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Looking for that special someone? Once you start on your weight loss surgery journey, everything from your lifestyle to your body to the way you think about yourself and the world changes. Here is a forum to meet other weight loss surgery singles who know what you’re going through and who are have the same health goals and lifestyle as you do. Have fun!

339 topics in this forum

  1. New here and I have no I'd what I'm doing.

    By enturavay,   
    • 11 replies
    • 1,214 views

  3. Dating and excess skin

    By MayMarie,
    • 15 replies
    • 2,387 views

  4. Online dating

    By GibbsGirl,
    • 31 replies
    • 3,190 views

  5. They seemed sane...Dating horror stories

    By OKCPirate,   
    • 169 replies
    • 11,637 views

  6. Anyone else alone for the holiday weekend?

    By Oak Park Lorena,
    • 17 replies
    • 1,384 views

  7. Single and Looking!

    By samanthajo20070,
    • 47 replies
    • 3,027 views

  8. When online dating didnt work out....

    By Floridian79,   
    • 56 replies
    • 3,386 views

  9. well..maybe there is hope for "real life" meeting someone

    By CowgirlJane,
    • 39 replies
    • 2,418 views

  10. Bariatric Dating Website?

    By theby_88,
    • 25 replies
    • 2,699 views

  11. Maybe I should just get more cats....

    By RILEYSMOM22,
    • 39 replies
    • 2,634 views

  12. Being fat and dating

    By Roudoudou,
    • 15 replies
    • 2,270 views

  13. Hi everyone

    By dmyrna,
    • 1 reply
    • 407 views

  14. Random update on "I want to join a monastery" guy

    By Katrinakit,
    • 5 replies
    • 638 views

  15. separation

    By hoot temple,   
    • 4 replies
    • 521 views

  16. New to the forum

    By maggie409,
    • 4 replies
    • 747 views

  17. Single and living with excess skin?

    By betty_lovedoc,   
    • 6 replies
    • 918 views

  18. Back in the Game Again

    By bellabloom,
    • 63 replies
    • 2,967 views

  19. Out to the bars?

    By RedJoy86,   
    • 25 replies
    • 1,540 views

  20. Dating

    By lifeofblair,
    • 14 replies
    • 993 views

  21. The disappearing act

    By Oregondaisy,
    • 34 replies
    • 2,002 views

  22. My recent adventures..

    By CowgirlJane,
    • 2 replies
    • 430 views

  23. Interesting experience

    By stacyrg1,
    • 9 replies
    • 611 views

  24. I don't think it was meant to be an insult

    By CowgirlJane,
    • 32 replies
    • 2,226 views

  25. Running dating experiments...dont worry, nothing negative

    By CowgirlJane,
    • 8 replies
    • 567 views

  26. Steve Harvey

    By GibbsGirl,
    • 14 replies
    • 1,177 views

  27. Dating Update

    By bellabloom,
    • 7 replies
    • 637 views

  28. Dumped on Valentine's Day

    By Yaberhoo,
    • 37 replies
    • 2,213 views

  29. New at this but back in the Game! Houston, Texas

    By Skinny592,
    • 6 replies
    • 638 views

  30. Looking for Other Singles!

    By danny7995,
    • 5 replies
    • 462 views

  31. The Ex's

    By CowgirlJane,
    • 16 replies
    • 925 views

  32. Welcome to the BariatricPal Singles Forum!

    By Alex Brecher,   
    • 24 replies
    • 4,238 views

  33. Real intimacy isn't sex, so how do you get there?

    By OKCPirate,   
    • 29 replies
    • 1,417 views

  34. Offended? Dating and weight.

    By Kelly1334,
    • 21 replies
    • 2,337 views

  35. I suppose I've doomed myself to celibacy

    By Day,
    • 12 replies
    • 1,416 views

  36. Emotional Connections

    By momma_missie,
    • 7 replies
    • 424 views

  37. I want to connect with someone

    By LittLeFoot14,
    • 9 replies
    • 432 views

  38. Any Singles in SoCal

    By _nelly_,
    • 21 replies
    • 1,331 views

  39. Dating awkwardness

    By cstew21,
    • 8 replies
    • 643 views

  40. Giving up

    By NULL,
    • 41 replies
    • 2,533 views

  41. Care to share your dating profile?

    By OKCPirate,   
    • 79 replies
    • 3,437 views

  42. About to be single!

    By hollybower,
    • 11 replies
    • 941 views

  43. Getting intimate

    By sandi_022,
    • 11 replies
    • 933 views

  44. Skinny chasers

    By bellabloom,
    • 74 replies
    • 4,107 views

  45. Hey you, out of the dating pool

    By OKCPirate,   
    • 5 replies
    • 475 views

  46. Single 50 yr old female looking for someone to talk to~

    By Nene65,
    • 1 reply
    • 518 views

  47. I wonder if this is why I don't like online dating

    By CowgirlJane,
    • 16 replies
    • 1,005 views

  48. Rant from a single woman!

    By SassyTassy,
    • 43 replies
    • 3,026 views

  49. Hurt again.

    By bellabloom,
    • 68 replies
    • 2,571 views

  50. well... that was a lot of drama

    By CowgirlJane,
    • 13 replies
    • 920 views

  51. So many crazy men

    By bellabloom,
    • 43 replies
    • 2,161 views

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      Today I had my first post surgery update. I haven't eaten anything other than the occasional popsicle and my daily protein shakes in 2 weeks. I have lost 30lbs in those 2 weeks. The doctor is happy. I am starting to see changes I have no more swelling in my legs after sitting at my work desk all day. I don't get to eat an egg till next week. I have my total carb and protein counts so when I can start eating I know how much I can have. My surgeon / doctor has been great thru this whole process. He listens and gives good information about what to expect and what I should be doing. He has an amazing team here in Boise. I am glad I went with him to do this life changing process.
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      Thought I'd give an update.  I'm over half way to my goal, which is awesome, and I've lost over 12 inches in my waist!  The weight isn't coming off as quickly as I had hoped, but I am also not exercising and still not getting even close to the amount of water I should be drinking, so slow weight loss is not all that surprising.  Sometimes I'm just "over it" and try to eat huge portions like I used to, but, thankfully, I feel the restriction of my smaller stomach and can't go crazy.  In general, I'm quite good, just trying to live my life.
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        Jenwill630

        WTG that is awesome!

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