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Sex... Oh My God... Sex!

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First real "encounter" since the surgery (lots of fooling around, but yesterday was... the full meal deal). And... guys... wow. GET THIS SURGERY.

Before the surgery, I was a real "one minute wonder" (if I could even get lucky; at 338, it doesn't happen much). I would be panting and wheezing and see spots, and I was lucky to even be able to finish. I was used to the woman not... finishing, either.

Yesterday.

SEVEN. HOURS.

She had more... moments of joy than I could count (maybe 12? 15? 20?), and I had... THREE.

THREE. In one night! Guys, I'm 42. That just doesn't HAPPEN to guys my age.

And it certainly never happened before the sleeve.

Good god, men, if you have ANY problems in that area at all and are pre-sleeve, RUN, don't walk, and get the surgery.

UN-FREAKING-BELIEVABLE. I thought that stuff only happened in porno movies...

Ok, I'll shut up now. But... wow.

Sore... exhausted... and happy ;)

Edit: uh, it wasn't seven hours continuously, I should mention... 8pm till 3am, but not all, uh, action. Even at my current fitness level, that WOULD kill me. Seven hours of go... rest, chat, laugh... go... rest, chat, laugh... repeat until too sore and exhausted to continue! And NOW I WILL shut up.

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Best.Thread.Ever. :D

I re-read this original post yesterday - thoroughly enjoyed it. :)

Thanks for the best thread on this forum!

  • 2 weeks later...

New to this site, with no surgery date as of yet. But I was curious and this seems to be the best forum for my question. Since we're talking about sex I want to know if any women or men having sex with female sleevers have noticed that it is easier to achieve orgasm. And I'm not talk about a "c" orgasm, I'm talking about the ones I've dreamed of, the ones from deep inside that make a woman's head spin. Just curious and I know I'll get more reponses from posting in the mens section than I would in the girls section.

New to this site' date=' with no surgery date as of yet. But I was curious and this seems to be the best forum for my question. Since we're talking about sex I want to know if any women or men having sex with female sleevers have noticed that it is easier to achieve orgasm. And I'm not talk about a "c" orgasm, I'm talking about the ones I've dreamed of, the ones from deep inside that make a woman's head spin. Just curious and I know I'll get more reponses from posting in the mens section than I would in the girls section.[/quote']

Yeeeaaahhhhhhhhhhhh. Enough said.

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Then all one needs to do is become uninhibited about excess skin... Oh and find a good man... But this is jumping way ahead of myself. But dreaming of the future is always fun!!!!!

I'm only 7 weeks post op but I can definitely tell a difference already and they can too.

  • 1 month later...

Waiting for this day 3 weeks post op, my wife is considering surgery, hoping that our non existent sex life will change, & be closer to when we were 1st married! You know sex nearly every night, instead of the current, sex every 6 months ( if Im lucky)! Its both our problems, but REALLY miss a little Mommy/ Daddy time!!!

How long were you guys told you needed to wait before having sex after surgery.

My doc kind of winked-winked and said no vigorous movement for at least several weeks, and no serious exercise for six weeks. I can tell you that my incisions/abdomen were still pretty tender last week when, um, things were tried. :) Gentle, gentle!

Thanks Jeff!

Awesome thread...it's nice to have somewhere to go where you can discuss some personal info. My hubby and I are enjoying each other once again :) Since I am only 3 weeks out I expect it's gonna get much better. We'll have the honeymoon we never had ! Lol and since I've had a hysterectomy there's no chance of an accident happening ;) Enjoy ladies and gentleman enjoy :)

Yep - I can vouch for the improvement of skills in the bedroom. When I was obese I had a very low sex drive and was a minute man and had erectile disfunction issues. Wow have things changed! I feel like a stallion! And no more erectile disfunction or minute man sessions. My new motto is - I love you long time. LOL.

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