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I was sleeved on Election Day at 322 lbs. Just weighed in at 276. I've rediscovered the wonderful world of S E X after many years of just "going through the motions". My how things have changed! It was brought to my attention that it is preferred by most women to have a 'clean' shaven man. Really? Why? I just don't get it. Unless there's a true purpose behind doing it, I just can't see myself doing that.

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I suggest you ask the ladies you are having S E X with .

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Some people like it because it makes things look bigger. From a girls point of view... For me it doesn't matter either way. As long as its not a jungle down there.

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One question, do you like picking pubic hair out of your teeth? lol just say'n

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Without going into detail, I prefer it smooth if I'm going to be going down there.

I'm married though. I agree w the poster that suggested you ask the women you're with.

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I don't want it to look like a pack of wild spiders are running amuck. :)

slightly groomed is good with me. It doesn't have to be clean shaven. Just use trimmers with a #6 and that should give you approx an inch of hair growth.

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For me I like clean shaven men because 1. i don't like hair any other place than on a head and certain area of face. 2. if a person has hair under the arms after a shower(even w/ anti perspirant/deodorant )it can smell funky, this being said, hair traps smells from sweat and such. W/out hair, fresher & cleaner and that is jusy MY opinion. That goes for ladies area too. Though some like to argue the fact that hair is there to lessen bacteria from getting into your privates...I'd still shower, shave/wax and take my chances. Happy Sexing!! :)

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I personally only care about cleanliness and smell. So, trimmed is how I generally prefer...if it smells clean and I'm not getting lost in a forest then it's fine. As far as myself goes, I got laser hair removal down there. I just don't think it's attractive on a girl and hair traps smell which I dis-like so I'm extremely happy with my decision as far as that goes :)

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LMAO! Too funny the posts here. I've been with shaven and well....not. I like a well manicured lawn but it doesn't have to be shaven. I don't like looking like I haven't hit puberty so a little hair is nice- with both sexes. ;)

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Ha!! Who said anything about shaving their privates!! My post only referred to a "clean shaven man". Just kidding....I appreciate the input. I think I get it - it's a matter of personal preference and there's no real reason either for or against. All is well, thanks. I'll now shut up, grab a Protein Shake, and go back to being a creeper on this board! Happy Holidays All!!!

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I dint think any female prefers a full bush. Lol

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I don't want it to look like a pack of wild spiders are running amuck. <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' />

slightly groomed is good with me. It doesn't have to be clean shaven.

LMAO! Yes!

It must be AT LEAST trimmed short if you want a woman's face near it. You don't want her to need safety goggles.

It's not the 70's...we're not animals, for Pete's sake! ;)

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I think I'm in the minority here... I like it au naturel, & not afraid to use my hands to hold back a few strays here & there. Better than stubble burn on my face... ;} Only requirement...gotta be clean--& air dried!! No lint or schmegma, please!! Haha

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Do men like to give head to a woman with a full bush? Well neither do we! We aren't cave men anymore, technology has made it possible to look our best & from the point of view of an EMT who has seen my fair share of both men & women naked, just shave it, trim it, buzz it....but please god don't let it go wild!!

I know I won't be giving blow jobs to dirty wild haired men anytime soon.

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