First real "encounter" since the surgery (lots of fooling around, but yesterday was... the full meal deal). And... guys... wow. GET THIS SURGERY.

Before the surgery, I was a real "one minute wonder" (if I could even get lucky; at 338, it doesn't happen much). I would be panting and wheezing and see spots, and I was lucky to even be able to finish. I was used to the woman not... finishing, either.

Yesterday.

SEVEN. HOURS.

She had more... moments of joy than I could count (maybe 12? 15? 20?), and I had... THREE.

THREE. In one night! Guys, I'm 42. That just doesn't HAPPEN to guys my age.

And it certainly never happened before the sleeve.

Good god, men, if you have ANY problems in that area at all and are pre-sleeve, RUN, don't walk, and get the surgery.

UN-FREAKING-BELIEVABLE. I thought that stuff only happened in porno movies...

Ok, I'll shut up now. But... wow.

Sore... exhausted... and happy

Edit: uh, it wasn't seven hours continuously, I should mention... 8pm till 3am, but not all, uh, action. Even at my current fitness level, that WOULD kill me. Seven hours of go... rest, chat, laugh... go... rest, chat, laugh... repeat until too sore and exhausted to continue! And NOW I WILL shut up.

Yes, sex is a LOT of work for a big guy. Ladies, all due respect, but most of the time, sex is all about US doing the work -- abs and core, legs, arms. If you're out of shape, as a guy, sex can absolutely destroy your stamina, and let's face it -- collapsing like a pile of Jello halfway through just ain't sexy.

Holy crap! So funny! No disrespect taken! It's true.

Man.... I love love love love this thread!!! I am so glad we have the Man Room. I have about 5 weeks before I am sleeved and I CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!!!! I mean I was excited before... but after reading this.... I am so ready to be sleeved. You know Ouroborous, when you mentioned the seven hours thing... I immediately thought back 13 years ago when my wife and I first were dating. I can still remember the first night we got our own hotel room....I don't remember sleeping that night...lol. I do remember being in a lot better shape because I wasn't too far out of high school when I played football. Thanks for sharing this.... I love threads like this that keep it real.

I CAN'T WAIT UNTIL I AM SLEEVED.... THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR STORY... TRULY ENJOYED IT!

Man.... I love love love love this thread!!! I am so glad we have the Man Room. I have about 5 weeks before I am sleeved and I CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!!!! I mean I was excited before... but after reading this.... I am so ready to be sleeved. You know Ouroborous' date=' when you mentioned the seven hours thing... I immediately thought back 13 years ago when my wife and I first were dating. I can still remember the first night we got our own hotel room....I don't remember sleeping that night...lol. I do remember being in a lot better shape because I wasn't too far out of high school when I played football. Thanks for sharing this.... I love threads like this that keep it real.

I CAN'T WAIT UNTIL I AM SLEEVED.... THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR STORY... TRULY ENJOYED IT![/quote']

You're welcome! You're in for some fun times, and you'd better prepare your wife for the ride, too!

You're welcome! You're in for some fun times' date=' and you'd better prepare your wife for the ride, too! [/quote']

When will you be teaching seminars to our husbands?

When will you be teaching seminars to our husbands?

Ummm... If "get fit, be creative, make sure you're doing it as much as possible, and have fun" requires a seminar, I weep for the state of masculinity!

Normally I'd make a flity remark about private lessons available for select women (so you can pass the knowledge on to the men in your life, of course -- I only aim to serve others! ) but... This is a PG forum and I'm egotistical-sounding enough, already!

But I would like to add, that old saying about a man gains an inch for every thirty pounds he loses....well, I've lost damn near one hundred pounds and.....apparently, it's true.

Whoa.... That is awesome. Now if this is the case.... This is a selling point for the sleeve itself. Who needs health? Lol. I get my sleeve in 5 weeks.... And I am running not walking towards it. I have 140 pounds to lose....so I will be looking for those "capital gains" ... Talk about an investment.

7 hours? If I were not a married woman I would be asking for proof.

7 hours? If I were not a married woman I would be asking for proof.

Lol..

LMAO CONGRATS ENJOY AND HAVE SOME MORE;))

I'm thinner now than I've ever been since me and my hubby got together. And it's so much better and easier already and I cannot WAIT to see how much better it gets as I lose more weight!!!! :wub:

Hubby says I am wearing him out and he is now convinced he needs to lose weight to keep up with me. He has about 40 pounds to lose and has started going to the gym to workout with me. I'm hoping we're bragging soon!!!

Thanks for being brave and posting your experiences!

It is truly amazing how things change. A lot of it is indeed, we do have more energy and stamina with all that excess weight gone. I also think a huge part of it is also that we have a lot more confidence in ourselves as we lose the weight, and that makes things so much more exciting in the bedroom.

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This post was needed thanks bro and all that have responded

This post was needed thanks bro and all that have responded

This was my intent... You're welcome, and yeah... Sex as a fit guy is... um... amazzzzing!

True story: my man is 60 twice my age but Lord that man can work it , now that I am slimmer I told him one of those days he will have an heart attack coz I am a freaking dog in heat.

This is freaking comedy .... But I'm so glad it's true lol