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Sex... Oh My God... Sex!

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First real "encounter" since the surgery (lots of fooling around, but yesterday was... the full meal deal). And... guys... wow. GET THIS SURGERY.

Before the surgery, I was a real "one minute wonder" (if I could even get lucky; at 338, it doesn't happen much). I would be panting and wheezing and see spots, and I was lucky to even be able to finish. I was used to the woman not... finishing, either.

Yesterday.

SEVEN. HOURS.

She had more... moments of joy than I could count (maybe 12? 15? 20?), and I had... THREE.

THREE. In one night! Guys, I'm 42. That just doesn't HAPPEN to guys my age.

And it certainly never happened before the sleeve.

Good god, men, if you have ANY problems in that area at all and are pre-sleeve, RUN, don't walk, and get the surgery.

UN-FREAKING-BELIEVABLE. I thought that stuff only happened in porno movies...

Ok, I'll shut up now. But... wow.

Sore... exhausted... and happy ;)

Edit: uh, it wasn't seven hours continuously, I should mention... 8pm till 3am, but not all, uh, action. Even at my current fitness level, that WOULD kill me. Seven hours of go... rest, chat, laugh... go... rest, chat, laugh... repeat until too sore and exhausted to continue! And NOW I WILL shut up.

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Yep - I can vouch for the improvement of skills in the bedroom. When I was obese I had a very low sex drive and was a minute man and had erectile disfunction issues. Wow have things changed! I feel like a stallion! And no more erectile disfunction or minute man sessions. My new motto is - I love you long time. LOL.

Lol good for you (:

My surgery is scheduled for Tuesday 2/19. My wife is looking forward to the thinner me. We will be celebrating our 25th this year and she said I'll be wearing her like a hat. So, I hope all these posts about increased drive are true. However, either way I'll have fun finding out for myself.

So, um, report from the field here. The stars aligned last night for the second time since the surgery, and the tales of increased endurance, better blood flow, etc. have magically appeared here as well. If it was a placebo from reading this, I'll take it, but it was definitely noticeable to both of us.

Woot, Woot!

My husband isn't obese but now I want him to get the sleeve!

LMAO! I was thinking the same thing! My hubby is prob 20lbs overweight. Hmmm wonder how I can get him a sleeve.

All I can say about this topic is that my boyfriend is 36, non-sleever, but he's amazed at my stamina. Ha! I wear HIM out! LOL

  • 2 weeks later...

Well I hope this all happens for me after surgery!! I have never had a orgasm during sex sooo fingers crossed for some changes :rolleyes:

Wow, 7 hour sex? Sounds like the first few years my wife and I were dating (and were skinny). Now we're both overweight and getting sleeved, and our sex life is basically non-existent. I'm hoping it will come back for us, with a vengeance!

My surgery is march 19 I'm tired of going up and down in weight I miss my penis it was once nice and thick now it hides under layers of fat when its cold out its hard to Pee cause its hiding I remember when my d**k was always in the way I want that again I want my penis back

Whoo-hoo!!!! Don't hurt yourself now!

Sex is awesome. For the first time in 7yrs we felt like we were porn stars! Lolz it was amazing. I last longer, I am no longer out of breathe, and I did many positions that I probably haven't done in a while. This feels great! I got sleeve Jan30th 2013 starting weight on day of surgery was 291 and today I am 256. That's a total of 35lbs lost in 30days. If I continue I will reach my goal by summer. And to those wondering how I lost it is exercising every other day. But best of luck to all n it feels great feeling in control of things. =)

Couldn't agree more! Sex post op and now down a total of almost 70lbs has made a HUGE difference in our sex life.

While going through the preop steps from end of august until getting sleeved 12/10 I just wasn't into it at all. Partial due to stress partially due to I just felt disgusted with myself and sex wasn't fun anymore.

But now.... We are doing things we never did before! Love my "chewie" ;-)

  • 1 month later...

Sex gets amazing for us too. I've lost 40lbs and my sex drive has increased along with my confidence but I'm finding my hubby can't keep his hands off me. He's asking my for sexy bed outfits.... Lol. Sex before was 1 way and in the dark. It's amazing the things we can do being skinnier and more confident. I've let out my bedroom "ho" lol

Go you !!!

7 hours of sex! Wow Telling my Hubby to forget the darn insurance. I can't wait that long. Mexico here we Come! Sleeve with real Benefits. Yay

Sex is really good now.. my husband carry me last night for the first time ever!! It felt amazing.. I never been carried to bed.. highest weight 239 current weight 170lbs..

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