I am not sleeved yet....soon 6/26/13

I keep wondering about libido and sex !!

I can only imagine I will be wanting MORE of it and be able to achieve better flexibility during sex! ahaha! My hubby is going to be one happy camper! Or maybe even hide from me after a while! I know we cannot have sex right away but eventually I will be ready to do the wild thing! ahaha!

Lets talk about this ladies ! No time for shyness! lol

Definitely gets better. I'm 4 weeks out and it has gotten better every week.

Plus loosing weight makes it easier to get around!!

I'm not sure. I'm 3 months out, 50 lbs down, pretty ok with my weight...but UBER self conscious about my sad boobs. They seem to have given up on life and now resemble some gelatinous sack of distressed skin. I was more sexually adventurous b4 I lost the weight. Now I'm afraid these huge flapjacks will give someone a concussion, so I'm abstaining. Til I get a reduction lol.

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I have lost 60 lbs and I'm about 11 weeks out and I was sexing it up about 2 wks after. Sex is way better because I can move around more and now I don't feel like I'm smothering!

One word Yes!

Ok, so I think I may have already replied to this one, but I'm gonna do it again just in case......

HELL YEAH IT IS! LOL!

Much better, much easier, much more fun....exciting...and I am a wild crazy woman now. My husbands head is spinning...he doesn't know what the heck to do....but he loves it! Hehe

Since surgery mine wakes me up at crazy hours.

YES!!!! I feel sexy...not tired all the time....and can get physically closer to my hubby. My drive is higher. It's a great bonus to the surgery!!!

Thanks ladies for your honesty...I can't wait to find out what changes, and how often!

I cant believe how much better the sex is. I am down 64 lbs now. I can feel him so much better. I can move all different ways. I am more confident. Before I just took my pants off. Now I do a strip down for him. He just enjoys it all. We r so much happier. Just my attitude has made a big difference. I love it now and want it all the time. He likes that. Just be confident and enjoy urself!

I'm not sleeved yet, will be on Nov 22. This thread gives me 1 more thing to look forward to!

It was always good, but since I feel better about being in my own skin......wow.

I'm almost 3 weeks out, I still have not to try!

Edited October 29, 201312 yr by DreamBig

The incentives of doing this surgery gets better and better. LOL!

Sex for me is always GREAT so to know that it will get better literally blows my mind...hehehehe

So what if your partner is still heavy and your losing? Is sex more awkward? My fear is our energy levels won't match up

I am far too self conscious to have fun, and I used to LOVE sex, all/any of the time. 'Even loved my body and belonged to a nudist colony. I am pre-op but you gals have definitely given me ANOTHER kind of hope! Having lost over 30 pounds waiting for a date, maybe it is time to test the waters and see how it goes until the big day. I miss the playfulness.