Tell Your Weight Loss Surgery Story

Well, this whole thing has just gotten a lot more "real" for me. So I guess I'll start the "my story" part. I've been overweight my whole life. First diet as a pre-teen. Lots of family of origin stuff. Likely a similar story to a vast majority of the people here. I did pretty OK as an active "fluffy" woman for many years - did belly dance, went skiing, took Krav Maga... as someone else said here, I was healthy and doing well, until I wasn't. A knee injury ended up with a knee reconstruction and 18 months of rehab, then I decided to change careers (IT to nursing) and my weight started climbing through nursing school and my health started crumbling. First I was…

Hi. I've been lurking for months, but this is my first post. I've come to an abrupt end of my pre-surgical rigamarole, and am just waiting for the bariatric clinic to call me in order to schedule an appointment with my surgeon for the final consultation before scheduling surgery - I wasn't expecting it to be so soon, as I only started the process on April 11th. My insurance - Excellus BCBS - requires a 6 month stretch of supervised weight loss only if they don't feel that your previous attempts at weight loss were serious enough. I guess 25+ years of constant struggle was adequate, because after my 2nd nutritionist follow-up (a group seminar and 2 follow-ups scheduled a…

So I went to the informative session yesterday and it was great. They didn't tell me anything I didn't already know but now I'm just one step closer to getting the surgery. They will be making an appointment for the dietician for me soon. I'm faxing in my paper so that I can get an appointment with the physiatrist and either today or tomorrow I will be making an appointment with my doctor. Now it says she may put me on a 6 month weight loss program because my insurance requires it to make sure I can lose weight so they know I'll be okay and able to do it after surgery or I might have to just take 6 months of nutritional classes which would still be okay. I'm estimating ar…

I'm going to the mandatory informational session this Wednesday. I'll be filling out a form to see if I qualify but a surgeon already confirmed that I do. My insurance is saying that I still have to attend which I don't mind. I'll be updating through my 6 month pre op requirements, surgery day and hospital stays and post op. I will be documenting my process through the whole thing. Including my mood and how I'm doing with the diets, gym workouts, healthy foods that work for me, weight loss pictures and updates monthly after the surgery. Hope you guys follow me through this life changing journey and I will follow you guys too, for support. x Sent from my iPhone using th…

food addition, you are obese, or have other food related issues does not mean you were abused. This is my story, and, unfortunately it is many other people's story. I was a healthy kid growing up. In fact, my childhood nickname was Twiggy because I was so lean. I was raised in a middle class home with three sisters, and we were healthy and active. But, when I turned 15 years old I was brutally raped, had my genitals burned by the tip of a knife, and had my life threatened by a friend of a friend. In the year after that happened I became anorexic (undiagnosed but well under 100lbs. at 5'8"). I would eat an apple and a soft pretzel a day many days. I was unhealthy, and I …

just looking for anyone from the bx or nyc area who has had wls. Sent from my LGLS740 using the BariatricPal App

I have completed everything necessary over the last 6 months to prepare for my surgery. I had seen my psychiatrist and she suggested that I see a specialist to deal with emotional eating. I looked into it and with my financial strapping I could not afford even just the $200 evaluation. So my surgeon had me see the psychologist within their practice. He said that my wait fluctuated throughout the 6 months (which at the time my nutritionist had sad was understandable and I was still doing a great job). My surgery date was due last week of July/first week of August, but the psychiatrist said I need to see him again in 2 months (October 26) and I need to lose at least 10-20 p…

Hey guys I'm Erica and I'm currently 5 months out. I had the RnY surgery. Did anyone else feel like their stomach was too heavy while they were laying down? When I go to sleep my stomach feels hard and when I roll on my side it feels like it's stretching. Idk if it's because of the weight loss (day of surgery was 324. Now I'm 211) but it's starting to worry me, should o be worried? Also my stomach feels like it's numb all the time I touch it and it's like I can feel it with my fingers and I know I'm touching it, but my stomach doesn't feel it.. Is that normal? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Since signing on for BP, I've occasionally mentioned in various places having strayed and wanting to get serious again. Finally, Step #1 for the second time.. Band surgery was October, 2009. My highest weight was 311. From about three weeks before surgery until mid-February, 2011, I lost 115 pounds. At 197, my goal of 145-150 was in sight. "Something," an event with emotional fallout, happened and that February, I stopped losing and soon began to gain. I went as high as 268 and mostly have hovered at 265-270. Twice in between I buckled down, lost about 25, only to regain them. All along I've wanted to get back to business. Just in the last couple of weeks, the…

