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Sex is getting better and better and better the lower weight I get. The more confidence I have, which makes all the difference in the world, I feel better and it's better. I am 4 months out. Have lost 55.6 lbs. doing great husband is all over me!

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Definitely gets better. I'm 4 weeks out and it has gotten better every week.

Plus loosing weight makes it easier to get around!! ;-)

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I'm not sure. I'm 3 months out, 50 lbs down, pretty ok with my weight...but UBER self conscious about my sad boobs. They seem to have given up on life and now resemble some gelatinous sack of distressed skin. I was more sexually adventurous b4 I lost the weight. Now I'm afraid these huge flapjacks will give someone a concussion, so I'm abstaining. Til I get a reduction lol.

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I have lost 60 lbs and I'm about 11 weeks out and I was sexing it up about 2 wks after. Sex is way better because I can move around more and now I don't feel like I'm smothering!

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One word Yes!

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Ok, so I think I may have already replied to this one, but I'm gonna do it again just in case......

HELL YEAH IT IS! LOL!

Much better, much easier, much more fun....exciting...and I am a wild crazy woman now. My husbands head is spinning...he doesn't know what the heck to do....but he loves it! Hehe ;)

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Since surgery mine wakes me up at crazy hours.

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YES!!!! I feel sexy...not tired all the time....and can get physically closer to my hubby. My drive is higher. It's a great bonus to the surgery!!!

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Thanks ladies for your honesty...I can't wait to find out what changes, and how often!

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I cant believe how much better the sex is. I am down 64 lbs now. I can feel him so much better. I can move all different ways. I am more confident. Before I just took my pants off. Now I do a strip down for him. He just enjoys it all. We r so much happier. Just my attitude has made a big difference. I love it now and want it all the time. He likes that. Just be confident and enjoy urself!

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I'm not sleeved yet, will be on Nov 22. This thread gives me 1 more thing to look forward to!

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It was always good, but since I feel better about being in my own skin......wow.

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The incentives of doing this surgery gets better and better. LOL!

Sex for me is always GREAT so to know that it will get better literally blows my mind...hehehehe

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So what if your partner is still heavy and your losing? Is sex more awkward? My fear is our energy levels won't match up

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