4 weeks post-op and I am so scared right now I might be pregnant. A week before surgery they had me stop my birth control because it adds to the risk of blood clots after surgery. I am supposed to start my birth control next Monday but now I am scared I might already be pregnant. My husband and I have had sex since the day after I got home from the hospital. I have been diagnosed with PCOS so I figured that I can't get pregnant without assistance such as Chlomid or IVF or whatever. I am starting to have some of the early symptoms of pregnancy such as very light brown spotting, that they say is implantation spotting and really bad fatigue. It is still too e…

  17. Started by Rekeca,

    I am so frustrated. For one I have very unpredictible. For instance, my menstral came on on april 23rd, May 17th, June 12th and July 25th. So its like my menstral comes on every 24-25 days except the last one was about 43 days. I am currently taking clomid 50mg and started in May. The meds worked in May with getting me to ovulate along with the ovidrel but didn't result in a pregnancy. The meds didn't work in June because when I went in for my 13 day ultrasound. I didn't have any folicles. So for this month they increased my to 100mg & I went in on 08/06 for my 13 day ultrasound and I had a very small immature follicle so they told me to come back on 08/9 to see i…

  18. Guest
    Started by Guest,

    I'm not ttc but does anyone have hypothyroidism(low thyroid) or know anyone that has it with the band, and was able to conceive after the band was in? Sent from my iPad using LapBandTalk

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    • 1.3k views
  19. Started by aubrey222,

    Lap Band on 5/31/12 and took a HPT today and it's positive!!!!!! Lost 27 lbs so far!!!!

    • 8 replies
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  20. Started by ballajones,

    I'm hoping someone can relate and give me some hope. I've always had irregular periods. Some lasting 3 months and recently not having one for 2 years!!! I've been on BC since I was 13 to regulate periods and stopped 3 years ago. Jan 2011 I had pre-cancerous cells removed from my cervix. I decided to get banded as I've always been told my weight was preventing me from getting preggo. I've lost 80lbs since being banded feb 1. And still no period. I really hope this changes I would love to have at least one baby Anyone else have my bad luck???

  21. Started by BigBum2Go,

    Banded January 7th, lost 63lbs, (was 325 ish), 10 weeks pregnant ... in shock as 41 years old with kids 11 and 7 and had no others planned. Excited though!! In UK so all the medics are over reacting and treating me as high risk even though last two pregnancies were fine. CVS being done Friday. Band is 9ml full in 14ml band and I plan to keep it filled for as long as possible. I still throw up a lot but the weight loss is worth it. Stephanie.

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  22. Started by layal,

    hi, everybody i made my sleeve surgery before 7 weeks and iam pragnant now what should i do ???

  23. today has been one day amongst TOO many that was one of the worst.. not sure if it makes sense but its how i feel.. for too long ive been sad and border line depressed about my weight and ttc for over 4 years now.. i have pcos and really need to get my weight under 200 pounds (im 270 pounds currently).. and fast. ive always been a thick girl but at this point i feel huge. ive tried low carb, which is pcos friendly but havent gotten the results.. im looking to hear from people who have had the lap band and if the recommend it or advise against it and etc.. i feel it is extreme but my last resort honestly.. i feel helpless and cornered without any other options.. i hope som…

  24. I was banded in July 2011...and was doing great until this may (2012)....i couldnt keep anything down and had a feeling that my band had slipped! Went to the doc and sure enough it was a bad slip...they took ALL my fluid out hoping it would repair it self in time. After taking the fluid out I felt great...just took it easy on my stomach! This were going good ...then I found out I was pregnant. Im now 7 weeks pregnant and as of last night the same symptoms I had with the slip are back!!! I can't keep ANYTHING down...even water!! Im scared out if my mind bc they already took all the fluid out so I don't know what else to do and I have to get something in my stomach for the …

    • 3 replies
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  25. Hi, Ever since I lost my last baby, Summer Rayne, at 23 weeks pregnant back in 2004, I have been wanting another baby. I have two daughters, 19 and 18, and I have lost 3 babies. 8 years and not one pregnancy test has come up positive, until tonight. My DH and I are thrilled, but also scared to death. I had an injury to my neck 2 1/2 years ago and I have been on Oxycontin for the past year and a half. Not to mention, I only had my sleeve 8 months ago. I actually had to sign an agreement with my bariatric doctor saying I wouldn't get pregnant for 2 years. What happens now?? So many questions and so many nerves on edge. Can anyone help? Oh, not to mention that I wi…

  26. Started by Angied730,

    Hi my name is Angie I am 5yrs postop. I am currently struggling with infertility (female factor) and after many tests i am finally going to start my 1st IVF in June. I am looking for some info regarding what to expect from my band and port during pregnancy. Also am looking for a buddie that has experience with IVF. I feel so alone during this process. Finding this site has helped me cope with this all so much better. Thanks for the read and any info is appreciated.

