I'll go first...

As a divorcee who shares custody with my ex-hubby, I have found myself not wanting to meet in public places but rather just send the boys out to his car at the curb. My ex is 6'5" and 300 lbs so it's not like I have anything to prove and I am not any heavier than I was when we were married BUT he is about to marry his 3rd wife and she is thinner than I am - I have never met her only seen a picture. She is no beauty but I do find myself challenged that she is thinner than me. I know it's petty. I am usually pretty confident in most situations but I have had a wicked fantasy about being at goal weight and waltzing into a place dressed to the nine's. As I write this I feel like a high schooler but part of getting better is shining light on the dark corners and owning how one feels. So I would like to leave my ex drooling and his new wife in shock as I leave with holding hands with my two boys and their new 30 year old, model beautiful, built to high heaven step-daddy. There I've said it! PLEASE SHARE YOURS!!

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Katrina - 5'5" 195# 44 yrs young Sleeve Date: July 27, 2012 GW: 135

I would like to weigh 145 pounds, have a perfect flat tummy with perky breasts, round ass and hair flowing down my back. I want to be walking down the beach with a new love in daisy duke shorts with a tank top on while my ex-husband (who bought me a pig once and made some oinking noises telling me that I reminded him of a their species) is standing with his latest bimbo longing to be with me again. Actually, he did me a favor by cheating on me so maybe I dont want him wanting me again.

I just want to be comfortable flying. I turn down trips and send an associate. Not that I want to travel, but I have turned down some nice business trips.

I'll go first...

As a divorcee who shares custody with my ex-hubby' date=' I have found myself not wanting to meet in public places but rather just send the boys out to his car at the curb. My ex is 6'5" and 300 lbs so it's not like I have anything to prove and I am not any heavier than I was when we were married BUT he is about to marry his 3rd wife and she is thinner than I am - I have never met her only seen a picture. She is no beauty but I do find myself challenged that she is thinner than me. I know it's petty. I am usually pretty confident in most situations but I have had a wicked fantasy about being at goal weight and waltzing into a place dressed to the nine's. As I write this I feel like a high schooler but part of getting better is shining light on the dark corners and owning how one feels. So I would like to leave my ex drooling and his new wife in shock as I leave with holding hands with my two boys and their new 30 year old, model beautiful, built to high heaven step-daddy. There I've said it! PLEASE SHARE YOURS!!

BTW

Katrina - 5'5" 195# 44 yrs young Sleeve Date: July 27, 2012 GW: 135[/quote']

I love that one!

I'll go first...

As a divorcee who shares custody with my ex-hubby' date=' I have found myself not wanting to meet in public places but rather just send the boys out to his car at the curb. My ex is 6'5" and 300 lbs so it's not like I have anything to prove and I am not any heavier than I was when we were married BUT he is about to marry his 3rd wife and she is thinner than I am - I have never met her only seen a picture. She is no beauty but I do find myself challenged that she is thinner than me. I know it's petty. I am usually pretty confident in most situations but I have had a wicked fantasy about being at goal weight and waltzing into a place dressed to the nine's. As I write this I feel like a high schooler but part of getting better is shining light on the dark corners and owning how one feels. So I would like to leave my ex drooling and his new wife in shock as I leave with holding hands with my two boys and their new 30 year old, model beautiful, built to high heaven step-daddy. There I've said it! PLEASE SHARE YOURS!!

BTW

Katrina - 5'5" 195# 44 yrs young Sleeve Date: July 27, 2012 GW: 135[/quote']

Girl, I'm right there with you! I refuse to come to the door when my ex comes to pick up my daughter, she is five and a talker, so I feel certain he knows I've had surgery, but I want the next time he sees me that he will regret ever having cheated!

I'm single and met a handsome man in another city. We chat on the phone and communicate electronically a lot. I know he likes me, but I want him to go wild for me! I hadn't seen him since May. Hopefully, surgery will be in August. Although I won't be at goal by then, I can't wait to attend our favorite football game in November in some skinny jeans and some stop the world high heel shoes!!

