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Now that Dr. Garcia himself is looking into it I hope we can let this go.

I also hope, regardless of the outcome and regardless which version is true, that Blindsided speak with a counselor to help her cope with what has obviously been an overwhelmingly emotional experience.

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The law of defamation protects a person's reputation and good name against communications that are false and derogatory. Defamation consists of two torts: libel and slander. Libel consists of any defamation that can be seen' date=' most typically in writing. Slander consists of an oral defamatory communications. The elements of libel and slander are nearly identical to one another.

Specific requirements that a plaintiff must prove in order to recover in a defamation action differ from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. Under the Restatement (Second) of Torts, which is drafted by the American Law Institute and has been influential among state courts, a plaintiff must prove four elements.

First, the plaintiff must prove that the defendant made a false and defamatory statement concerning the plaintiff.

Second, the plaintiff must prove that the defendant made an unprivileged publication to a third party.

Third, the plaintiff must prove that the publisher acted at least negligently in publishing the communication.

Fourth, in some cases, the plaintiff must prove special damages.

- See more at: http://injury.findlaw.com

With this being said BS has placed herself and others in a very difficult spot. SHE (either willingly or thru coercion) has OPENLY stated that SHE lied. Basically admitting libel!! If in fact what she said was 100% truth, the way that she went about expressing the truth makes her actions questionable, especially when she turned around and recanted her story. People have taken what she has said and made the assumptions that the man could be capable of "rape and molestation of a pt while under anesthesia."

If indeed he is guilty of sleeping with patients, in the United States he may be deemed guilty of moral turpitude; however, if what the OP has accused him of is untrue, in the United States he would be entitled to punitive damages (which wouldn't be difficult to recover since she's admitted she "lied".

Oh my, the drama never ends here. I suggest that you all let sleeping dogs lie and "back away from the fire".

Truth or untruth, in the end we ALL must answer to a higher power who is ALL knowing. So if it seems as though he's "getting away" with things, he won't be. And if the OP is indeed "lying" then SHE will have to be held accountable on THAT day.[/quote']

This is the way I was looking at it. From a legal point of view. And the possible business loss from these allegations. If I ever get tired of trying to lose my last 5lbs to get the ball rolling for surgery here in the states I wouldn't hesitate in considering Dr. Garcia. I've dealt with all kind of men and know how to handle them.

Notice the lack of men commenting on this story. While many women are drawn to drama (Even Me) most men stay clear.

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This is the way I was looking at it. From a legal point of view. And the possible business loss from these allegations. If I ever get tired of trying to lose my last 5lbs to get the ball rolling for surgery here in the states I wouldn't hesitate in considering Dr. Garcia. I've dealt with all kind of men and know how to handle them.

Notice the lack of men commenting on this story. While many women are drawn to drama (Even Me) most men stay clear.

And let me say that Dr Garcia and his team are great at performing weight loss surgeries. when we choose a surgeon for such an invasive procedure, what's important is his surgical competency. I would recommend him without hesitation. If you choose to use him you will be in good hands.

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And let me say that Dr Garcia and his team are great at performing weight loss surgeries. when we choose a surgeon for such an invasive procedure' date=' what's important is his surgical competency. I would recommend him without hesitation. If you choose to use him you will be in good hands.[/quote']

I second this.

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What a train wreck! I actually feel bad for everyone involved in this BS even if it's true or not. :mellow:

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I stand by the doctor in this and will continue to recommend this team. I don't need to be involved in the bullshit on this forum to know that I believe in these doctors - I will rely on my personal knowledge of this team of wonderful, caring professionals.

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I stand by the doctor in this and will continue to recommend this team. I don't need to be involved in the bullshit on this forum to know that I believe in these doctors - I will rely on my personal knowledge of this team of wonderful' date=' caring professionals.[/quote']

I second that..:-)

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I have a female surgeon. Ain't got non of that drama lol

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well, screw it, lets out the hussy.

and the perp is....... rollargirl!

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lauraven, have you ever thought about minding your own business? youre a bossy one, eh?

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well' date=' screw it, lets out the hussy.

and the perp is....... rollargirl!

lauraven, have you ever thought about minding your own business? youre a bossy one, eh?

Not sure who your calling a hussy? Roller girl?

Why her? Nice try though...

I was ASKED to put this out there...

Sorry that you have problems with it

And thank you for joining just now to post this!!

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That is disgusting. A man's life is ruined because someone didnt know the meaning of a one night stand. I understand it was unprofessional of him but I guarentee it if they were still "together" there wouldn't be an issue. Or if she knew someone who she just met overseas doesn't want a relationship.

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well' date=' screw it, lets out the hussy.

and the perp is....... rollargirl!

lauraven, have you ever thought about minding your own business? youre a bossy one, eh?

I guessed the same person!

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Yea I think we all had an inclination it was her. I almost choked on my Water when I saw someone asked her how she feels now in response to a post she made that she loved the entire team lmao

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I will say one more thing here.. Calling out someone who you "think" it is, is wrong. And for everyone that wants to attack the op?

You are not helping Dr. Garcia in the least bit..

He did what he FELT was right.

And does not need needless attacks against the "perceived" person who this happened to.

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