I'm absolutely SHOCKED at how many times I get hit on now vs before weight loss. Is that how normal people have to live?! It was nice at first but honestly it stresses me out and distracts me now. HOW DO I FIX THIS. Anyone else going through the same thing? It took me a while to realize all those people have been mildly flirting till my friend pointed it out because I just thought everyone was nice (I recently moved to a new city lol). It's ridiculous because I never thought my looks had *that* much to do with it. Jeez. It's not like I'm more confident now or anything either.

Went to a local Gay bar with my wife and friends... got my ass grabbed a few times. That was an interesting thing. I don't mind... I'm totally comfortable with myself and my sexuality. Made me feel kinda good actually. At least someone thinks I'm grab-able LOL. I get a ton more attention all around too. It's quite fun.

1 hour ago, GreenTealael said:

And no guy really ever wants pics of women spread eagle, no matter what they say... ????????

I mean, I do.

I don't understand the d**k pics. I can't believe anyone would actually want to see mine.

1 hour ago, GreenTealael said:

And no guy really ever wants pics of women spread eagle, no matter what they say... ????????

Going to have to disagree with you on this ...

I never get hit on ever. I get an occasional smile from time to time but it never goes anywhere. ive been told I am too intimidating due to my size and tattoos. maybe.. I don't want unsolicited nudes and a dude better not send me a d^&k pic

47 minutes ago, Matt Z said:

Went to a local Gay bar with my wife and friends... got my ass grabbed a few times. That was an interesting thing. I don't mind... I'm totally comfortable with myself and my sexuality. Made me feel kinda good actually. At least someone thinks I'm grab-able LOL. I get a ton more attention all around too. It's quite fun.

That's sexual harassment and should never be tolerated. By anyone.

11 minutes ago, oldbriannomore said:

I never get hit on ever. I get an occasional smile from time to time but it never goes anywhere. ive been told I am too intimidating due to my size and tattoos. maybe.. I don't want unsolicited nudes and a dude better not send me a d^&k pic

Trying to slide into your DMs...

1 minute ago, GreenTealael said:

That's sexual harassment and should never be tolerated. By anyone.

I don't know...if the guy or girl was cute...I'm just saying, I wouldn't be a hater. But um for me, it's def a case of all bark, no bite. ROFLMBO! And like @Matt Z I would take it as a compliment!

Just now, GreenTealael said:

Trying to slide into your DMs...

What are DMs?

3 minutes ago, GreenTealael said:

Trying to slide into your DMs...

I don't even get or use DMs lol

4 minutes ago, GreenTealael said:

That's sexual harassment and should never be tolerated. By anyone.

I'm having a hard time replying to this.

I 100% understand. And would never do that to anyone personally.

But, I was drunk, and it made me feel good, as odd as that sounds, even if I've no interest in whom did the grabbing.

I don't know where to go from here with this, I don't want to come off like I'm approving of the action... but I can't deny that it made me feel wanted, even if by people I have zero interest in... ugh, so tough!

2 minutes ago, FluffyChix said:

What are DMs?

direct messages

2 minutes ago, FluffyChix said:

What are DMs?

Direct Message = DM

Private Message = PM

Same thing really.

Here you go @FluffyChix

I am browsing this at work, if it’s about to get NSFW I need a heads up. I don’t want to be scrolling this thread only to see spread eagles and schwanns picks.