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I swear, when you're stopped in a road, indecisive as to which path to take, it can be such a relief to get a push in the right direction.

It may seem strange, but I recommend sending that other woman flowers. She has done you a very good deed.

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7 minutes ago, Berry78 said:

I swear, when you're stopped in a road, indecisive as to which path to take, it can be such a relief to get a push in the right direction.

It may seem strange, but I recommend sending that other woman flowers. She has done you a very good deed.

OMG... my thoughts exactly. I told him n her , I thank you both for giving me the strength to do what I have been battling with for years. I'm done and free and cute and my waist is snatched.... Boy bye✌🏽.

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Some people don't know what they have until it's gone. You can do a bad all by yourself!

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1 hour ago, Deactivatedfatgal said:

Some people don't know what they have until it's gone. You can do a bad all by yourself!

I totally agree... n now he is begging but it's too late.

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27 minutes ago, sammy246 said:

You know he is cheating. I'm glad you are moving on- do not allow him to treat you that way and stay.

Thank you ma... I'm trying to be happy n stress free. Can't do that with him in my life anymore.

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26 minutes ago, Dknal2 said:

I totally agree... n now he is begging but it's too late.

I know how you are feeling. Been through almost same situation, then he wanted to call me crying and blah blah but I'm like you were not crying when you made a fb behind my back & was creeping. Life is so much sweeter without the lies and cheating :)

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Been working these abs doing the ab challenge I posted about maybe 4 -5 weeks ago. They are not that cut yet but I have trimmed a small bit of fat from my abdomen. I'm ready for a two piece I believe. Lol.

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7 minutes ago, Deactivatedfatgal said:

I know how you are feeling. Been through almost same situation, then he wanted to call me crying and blah blah but I'm like you were not crying when you made a fb behind my back & was creeping. Life is so much sweeter without the lies and cheating

Yep he is crying n begging n he will pay all bills and blah, blah but nope not doing this again. Those are the same crappy reasons I let you come bk before but I'm done with that crap. You weren't sorry when u laid down for the second affair with her so don't be sorry now.

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Hon. I'm happy for you right now. It's time to move on. God always turns what was meant for evil for His glory. You are/will be walking in His glory. That moment needed to happen so He can start your new life. Hang in there hon, I believe the moment you are officially divorced, a weight will be lifted. That's a good thing. 😊 Bless you hon!

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And great job on your loss too! Looking very good!!!

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Any before and after surgery pictures


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I'm glad you are getting out of this crappy marriage. The text message made the end a lot faster so I would be grateful for it. It seems like you were willing to go on with the emotional abuse for a long time.

If you look good and don't have any kids, men are all on you. You will have a new man before you know it. If you want one.

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