I am not sleeved yet....soon 6/26/13

I keep wondering about libido and sex !!

I can only imagine I will be wanting MORE of it and be able to achieve better flexibility during sex! ahaha! My hubby is going to be one happy camper! Or maybe even hide from me after a while! I know we cannot have sex right away but eventually I will be ready to do the wild thing! ahaha!

Lets talk about this ladies ! No time for shyness! lol

I am not sleeved yet....soon 6/26/13

I keep wondering about libido and sex !!

I can only imagine I will be wanting MORE of it and be able to achieve better flexibility during sex! ahaha! My hubby is going to be one happy camper! Or maybe even hide from me after a while! I know we cannot have sex right away but eventually I will be ready to do the wild thing! ahaha!

Lets talk about this ladies ! No time for shyness! lol

I had sex after 4 days so it all depends on how you're feeling. I always had a great sex life and am only 3 weeks out so can't really comment on that. I am pretty flexible for a big woman but can't wait til my fiance can pick me up while doing it...it will make shower sex more fun.. I am losing weight and he is bulking up.

Sex was always better at a lower weight, almost non existant now as I am just to embarrassed for my hubby to see or feel my body. I can't wait until I hit 200...he already said I get to be on top...ok...you said let's don't be shy

I have always had a pretty good sex life, always been confident and comfortable sexually even at my heaviest.

So I was surprised to find that sex went from good to great with my weight loss :-D

Definently will get better. My Mojo was dead prior to surgery and as the weight drop I got my mojo back lol

YES! I have also always had a really great sex life with my husband. HOWEVER, it is even better without 70+ pounds!!!! Yay for us!

Sounds good!

I am confident and super comfortable with my body now! I can only imagine later on! Watch out hubby!! lol

I'm so nervous! My ex was with me through the whole process of me getting sleeved and the recovery.

My new guy wasn't there ( oh how I wish he had been there instead) and he didn't meet me until a 60 lb loss. I haven't slept with him yet and I'm so nervous to!!

Very interesting..lol..I never had sex issues..but since I've lost 41 pounds now..I am feeling beside myself and my husband loves it...lol..such a confidence boost

Allah hu Akbar

Sounds good!

I am confident and super comfortable with my body now! I can only imagine later on! Watch out hubby!! lol

lol..

Definently will get better. My Mojo was dead prior to surgery and as the weight drop I got my mojo back lol

feeling extra sexy..that's awesome

I had sex with my hubby the day I got home from Mexico!!! Than he went back to work for a month and when he came home I was 30 lbs lighter and feeling a lot more confident in myself and YEAH!!! It was the best it's been in years!! Not that its been bad, but it went from good to great!! I can't wait for him to come home again!! With every pound I lose a little bit more confidence comes back, and I too can't wait till he can pick me up and try new positions!!!

Sex is freaking amazing now!!! My boyfriend and I have always had a very healthy sex life but since the surgery I have been out of control with my libido.

Not to mention oh my god the positions, the multiple orgasms and the hours..yes I said hours of sex. And the lingerie!!!

I said this on another page but I will say it again. Before the sleeve I had low self esteem and a guy I was with treated me like crap, so I believed I wasn't sexually appealing to guys. Well it has been almost 7 months and I am down 105lbs. I have been seeing a guy and wow. I never had sex like this. I wasn't afraid to be naked in front of him (even though I am a bit wobbley) he really loves my body, multiple positions and orgasms, and it goes on for hours. So yes sex after being sleeved has been amazing for me so far. I am no longer shy about my body

I was wondering about this as well. My hubby and I have a healthy sex life, but I physically can't do a lot of things that I would like to. I'm really hoping as the weight comes off it will be easier to do different positions and not get tired so quick!

Thanks ladies for posting this. It's making me even more excited to get sleeved and start that part of my life.

Sheena :-)

Is the sex better because its physically better or because of self confidence rising? My self confidence is actually getting lower as I lose weight (ive only lost 30lbs but am losing my butt and boobs.) I have very high self esteem as a big woman and sex was always wonderful...now I dont want him to see my scars or smaller boobs so I turn the lights off...can't imagine when I'm thin. Anyone have this experience.