  27. Started by michelleaudio,

    I was banded on July 12 and have had the Implanon in my arm about a year now. I was told by my OB that this BC method has the least amount of estrogen than most methods. Will I have a slower weight loss? Is anyone in a similar situation?

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  28. Started by starlight83,

    Me and my husband been tring to have a baby for 5 years with no luck. Is there anyone who as had the bypass and who as had a baby after bypass please let me know how it went. Sent from my iPod touch using RNYTalk

    • 5 replies
    • 1.2k views
  29. Started by melflirt01,

    I have been very blessed in my life in that I have never had a problem getting pregnant. I have a 5 1/2 yr old beautiful daughter and I was 35 when I had her so now I am 40 and will be 41 when I have this little baby. The difference is I have my lapband. I had it put in in 2009. I had to have it unfilled completely in 2010 because I got sick but then I got it back finally to the appropriate fill in July of 2011. I do not love my band but I know it is a necessary evil for me. I would be in a very different position right now in my life if I did not have it. I was even considering getting it removed until recently. Well, now I am pregnant. I am terrified to gain …

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    • 1.2k views
  30. Started by lylymarey,

    I am going through the process of being approved VSG. However one of my concerns was the length of time I would have to wait until I could try for a baby. My doctor has told me two years but I've seen some of you mention a one year wait. Is anyone actively trying or succeeded? What did your doctor tell you? Just any advice would be helpful.

  31. Started by Aqua1,

    Did anyone get pregnant before the recommended 12-16 months? If so, how much weight gain? Any complications? Were you able to have natural childbirth?

    • 9 replies
    • 2.2k views
  32. Started by gutless,

    I surfed my way here today and am looking to you ladies for advice/thoughts/comments/suggestions - you get the drill. I am turning 39 next week, and am currently in the in-take process for VS surgery. I know that I cannot shed the cloak of morbid obesity on my own - have tried with some success, only to fail. The main problem I have is with *not* eating. I do not get overwhelmingly hungry. In fact, I can go a whole day without eating or drinking. I know, it's bad - trust me, I understand that. My body just doesn't send me the usual hungry or thirsty signals. One of the things I look forward to the most is learning how to properly fill my body with the nutrients …

  33. Started by jewels1227,

    Hello, I was wondering if you must get a C-Section after you have been sleeved? Thanks!

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  34. Started by michelle626,

    Hello I recently got banded and was wondering if I start birth control pills will that make me start gaining weight ?

    • 3 replies
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  35. Started by mnjhowell,

    I am currently 28 weeks pregnant and have gained 28 pounds. I had to have my band loosened due to severe nausea. I have heard that you will never find your sweet spot again and you won't lose like you did before. Anyone know if this is true and has anyone lost it all and been back to goal after having a baby? Thanks

  36. Started by brittaney,

    A little sad everyone one around me is preggo. I still have 75 pounds until we ttc. Trying to stay positive. ;(

    • 13 replies
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  37. Started by Melhow,

    So it looks like the pregnancy really screwed up my band! I am so upset and disappointed! I guess I will know more when I go in Monday for the results of my upper GI if I have to have it repaired or if an unfill will fix it. Apparently it's way more common to have issues after pregnancy than anyone warned me about!

    • 3 replies
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  38. Started by cfurrey,

    For the last year we have been tinkering with the idea of trying for our last! I felt i wanted the band first as i had a miscarriage 4/11 and its was due to pcos we think! I now have the band and my husband wants me to get off the depo and not try but let nature take its course. At this point id almost rather get pregnant sooner than later because i dont want a bad weight gain after working so hard to lose it all! I have a bad kidney problem that puts me basically on bed rest! I so want one more but im afraid of miscarrying so bad again! Any thought?

