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Sex... Oh My God... Sex!

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First real "encounter" since the surgery (lots of fooling around, but yesterday was... the full meal deal). And... guys... wow. GET THIS SURGERY.

Before the surgery, I was a real "one minute wonder" (if I could even get lucky; at 338, it doesn't happen much). I would be panting and wheezing and see spots, and I was lucky to even be able to finish. I was used to the woman not... finishing, either.

Yesterday.

SEVEN. HOURS.

She had more... moments of joy than I could count (maybe 12? 15? 20?), and I had... THREE.

THREE. In one night! Guys, I'm 42. That just doesn't HAPPEN to guys my age.

And it certainly never happened before the sleeve.

Good god, men, if you have ANY problems in that area at all and are pre-sleeve, RUN, don't walk, and get the surgery.

UN-FREAKING-BELIEVABLE. I thought that stuff only happened in porno movies...

Ok, I'll shut up now. But... wow.

Sore... exhausted... and happy ;)

Edit: uh, it wasn't seven hours continuously, I should mention... 8pm till 3am, but not all, uh, action. Even at my current fitness level, that WOULD kill me. Seven hours of go... rest, chat, laugh... go... rest, chat, laugh... repeat until too sore and exhausted to continue! And NOW I WILL shut up.

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GreatGreat post. Congratulations and thanks for sharing! B)

That's why we ate, we were subsuming our actual desire to BONE *rotflmao*. My bf was *ahem* quite a bit younger than myself and lean and well, young enough that it was never a question of his being able ready and willing ... ^_^ aaaanywayyy, I matched him! On another note,

Does anyone know if there are any studies out there linking the chemicals that are released by intense exercise and libido? When I was training crossfit and running I became an absolute tigress and had. my. WAY.

That's why we ate, we were subsuming our actual desire to BONE *rotflmao*. My bf was *ahem* quite a bit younger than myself and lean and well, young enough that it was never a question of his being able ready and willing ... ^_^ aaaanywayyy, I matched him! On another note,

Does anyone know if there are any studies out there linking the chemicals that are released by intense exercise and libido? When I was training crossfit and running I became an absolute tigress and had. my. WAY.

Yup. Hormones released during intense exercise have been shown to increase drive and libido in both men and women. There are plenty of studies out there regarding this. It's both psychological and physiological as well, both mind and body.

Do we know which hormones exactly? Is it just testosterone or are there others? T gets all the credit but I know there are other major chemicals at play..

  • 1 month later...

Wow....have been really apprehensive about the surgery I have scheduled for July 29, 2013. Most of all the DREADED pre op liquid diet. But after reading this thread and thinking back through the problems Ive had in the BOOM BOOM ROOM....man lets do this. I look forward to getting my full MANHOOD back!

Sex is definitely a lot better after being sleeved. My wife told me she is going to start doing more aerobics and yoga so she can keep up with me.

  • 2 weeks later...

I spent the last 20 minute reading this thread start to finish. I dropped my water bottle about half way. I don't have a sleeve date yet but I can't wait to see the little guy again. I already have a high sex drive so I'm hoping post-op will be a crowd pleaser. lol

Have to agree. Pre-op I had lost 45 lbs and even then "my guy" mentioned the fact of me becoming more flexible. I will be 4 weeks post-op on Monday and am still enjoying and can't wait until I am completely skinny to have even more fun!

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  • 3 weeks later...

My testosterone is through the roof and my sex drive is higher than it has ever been. Too bad my years of obesity destroyed my self confidence and i suck at meeting girls.

  • 2 weeks later...
Sleeved sex is awesome!!!!!!!!!!

I can not wait for this!! My hubby better be prepaired cause I'm gonna rock his world! Fingers crossed!!

Best thread ever!! Making me laugh and good for you!!!! As a female my sex drive has also doubled.

Ladies, please remember this is the men's room, and thus, posting is for men only.

Thank you.

That is ironic, Susan is reminding another female about posting in a men's forum. I am not offended. Just found that peculiar.

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