Welcome! I do know there are a lot of men on this site that are very helpful.
We are all a community though and will try to help you in any way we can!
Kudos to you for doing a long pre op diet! I did mine from January 1st 2016 until my surgery Feburary 10th and it was one of the best things I have ever done.
Having less abdominal weight means when I roll on my side to sleep or even lay on the couch there is not as much pulling and tugging on my incisions.
Sounds like you are doing an amazing job on your pre op diet and trust me when I say it will make adjusting post op so much easier!
Congratulations on making the decision to have surgery!