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  39. Hello all, I was sleeved March 15,2011 by Dr.Kelly.I started at 265lbs and by September/October I was down to 165lbs. 100lbs lost! woohoo! well, 3 weeks ago, I found I am pregnant.(about 7 weeks along now). I've had polycystic ovarian syndrome since I was 13yrs old and have 2 children ages 18yrs and 11yrs.old. While we did want one more child before our child-bearing years were over(I am 38yrs old and my hubby is almost 40yrs old), I have to say this was certainly a big surprise! I am ecstatic! And then again, terrified of gaining a lot of weight back that I worked so HARD to lose you know? I understand I will probably need to gain 15-25lbs but I am worried out about …

    • 18 replies
    • 5.4k views
  40. Started by Iliana82,

    Omg I was sleeved a month and 2 days ago. I suffered from amenorrhea due to PCOS. Guess Who came this morning after years being MIA? Aunt flow! I know it sounds silly but I am so excited! My pipes work! Thanks to the sleeve!!

  41. Hi all, I'm looking for support. My lap band has sprung a leak for a third time, three surgeries later, and this time, I'm pregnant. I've gained 12 lbs in the past month since the band emptied, and all my food issues are coming back, compounded by hormones/hunger. I'm determined to get through the pregnancy without blowing up. I've maintained an 80 - 100 lb loss for 6+ years despite my band breaking within the first year. I've already located a local doctor to replace my band once the baby and breastfeeding are done, but in the meantime, I'm white-knuckling being without my training wheels. Is anyone else going through this or something similar? Thanks Kate

  42. Hi All, I'm just starting to look into the Lap-band and was wondering if anyone has had IVF (in vitro fertilization) with the band and how it was for you? I have been married 12 years and we are infertile (low sperm count). As far as i know i should be able to get pregnant ..had an HSG and my tubes are not blocked, no PCOS, the only thing on my end may be the obesity. I have been trying to loose the weight for years and think Lap-band is the route for me. I'm struggling to get below 250 in order to have IVF although i would like to loose a lot more than that for my health . I'm attending the seminar next week and setting up a consultation with the surgeon. I've read m…

  43. Have had my lap band since November 2010. My husband and I just had a fertility procedure done on Saturday may 5th called an IUI w/ clomid. I had a very high progesterone level when they tested me last Friday it was 93! The nurse was extremely positive about it. I am just wondering if symptoms with pregnancy r any different with lap band than without?! This would be my first baby if all goes well and I think I'm just really over thinking things right now cause its so close to the time I get to take a pregnancy test.

  44. Started by Michele1975,

    His might be a silly question, but does the port become noticeable the farther along you are? I haven't been banded yet, but once I am and have lost the weight, I look forward to getting PG for a second time and having a beautiful round belly.....but will the port show?

    • 5 replies
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  45. Started by curtysgirl,

    Hi everyone My fiancé & I have been trying to conceive for a year no

  46. Hey everyone, I am looking to start trying to get pregnant in August - September. I am wondering when I should start taking a prenatal. Also what all should I take if anything in addition to the prenatal? What brand of prenatal do you use? I am thinking Jamieson Prenatal for myself. Thanks for your help!

    • 1 reply
    • 761 views
  47. Guest
    Started by Guest,

    Hello everyone, I'm new to this forum. I had the sleeve done aug 04, 2011 and today I find out I'm Prego. I've lost 101 lbs. now I'm worried that I'll gain!!!! Has anyone gain with pregnancy if so how much. I'm paranoid about weight gain. I still have a good 30 lbs to lose though. Yikes. #happy

  48. Started by nickip75,

    As anyone experienced pain at the port site, also left shoulder pain is much more frequent since I became pregnant? I'm 22 weeks

    • 8 replies
    • 1.8k views
  49. Started by Carolina,

    Well Yes it is true. I am 1 month Pregnant and just had the sleeve surgery 4 months ago. I am trying to eat more but it is a hard thing to do. I am forcing myself really hard to drink and eat more. Will I gain weight or will I lose weight during pregancy? After baby can I still lose? I have not gotten to my goal weight yet. Have you heard of anyone getting pregnant that early after their surgery. This will be my first child and I am 35 years old. I wasnt very big before weighting 223 pounds and now weighting 176 pounds. I always had a normal cycle, but I guess losing the weight really helped. HELP what am I in store for???

    • 11 replies
    • 27.6k views
  50. Started by Sannah,

    Hi!! Good afternoon!!! We have one baby (8months). I would like to have the sleeve and I have started the process. We aren't sure if we want another baby. What has being pregnant and labor been like with your sleeve? I would love to hear!!! I do not feel worried about fetility other than needing to be very cautious. We were naturally pregnant with triplets. I miscarried the set of twins at the very end of my first trimester. Have you had a baby pre and post sleeve? Notice any differences? How was loosing weight after baby? Thanks for sharing any information. Sannah

    • 5 replies
    • 1.2k views

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