So my surgery date is 7/25/16. I went to my pre op on 7/12/16. I was mentally and financially prepared to start my liquid diet on 7/18/16. While at the appointment I was told that I should have started on 7/11/16 but no one informed me. I tried and was quite successful on Wednesday and Thursday but I didn't do so well Friday, Saturday and today. For some reason everything is tasting super sweet and I do not like things that are very sweet. I am terrified that my liver will be a problem for surgery. Sent from my SM-J700T1 using the BariatricPal App

I got banded in 12/07, and long story short, I did great for the first 6 months - quickly dropping 60 lbs. from a combination of following the rules to the letter, eating right, and working out 5 days a week. I plateaued around the 6 months mark when my working out became inconsistent, and I didn't push myself because I felt very comfortable at the weight I was at that point. Over the next couple of years, those 60 lbs. stayed off. A whole lot of other stuff happened in my life in the following years including getting married in 2010 and having kids. Before kids, though, as newlyweds, I got pregnant and the result was a partial molar pregnancy - basically, I drew the st…

Hi all! I realise this is an American forum but I've not been able to find such an informative and friendly one in the UK so far so hope you don't mind having me here! I started my weightloss journey on Tuesday 12th April 2016, where I began my liver reducing diet pre-op. I was 20st 9lbs, 289lbs. On the day of surgery, Tuesday 26th April 2016 I weighed 20st 1lb, and now 8 days post-op I weigh 19st 9lbs so 14lbs lost so far. I hope to use this thread as a bit of a diary and would love any input and replies! Many thanks

I'm all iv'ed up and waiting for my trip to the OR! Yes, I do feel like I am starving to death after that clear liquid diet yesterday but that's ok, this too shall pass! I'm ready when you are dr God please watch over us all for the procedure and I pray for an easy to do procedure with a great recovery, amen. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Hello. My name is Jutun and I just had bypass surgery on July 12th. Everything went well and I was sent home July 14th. I am on a liquid diet and I am not doing well with the chicken broth. I need other ideas of things to eat for this week. Any suggestions? Sent from my SM-G935T using the BariatricPal App

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Come find me! @100lbs2g0 <---that's a zero. I thought it'd be great for my friends to be able to watch my journey every step of the way! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

I am 3 month post op!!! 52lb down! Working on toning my arms and legs.... Its been wonderful, i am now able to go on the swing with my 3 yr old and i can actually fit on it!!!! I started at 318 now down to 254 totaling 64lb in less then a year. Cant wait to see what the next 3 month brings. My goal is 180 or below. I became a coach today for beachbody going to start out with Shakeology it has amazing Vitamins and minerals not to mention the nutritional benefits. The best part it doesnt taste like chalk and only 160 cal in 2 scoops. Needles to say im feeling over motivated! Dasha

Hi - I'm new to the forum and I just need to hear from people like me. I had gastric sleeve on 6/21/16. I'm three weeks post op and am having a bad day. I've always been an emotional eater and today my anxiety has been at an all time high. I did the unthinkable and ordered Chinese, beef fried rice, shrimp lo mein. Not only did I order it but when it arrived I just plowed in, without thinking. Then I threw up and have been crying ever since. I'm not in pain, I hope I didn't hurt myself but I am so frustrated. I've hit a stall in my weight loss and my cravings are taking over, I'm so sick of the endless food commercials on TV and wonder what the hell I am doing. I feel l…

On June 28th,2016 I am getting sleeved. On June 16th, 2015 I had a massive heart attack. I gave myself a year to lose the weight, I only lost 27 pds. I decided to do the surgery to get healthier and try to live a longer life. Night before surgery I'm sitting wide awake a little nervous but I am very surprised I'm not a basket case. Lol. My highest weight was 311, my surgery weight is 293. My goal weight is 170. I'm so ready to say goodbye to this body, looking foward to seeing the new me. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G900A using the BariatricPal App

Hi everyone. Just got banded this morning and so far so good. Very limited pain. The only thing is the terrible taste in my mouth from the anesthesia . I'm sure tomorrow will be even better! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Hi I'm 5 days after surgery. Just wondering anyone else gets sudden leg cramps or calf cramps ? I called the dr and she told me drink lots more water and I'm trying.

