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My family and friends have such great concerns regarding the risks of this surgery! I'm so tired of hearing it! 😔

Is anyone else in the same boat? and how do you deal with it?

I need help😩

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15 minutes ago, Merill said:

My family and friends have such great concerns regarding the risks of this surgery! I'm so tired of hearing it! 😔

Is anyone else in the same boat? and how do you deal with it?

I need help😩

Yes! I haven’t told very many people at all because the ones I did tell that I thought would be supportive. Have had nothing but negative things to say. Is discouraging to say the least but I have been leaning on the couple of very supportive friends and family members. I am in 2 other groups besides this one and those have all helped. I have a friend that started the same time as me. She’s going for surgery the 16th so we have been through all of this together.

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Yes! I haven’t told very many people at all because the ones I did tell that I thought would be supportive. Have had nothing but negative things to say. Is discouraging to say the least but I have been leaning on the couple of very supportive friends and family members. I am in 2 other groups besides this one and those have all helped. I have a friend that started the same time as me. She’s going for surgery the 16th so we have been through all of this together.

Yes it is very discouraging! but little do they know is how determined I am! I just wish they realise how much I need their support! Yes I too have a few family members and friends who actually support me and are happy for me but the ones who are negative really do weigh me down (one of the negatives is my mum lol) I just change the subject now and don't allow them to make any comments about the surgery anymore lol. I'm so happy that I've joined this forum as it's given me such Insight and knowledge the more I learn the more I build confidence towards the due date which is May 16th. It's nice to see we're not alone.

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34 minutes ago, Merill said:

Yes it is very discouraging! but little do they know is how determined I am! I just wish they realise how much I need their support! Yes I too have a few family members and friends who actually support me and are happy for me but the ones who are negative really do weigh me down (one of the negatives is my mum lol) I just change the subject now and don't allow them to make any comments about the surgery anymore lol. I'm so happy that I've joined this forum as it's given me such Insight and knowledge the more I learn the more I build confidence towards the due date which is May 16th. It's nice to see we're not alone.

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You got this and will do great. The negative all

Give me more reason to push harder and harder and prove them all wrong!

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On 4/12/2022 at 7:26 PM, Fingersx said:

May 18 here too! Good luck !

Awesome! Good luck to you too. Almost 2 weeks for us to go. :)

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21 hours ago, weidemane said:

I’m getting my surgery tomorrow and I had a major freak out last night. I know I can do this. But this is a lot more emotionally hard than I thought it would be.

Good luck with your surgery today. You got this!

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You got this and will do great. The negative all
Give me more reason to push harder and harder and prove them all wrong!
Absolutely! the more they try to change my mind the more I want to prove them wrong!

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10 hours ago, mjzerick2 said:

May 19th and ready, but the real test for me will be the liver shrinking diet!, but hey, 2 weeks is nothing right?……

May 16th and I haven't started my liquid diet yet I hope I can tolerate it lol

Good luck with your surgery and please keep us updated with how you go😊🙏

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Good luck with your surgery today. You got this!
Wishing you all the best with your surgery please keep us updated[emoji106][emoji4][emoji120]

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Today is the last day of my liquid diet because TOMORROW IS MY SURGERY!!!!! Woohoo!!!!! I'm so so excited. I can't believe it's here already. I'm not even a little nervous. I'm just ready. I have to check in at 7am. My surgery is at 10am. I should be coming home in the afternoon on Wednesday, as long as everything is good.

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On 05/02/2022 at 21:57, Future Sleeve Diva said:



Today is the last day of my liquid diet because TOMORROW IS MY SURGERY!!!!! Woohoo!!!!! I'm so so excited. I can't believe it's here already. I'm not even a little nervous. I'm just ready. I have to check in at 7am. My surgery is at 10am. I should be coming home in the afternoon on Wednesday, as long as everything is good.


Very excited for you!!!❤️❤️❤️

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Tomorrow morning is my day!! May 3rd Im first up....need to be at the hospital by 545am. For those of you who pray......Pray for me plz that all goes well 🙏

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59 minutes ago, Mariann812 said:

Very excited for you!!!❤️❤️❤️

Oh wow! congratulations Marianne 😊it's finally here! wishing you all the best with your surgery please keep us updated🙏👍

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39 minutes ago, Crisscat said:

Tomorrow morning is my day!! May 3rd Im first up....need to be at the hospital by 545am. For those of you who pray......Pray for me plz that all goes well 🙏

Congratulations crisscat! Wishing you all the best with your surgery hope all goes well for you my prayers are with you🙏🙏🙏😊♥️

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