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Looking for that special someone? Once you start on your weight loss surgery journey, everything from your lifestyle to your body to the way you think about yourself and the world changes. Here is a forum to meet other weight loss surgery singles who know what you’re going through and who are have the same health goals and lifestyle as you do. Have fun!

415 topics in this forum

  1. Single in NYC

    By RomAnca,   
    • 0 replies
    • 1,132 views

  2. Are There Any Single Sleevers Out There..

    By kwyant1976,
    • 481 replies
    • 56,957 views

  3. Wow! Interesting!

    By Aginn10,   
    • 0 replies
    • 1,088 views

  4. MayB1day

    By Newlife2day,
    • 0 replies
    • 1,092 views

  5. Waiting on Dating

    By Guest,   
    • 17 replies
    • 3,157 views

  6. Dating in 2017, what is "dating" mean anyway? lol

    By vsgClarese,
    • 13 replies
    • 2,492 views

  7. Single mid 30s Sleeve Buddy in the Houston area

    By knowledge_governs,   
    • 0 replies
    • 1,092 views

  8. New to dating

    By sgc,
    • 316 replies
    • 24,868 views

  9. Bariatic Lesbians

    By Bluetattooedkat,   
    • 1 reply
    • 1,400 views

  10. Seeking dating, romance (long-term relationship)

    By nasusmai,   
    • 0 replies
    • 1,202 views

  11. Singles website match.com

    By Threetimesacharm,
    • 12 replies
    • 2,933 views

  12. Is it weird?

    By BigDaddy13,
    • 19 replies
    • 3,747 views

  13. Dating And The Perfect Body

    By TammyL323,
    • 53 replies
    • 8,908 views

  14. Will anyone see me?

    By Hoping052017,
    • 50 replies
    • 6,831 views

  15. Single in New Mexico

    By andsouth,
    • 4 replies
    • 1,415 views

  16. Hello from Seattle

    By Julene,
    • 3 replies
    • 1,647 views

  17. Single in Bensalem PA

    By jlindenman,
    • 0 replies
    • 1,345 views

  18. Looking for a Bariatric Date

    By Danielle_kogan12,
    • 1 reply
    • 1,398 views

  19. Hi Everyone from Uk if anyone else is too message me

    By chucklecheeks71,
    • 0 replies
    • 1,207 views

  20. Single in Illinois

    By bill1130,
    • 2 replies
    • 1,338 views

  21. Thinking about surgery NYC

    By chnnqps,
    • 2 replies
    • 1,521 views

  22. Newly Single Mom

    By AshleighN14,
    • 7 replies
    • 2,099 views

  23. New to this app..

    By vgsgirl00,
    • 4 replies
    • 1,700 views

  24. Meal planning and living alone

    By adrinanna,
    • 19 replies
    • 4,064 views

  25. Minnesota

    By Angel 55103,
    • 0 replies
    • 1,361 views

  26. Hello!

    By nasusmai,
    • 0 replies
    • 1,854 views

  27. losing over 100 lbs has cracked my shell

    By stilltrukin,
    • 14 replies
    • 3,174 views

  28. New here and I have no I'd what I'm doing.

    By enturavay,   
    • 11 replies
    • 2,132 views

  29. Dating and excess skin

    By MayMarie,
    • 15 replies
    • 6,680 views

  30. Online dating

    By GibbsGirl,
    • 31 replies
    • 6,374 views

  31. They seemed sane...Dating horror stories

    By OKCPirate,   
    • 169 replies
    • 18,518 views

  32. Anyone else alone for the holiday weekend?

    By Oak Park Lorena,
    • 17 replies
    • 3,577 views

  33. Single and Looking!

    By samanthajo20070,
    • 47 replies
    • 6,042 views

  34. When online dating didnt work out....

    By Floridian79,   
    • 56 replies
    • 6,968 views

  35. well..maybe there is hope for "real life" meeting someone

    By CowgirlJane,
    • 39 replies
    • 4,381 views

  36. Bariatric Dating Website?

    By theby_88,
    • 25 replies
    • 4,520 views

  37. Maybe I should just get more cats....

    By RILEYSMOM22,
    • 39 replies
    • 4,719 views

  38. Being fat and dating

    By Roudoudou,
    • 15 replies
    • 4,205 views

  39. Hi everyone

    By dmyrna,
    • 1 reply
    • 1,029 views

  40. Random update on "I want to join a monastery" guy

    By Katrinakit,
    • 5 replies
    • 1,285 views

  41. separation

    By hoot temple,   
    • 4 replies
    • 1,098 views

  42. New to the forum

    By maggie409,
    • 4 replies
    • 1,360 views

  43. Single and living with excess skin?

    By betty_lovedoc,   
    • 6 replies
    • 1,729 views

  44. Back in the Game Again

    By bellabloom,
    • 63 replies
    • 6,182 views

  45. Out to the bars?

    By RedJoy86,   
    • 25 replies
    • 3,253 views

  46. Dating

    By lifeofblair,
    • 14 replies
    • 2,365 views

  47. The disappearing act

    By Oregondaisy,
    • 34 replies
    • 4,143 views

  48. My recent adventures..

    By CowgirlJane,
    • 2 replies
    • 925 views

  49. Interesting experience

    By stacyrg1,
    • 9 replies
    • 1,395 views

  50. I don't think it was meant to be an insult

    By CowgirlJane,
    • 32 replies
    • 4,728 views

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    • Bashbee91

      Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
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    • Bugg

      Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
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    • buildabetteranna

      buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
      · 0 replies
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    • buildabetteranna

      buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

      · 3 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

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