Just curious of low BMI-ers results from past Sleevers: (1) BMI prior to Sleeve (2) Weight Lost 1st, 2nd, 3rd Months (3) Nausea Level Day 1 (4) Pain Level Day 1 (5) Week of first stall (6) How long did that stall last Again, just curious if there are any similarities. Thanks all in advance! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

I got sleeved on July 11th. I walked a lot and didn't have too much gas. I have 6 incisions and there is only one that's still sore. HW 293 SW 262 GW 160. I'm never hungry but I miss chewing food. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Initial consultation in the morning super excited to be starting this journey, I can't wait!!! Jumping in!!! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Hi @ all my name is Michael and i´m an german obese Guy ... ok .. in the Moment my BMI is at 28, i think. In my best Times my BMI was at 45. In 2006 a german Surgeon told me "I see you on my table" ... i said "ok ...if you're a pathologist" 5 Years later in January, 11, i was his patient .... with 160 kg (~ 320 lbs) End of the year 2011, I had already lost 60 kg. Sometimes it was a horror-show but it is really cool if you know what you can eat. if you know what you can eat it is really great. What you can not eat it shows so quickly. In my best times my weight was at 85 kg .. now there are 96 kg. But it´s ok. I feel good and i look healthy .. i think In Germ…

Well. I had my first post-op appt. .I'm 2 weeks out from LRNY...I have lost 34 lbs total...Doctor said I was right on schedule. Got my new menu... soupy oatmeal, soupy cream of wheat, soupy mashed potatoes..SF pudding, v8 juice and having to start liquid Protein..so I'm gonna do Slimfast I think...I'm so happy with the progress I have made. I had to do a UA for a possible uti or bladder infection. They are supposed to let me know something today...just thought I'd share my good news! Sent from my SM-N910V using the BariatricPal App

Hello everyone. I am new to this site. Just had my sleeve done on the 12th. I feel like I'm doing alright. A lot of painful air bubbles and pretty tired still but working through it. All I can think of is food...not necessarily bad food, just food in general. I can't wait to be able to chew something!!! Anyone else?? Sent from my SM-G925V using the BariatricPal App

OMG. Im having my LP done tomorrow and I'm so nervous. Any tips will be greatly appreciated! Sent from my iPad using the BariatricPal App

Hi everyone, I was banded on July 13th, 2016. So 3 days post op. I wanted to introduce myself as I don't know anyone who has the band and I'm hoping for a support group. I need to lose 50 pounds in an effort to rid myself of sleep apnea and avoid the family curses of breast cancer, diabetes and Alzheimer's. I am married to a gorgeous, slim guy, hence the second motivation for me getting this done, I no longer want to be the far girl with the hot guy! My husband initially fought me on this, but I managed to talk him into it, and now he is very supportive of me and my journey. Looking forward to getting to know you all! Kbarbs Xoxo Sent from my iPhone usin…

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Hi there...I just found this app and I've already spent a couple of hours reading great personal stories, smiling in amazement at the before/after pics, and nodding my head in agreement with everyone who is struggling (like me) on the two week pre-op diet (ugh!). Anyone else new or getting sleeved this month? I'd love to have a buddy. Sent from my SM-G935T using the BariatricPal App

Hello everyone I'm new here, I'm 3 days post op and I'm having a terrible time with gas, no matter how slow I sip my fluids, or how much I walk I cannot get rid of it, I'm still in the hospital and they even gave me some liquid gas drop which didn't help at all but it did make me vomit! Please share with me what you guys did to make the gas go away, IM DESPERATE! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

As my mindset is changing, I'm cutting a lot of negative people out of my life. Has anyone gotten rid of any friends ? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

I follow the soft foods meal plan (stage 3), but I get hungry. One to two ounces of turkey doesn't cut it, even if it's followed by 1/4 cup of yogurt. And the "slice" of pear? I had a whole nectarine and was not uncomfortable. I'm finding myself reaching for a Protein shake or low fat string cheese to tide me over between meals. I know I'm not supposed to snack. Anyone else have this problem? Also, I'm on my 7th day of a stall. I am exercising and drinking my Water and taking Vitamins.

I finally got my sleep apnea study results. Not what I was hoping for, but not a final decision yet either. I was told I have the signs and symptoms of a sleep disorder. I have upper respiratory distress that seems to keep me from staying in REM sleep and causes me to keep going back into stage 1 sleep. I didn't sleep long enough in REM sleep for them to gather enough information, but as of now they are ruling out sleep apnea. They suggested I do a re-test and use a sleep aid so ey can gather more data. I'm scheduled to do it this Saturday. I am a little confused, how is it I have some repiratory distress that is causing me to wake, but it's not sleep apnea? They…

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Hi everyone .I'm back again after surviving the first week of liquids I'm now just wondering what it was like for any of you after the surgery . Are the ten days of thin liquids really really hard. I don't know what to expect and would appreciate any feedback you want to give me! Sent from my iPad using the BariatricPal App

I'm not loosing weight for the last two days I'm at the same weight, what am I doing wrong? I'm stressing. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

I am soo excited. I am doing it. I am a mother of 5 ( ages 11,9,5 and twin 10-month-olds) amazing boys who deserve a mother who will be able to keep up with them when they are older :-). I lost 48lbs since march 21, 2016 but now it is sooo hard to keep on this liquid diet. I am not going to beat myself up over this but I would like some nonjudgmental advice from experienced sleevers. I know I have shrunk my liver and all my bloodwork is good. I will continue to try to stick to it.

