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Not sure if I should just give up on trying to date right now. I found myself confused to say...I'm not myself physically right now. And its frustrating because I haven't been heavy all my life so being turned down for what seems to be my weight is soo discouraging. I know they aren't worth my time however still upsetting.

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Same here. I didn't get heavy until pcos kicked in. That was my 20's. Fast forward 20 yrs and a divorce I just didn't bother dating as I disgrace feel comfortable in my own skin. I'm now down to my lowest weight since 1998. I'm at 198-199 naked lol. Some might consider still big but I'm rocking it. Only thing I miss is my boobs. My ass was pretty sad when I was big now it's nonexistent

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Lol Thank you for sharing. I never had a chest unless pregnant or now heavy. Congrats on rocking it tho. I know it doesn't matter what others think. I'm doing this for me and my health. Just would be nice to have a supportive partner

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