So, we are going to a theater performance soon and I need something to wear besides a maxi skirt or jeans!

Borrowed 2 dresses so I didn't have to buy one. They both fit, and both look okay. Asked my daughter for her thoughts on which I should wear & got the standard "Either one, they are both nice" response! ARGH!!! I think part of the problem is that I still don't see *ME* as I am now when I look in the mirror. I know they both are nice, but which do YOU like better!?!?!?

definitely the second one! They are both beautiful but that second one is really figure flattering. Trust me, I'm an artist!

The dresses don't make you, you make the dresses.

Congratulations on your weight loss.

Black and white. It gives you more definition!

The black and white one

Black and White, looks amazing!!! You've done the work, show it off!!!

love them both - but I think I'd go with the black & white one

This... it's a much more eloquent way to state my initial male reaction which would have been to go with the black/white because your curves are kicking.

Black and white. It gives you more definition!

Black n white is so much better

I say black and white one.

I'm in the same boat as you... I still don't see "me" I see what I used to look like. Weird isn't it

You look great in both but I like the black and white on better.

Black and white! Both are cute and you look great in both, but the black and white is extremely flattering, as others have also pointed out.

They are both adorable. And, as much as I love the style of the first one, I'd go with the black and white one!

black and white! the color definition in it really accents your slim shape!

I like them both.The black and white for theatre.The lace with jersey is more formal .You look great in both.

They both look great. The sparkly one might be a little dressier (not sure) but the what and white one makes you waist look extremely tiny. I would go with the blank and white.