Well it's a whole year since I got in the jeep with my heart down to my boots to go to the hospital for surgery. Oh I was so afraid, I wanted to turn back and not go through with it. Entering the hospital I just let it all go and I thought well you are here now best let them get on with it. I remember walking down the corridor and saying goodbye to my other half, then climbing onto the trolley and that was it. I woke up in the recovery ward all done and that was the start of my new life. I was so lucky I had no pain or sickness and all went well. Coming home was fantastic, I had only been away for 2 nights, but it felt like years. I've lost 99 pounds and have gone fro…

Finally had my gastric sleeve surgery on July 6th , 2016. One week in and I'm totally going stir crazy over the liquid only diet. But I'm sticking to it , really have no choice, buts it's kind of been a struggle. Sent from my SM-G930V using the BariatricPal App

Good evening everyone! I just joined this group. After years of fluctuating weights and feeling unsure about having this surgery performed, I have decided to move forward. Today was my initial appointment and first meeting with the nutritionist. My insurance isa pain and I have to have 6 months worth of nutritionist appointments in order to qualify so I'm still a few months out before my surgery can take place. I'm 31 and a mom to 4 beautiful children. My husband had the rue n y done when he was with his first wife and had a lot of success. He loves me exactly as I am, but I'm doing this for myself, my health and my future. I'm the smallest women in my family and every …

I have decided to revisit the site hoping to gain perspective and pep. I have been feeling a bit defeated since I am 13 months post op and haven't made it to 100lbs lost. I have read other peoples experience and most have been more successful that I have been. I am 31 lbs from the 100lbs and I know that I am going to get there, it is just that time is moving very slowly and I really want to get there already. My journey has not been without challenge. Between anemia and hypothyroidism, the struggle has been real. My health has tested my patience and at time the ability to stand on my own two feet, and the tiredness is sometimes too much. What do you I do?

After all this time I finally received my surgery date. August 10 is when my life starts all over again. I am so excited!!! My pre op diet begins on the the 27th of this month. Two Protein shakes and a lean protein filled meal. ..... Not bad. My starting weight was 398...today I weighed 361....i wonder how much weight I will lose in the 2 weeks of the pre op diet....I guess we will see. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

I am laying down in my bed, strapping my mask on my face and activating my CPAP machine for tonight. I am twenty five days from going through weight loss surgery for a second time. I intend to chronicle my journey in hopes that I will lose track of what I am doing. I finally weighed myself for the first time in three months and now I weigh 405 lbs. I can't wait to begin my two liquid diet to lose weight before the surgery, I should begin immediately. "We worship perfection because we can’t have it; if we had it, we would reject it. Perfection is inhuman, because humanity is imperfect". - Fernando Pessoa

Hi everyone. Yup that was me, Kimberly, on that show. But when they filmed the show in August of 2015. I was about 145-150. I was so happy at that weight. BUT...... Now almost one year later, I am at 127. I moved from MA, to OR a few months ago and I was 149. Then on June 8, 2016, I was down to 135. OK. Went to the doctors appointment yesterday and I am now 127. I am 5'8" and I look sick. My new doctor was actually accusing me of starving myself. That is so not true. I got 3 ulcers from the gastric bypass surgery and it is so painful to eat. My bones ate sticking out. I am trying to find a new bariatric surgeon. I just don't know what to do. I still see …

Hello I had my RNY Gastric Bypass Revision June 13. I'm trying to get this weight down in an attempt to become a mother. Please send prayers that Im able to get this weight down and hopefully a year later be able to conceive. Sent from my SM-G928T using the BariatricPal App

Hey guys , I'm Mel.. I had my sleeve done on the 20th four days ago. Have been heavy all my life and after years of being on a diet I still couldn't lose the weight.. My initial weigh in I was 300# exactly. I lost down to 278 after my 2 liquid diet. My day of surgery I weighed in at 275. So I'm post op 4 days. I haven't really eaten in the last three weeks so I figured I would be down some weight and I weigh 274 lbs.. So really I haven't lost anything and I haven't eaten anything so funny how your body doesn't let go. I'm already having this weird fear of failure of loss. Anyone else feel this way? I know that's ridiculous and it's been 4 days. Don't yell at me. I gues…

Ok guys... What chicken broth do y'all recommend? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App