jlindenman

Nothing weird about that at all. You are experiencing something amazing. You are supposed to be happy and excited about the changes in your body. That is the reward for going through a very difficult procedure. I am looking at myself and I still think I'm fat even though my family says I am getting too skinny.

I am 6 months post o.o Sleeve surgery. I was 255 and now I am 168. I am not eat I g properly because i still feel like I'm fat. Just the smell of food makes me sick. I have also been having complications like severe stomach pain and throwing up after eating the smallest amount of food. Everything tastes different to me and that is another reason why I do not want to eat. I would be very content Sri king Premire Protein shakes and bars for the rest of my life.

Both I g wrong with that. Lol Its not what you eat for me, its all about what kind of person you are and can you accept a man that likes to fuss over you. I met a woman and I fussed over her like calling her after work to see how her day was, or texting in the morning before she went to work to say have a great day. She told me I was moving too fast. I thought I was just treat g her the way she should be treated. I would live to have a woman who fussed over me. What's that like? Lol.

Thank you for your advise and support.

That's a great attitude you have. I have on my experience that if you ask a woman to a ball game or a nice place for dinner they give you the slow down tiger bullshit. I am to do g that every woman is different and if you try to be respectful and not too fast and you invite to meet for coffee you are labeled like you just did. Its impossible to figure out the right way to start. I personally don't like when a woman says slow down tiger when all I'm tryi g to do is get to know her. Then sometimes I spend a good amount meet I g someone for dinner and they decide they don't want to see me again for whatever reason and cannot even be decent enough to tell me. They just ignore my messages, then I feel I just wasted $150 or whatever it cost. Might not be an issue for you, but I don't want to waste my money on someone who doesn't have a clue what they want. Can't win no matter what we do. I don't think asking a woman out to an event or a nice dinner is moving too fast and I'm not just trying to get in her pants. I want to know as much as I can about her and you cannot get that from email or texts.

You are so correct. That to me is a sign of a very shallow person. This surgery is a difficult adventure as it is without negative people like that. I usually don't even get to telling them about my surgery because I have to tell them that I am also disabled. I an sorry this is happening to you. You are an extremely beautiful woman inside and out. I hope things change for the better. It will. I'm sure. john

Hello. Having the same problem hete in pA. This sucks.

Hello baby. You wete. Eautiful before your surgery, but you look even more beautiful now. Great job. I feel great and I only lost 80 pounds. I cannot imagine how great you must feel. You are so beautiful and I want to tell you that I love you, and wish nothing but the best for you. You are so brave and you added so many years to your life. I would love to talk privately to you if you would like. If you email me, we can exchange contact numbers if you like. Great job baby. Johnj

I am so sorry about your partner. That is,a horrible thing to have to deal with by v yourself. I hope you are doing ok.

You are a true inspiration to all of us. I would love to talk to you on the phone. 2673708303. You really did a great job . A lot of hard work and I can only imagine how great you feel. I list 70 pounds and I walk around like I'm some kind of god. Lol John

WOW. CONGRATULATIONS. YOU HAVE DONE AN AMAZING JOB. YOU SHOULD BE SO B PROUD OF YOURSELF. WE WERE ALL BEAUTIFUL AND HA SOME PEOPLE BEFORE OUR SURGERY BUT WE WERE NOT HAPPY OR HEALTHY. YOU MADE A LIFE CHANGING DECISION AND IT WAS THE HARDEST THINGS YOU HAVE EVER DONE, BEAUTIFUL UT YOU DID IT, AND YOU LOOK FABULOUS. I WAS 255 AND NOW 4 months later I am 185 I know I feel so much better and healthy, I can only imaging how you feel. You look so beautiful and I'm sure that any man would love v to have you as his girlfriend /wife, ect. I wish you the best of luck and thank you for sharing you personal photos with us. You are an amazing woman. Great job. Johnj

Sounds like a bunch of crazy men in your life. You need to date me. Lol no more drama.

I feel your pain. I hate these dating sites but what can I do. I am so lonely and just want someone to love and to love me back and to be able to start doing fun things together. Apparently that is too much to ask for. Am I that repulsive? Lol