jessfharris

Ok havent been on Vsg talk in a while... So much has happened since then... As some may know I'm goin thru a divorce due to a cheating husband 2 weeks after surgery... And if that wasn't enough I have been diagnosed with major depression... And I been eating very little and I get dehydrated alot... I also have my soon to be ex calling me for some private time now that he's noticing how much attention I been getn from men... He can't have his cake and eat it too!! Uggh, anywho my date of surgery was 8/15 and I was 349 lbs and now I sit at 276 lbs at a total loss of -73 lbs... !!!!!!! Here's some pics...

TY guys!!!!!!!!! I've gone thru soo much since my surgery... Cheating husband and much much more, can't even go into details cus it kills to talk about it... But I will say one thing "I'm doing me, it's all about me for once!!!!!!!!!!"

Down 55-60 lbs... Not exactly sure haven't weigh myself but here's some photos, man I don't see it too much but I DO notice heads turning lol, such a motivation... Even soon to be x-hubby, he's realizing how much attention I been getting and he doesn't wanna let me go... Too bad, his loss not mine... Lol

So I found out my husband was cheating on me 2 days ago and I just had surgery 8/15... We had unprotected sex a week b4 surgery and also like a week ago... Stupid I know but we haven't been able to conceive cus of my weight but the last 3-4 days I been spotting and I been throwing up... Dont know if it's cus surgery or if I'm pregnant... I hope I'm not! I should b starting my period in a week n half ... Any advice? Or ideas what it could be? I also gained 2 lbs.. And I haven't really been eating cus of stress... :-/

Ok im in a stall ... Crazy thing is I'm not eating... I gained 2lbs and now the scale won't move... I'm still spotting and my period should b here in a week n half...I'm stressing alot and can't get him off my head... I hate that I love him even after all his actions.

Thanks

Yea he kept telln his family that I was gonna leave him when I lost my weight... He was insecure, what a dumbass !

I'm drinking alot that hasn't changed... I useto b a stress eater not now ... I hate the tought of food, I think if I eat I'll b fat again. I guess since he left me for a skinny ugly broad... I have the looks the face but shes got the body...

Thanks... I feel so confused almost lost.... But I'll find my way thru this. Just right now I have no energies to :,(

Yup i gained 2 pounds and I haven't ate anything everything sounds bad to me but it's cus I just found out my husband was cheating on me... I guess I'm depressed I have no feelings to do anything, i just found out 2 days ago and I had surgery 8/15... I'm really hurt and I know I'll get thru it but it was the worse time... Can u gain if ur stressing? .... (girls) : can u spot when ur stressing, if u had ur period 2 weeks b4??

In not having kids and obviously I won't be back with him sooo don't worry... I just have a bad problem for not respecting myself and I guess I was settling but no more of that .. Fresh start ... I'll b looking hot soon n I hope he sees what he lost

UPDATE: he was cheating on me that's the real reason he wanted a divorce.. Thank god for phone call records... I knew it just needed proof! So Monday I WILL FILE FOR DIVORCE! he's so scandalous... Good for nothing son of a -----, it's ok he will get his!! God is justice in time he will try to come back , but noooooooo... This girl is DONE... I'm learning to love myself and start fresh - it will b hard but I can do it... Plus there's plenty of fish in the sea:)

Try having surgery n a divorce all in one... Not easy, but I'll get thru it... I'll lose all my weight and maybe find someone who really appreciates me... Keep ur head up. It will get better, promise!!! Just look at this way... U will b healthy and real hot next summer:) !!

8 long years wasted... But ur all right it's just I'm very hurt...

Also I can't divorce him just cause of differences... I grew up religious myself and I believe in saving a marriage... Only way we can divorce is if he cheats or physically hurts me... So all we can do for now is separate, give it time, if he loves me he will come back if not he will find someone commit adultery and I guess that's when divorce take it's course... :'(