My goals are to loss 90lbs, small stomach nice hips, big ass, I really want to be able to

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Well, if we are letting our inner feline out... The ex is always an easy target!

Lol mine lives in the USA, so next time I see him I will be at goal weight.

But I have this one friend--- super competitive and showy-- I love her for lots of reasons-- but, I can't wait to weigh less than her and rock her favorite fitness class! At 80 lbs overweight and her at goal she is always asking me to

Go with her and encourages me to take the low options-- oh, I'm gonna go-- but there ain't gonna be no low options!!!

I cut my hair from my bum to my shoulders recently and she nearly died... My hair grows very fast... So at goal I'm sure it will be long enough to flick as I smile!! Lol

I love all of these fantasies!! I'll share a real-life experience, just to keep it real.

When I was in college (early 30's) I worked at a prison and I had a HUGE crush on one of the officers. He thought it was cute and amusing and basically teased me with it the whole time I worked there and for years afterwards. Recently I posted a picture of me on Facebook and he started messaging me again, privately, wanting to see if he could rekindle the spark. I flirted a bit, but turned him down. He's so last decade!

I love all of these fantasies!! I'll share a real-life experience' date=' just to keep it real.

When I was in college (early 30's) I worked at a prison and I had a HUGE crush on one of the officers. He thought it was cute and amusing and basically teased me with it the whole time I worked there and for years afterwards. Recently I posted a picture of me on Facebook and he started messaging me again, privately, wanting to see if he could rekindle the spark. I flirted a bit, but turned him down. He's so last decade! <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wink.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />[/quote']

Good for you!

I would love to run into a jerk of an ex of mine. While I'm casually dressed nice, and the hubby on my arm. There is nothing better than looking and being confidant and having my man on my arm

Well, if we are letting our inner feline out... The ex is always an easy target!

Lol mine lives in the USA, so next time I see him I will be at goal weight.

But I have this one friend--- super competitive and showy-- I love her for lots of reasons-- but, I can't wait to weigh less than her and rock her favorite fitness class! At 80 lbs overweight and her at goal she is always asking me to

Go with her and encourages me to take the low options-- oh, I'm gonna go-- but there ain't gonna be no low options!!!

I cut my hair from my bum to my shoulders recently and she nearly died... My hair grows very fast... So at goal I'm sure it will be long enough to flick as I smile!! Lol

LOVE LOVE LOVE - Thanks for sharing!!!!

Ok so this is a WAY fun topic. Secretly hoping to get down to 135 pounds. I could care less what my ex thinks about how I look. With the exception of my weight gain, my life has FAR surpased his pathetic existance, I am happily married, have a nice car, home, and a good job.

Here goes my secret fantasy....my husband has a friend, well she has become a friend of mine as well, but lets just say she is fabulous! Gorgeous, rich family, so whitty and charming, ....and Australian to boot . Even her name is cool. I imagine meetign up with her and not feeling so out of place!!!! I want to fit in with her! LOL

Ok so this is a WAY fun topic. Secretly hoping to get down to 135 pounds. I could care less what my ex thinks about how I look. With the exception of my weight gain' date=' my life has FAR surpased his pathetic existance, I am happily married, have a nice car, home, and a good job.

Here goes my secret fantasy....my husband has a friend, well she has become a friend of mine as well, but lets just say she is fabulous! Gorgeous, rich family, so whitty and charming, ....and Australian to boot . Even her name is cool. I imagine meetign up with her and not feeling so out of place!!!! I want to fit in with her! LOL[/quote']

I thought this was taking a WAY different turn!

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I thought this was taking a WAY different turn!

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HAHAHA I didnt even realize how that sounded at first!

My fantasy is that me and my wonderful husband of 32 years could be dropped of on a deserted island for about a month and live off of nothing but love, kinda like the Blue Lagoon, only no baby!