I'm absolutely SHOCKED at how many times I get hit on now vs before weight loss. Is that how normal people have to live?! It was nice at first but honestly it stresses me out and distracts me now. HOW DO I FIX THIS. Anyone else going through the same thing? It took me a while to realize all those people have been mildly flirting till my friend pointed it out because I just thought everyone was nice (I recently moved to a new city lol). It's ridiculous because I never thought my looks had *that* much to do with it. Jeez. It's not like I'm more confident now or anything either.

I've noticed this too, unfortunately not any welcome attention. :c Mostly just men sending me pictures of their genitalia on Facebook, to which I reply with pictures of hot dogs being sliced up.

Seems there are definite advantages to being öld"!

1 hour ago, BeanieSprouts said:

I've noticed this too, unfortunately not any welcome attention. :c Mostly just men sending me pictures of their genitalia on Facebook, to which I reply with pictures of hot dogs being sliced up.

Dayum. Not that I want it. But I've been on "The Facebook" since it came out and never once have I gotten a gratuitous d**k pic. LOL. I must be living wrong or something. ROFLMAO.

6 hours ago, Polymorphing said:

I'm absolutely SHOCKED at how many times I get hit on now vs before weight loss. Is that how normal people have to live?! It was nice at first but honestly it stresses me out and distracts me now. HOW DO I FIX THIS. Anyone else going through the same thing? It took me a while to realize all those people have been mildly flirting till my friend pointed it out because I just thought everyone was nice (I recently moved to a new city lol). It's ridiculous because I never thought my looks had *that* much to do with it. Jeez. It's not like I'm more confident now or anything either.

Yes it's disgusting. Makes me distrust humans.

On 11/28/2018 at 15:25, FluffyChix said:

Dayum. Not that I want it. But I've been on "The Facebook" since it came out and never once have I gotten a gratuitous d**k pic. LOL. I must be living wrong or something. ROFLMAO.

Send me your email address and I will hit you up with a pic of my schwanns free of charge.
All kidding aside I had so much game I got hit on all the time even when I weighed 440 pounds.

I have noticed women seem to smile at me more now that I am down 90 pounds.

8 hours ago, Walter.Sobchak said:

Send me your email address and I will hit you up with a pic of my schwanns free of charge.
All kidding aside I had so much game I got hit on all the time even when I weighed 440 pounds.

I have noticed women seem to smile at me more now that I am down 90 pounds.

That’s a very kind offer.???

16 hours ago, elcee said:

Seems there are definite advantages to being öld"!

A few months ago, I was talking to a single woman in her late 40s, and she said men send her unsolicited d**k pics too.

16 hours ago, FluffyChix said:

Dayum. Not that I want it. But I've been on "The Facebook" since it came out and never once have I gotten a gratuitous d**k pic. LOL. I must be living wrong or something. ROFLMAO.

I know!!! It never happened to me, and then all of a sudden I had like three in one day! and I hadn't even REPLIED to their messages. Just "Hi, hello beautiful" and then BAM! A pen!s. LOL!

Just now, BeanieSprouts said:

I know!!! It never happened to me, and then all of a sudden I had like three in one day! and I hadn't even REPLIED to their messages. Just "Hi, hello beautiful" and then BAM! A pen!s. LOL!

Outstanding! hahaha! WTG girl and congrats on looking F-I-N-E!

On 11/29/2018 at 07:57, abefroman329 said:

A few months ago, I was talking to a single woman in her late 40s, and she said men send her unsolicited d**k pics too.

Here’s the stupid part, women do not want pics of some random dudes donger. In the history of dating, a random donger pic has never led to a date led alone a long term relationship. Some men are so stupid.

1 minute ago, Walter.Sobchak said:

30 minutes ago, abefroman329 said:

A few months ago, I was talking to a single woman in her late 40s, and she said men send her unsolicited d**k pics too

Here’s the stupid part, women do not want pics of some random dudes donger. In the history of dating, a random donger pic has never led to a date led alone a long term relationship. Some men are so stupid.

So true!

I've always taken it as more of a power play, or exhibitionism vs. anyone really thinking it would lead to sex though

One word...

Narcissism.

LOL!

1 hour ago, sillykitty said:

So true!

I've always taken it as more of a power play, or exhibitionism vs. anyone really thinking it would lead to sex though

1 hour ago, Walter.Sobchak said:

2 hours ago, abefroman329 said:

A few months ago, I was talking to a single woman in her late 40s, and she said men send her unsolicited d**k pics too.

Here’s the stupid part, women do not want pics of some random dudes donger. In the history of dating, a random donger pic has never led to a date led alone a long term relationship. Some men are so stupid.

And no guy really ever wants pics of women spread eagle, no matter what they say... ????????

Edited November 29, 20187 yr by GreenTealael

Oh my! Thus my years of avoiding any kind of dating sites..no time for navigating through all the crap! Some are lucky and maybe didn't have to wade through all that! I have actually worked with men who think that part of their body is the best part they have and think that others will admire it! Not many, but a few. Sad.....

On 11/29/2018 at 10:10, GreenTealael said:

11/29/2018 08:26 AM, Walter.Sobchak said:

2 hours ago, abefroman329 said:

A few months ago, I was talking to a single woman in her late 40s, and she said men send her unsolicited d**k pics too.

Here’s the stupid part, women do not want pics of some random dudes donger. In the history of dating, a random donger pic has never led to a date led alone a long term relationship. Some men are so stupid.

And no guy really ever wants pics of women spread eagle, no matter what they say... ????????

Spread eagle might be a bit much. Nearly nakeds, titty shots, things like that are always fun.