Hi.

I'm Deb from N. Carolina. I started this whole process back in August after a visit to my regular doctor. After way too many years of yo-yo dieting and never getting the job done, it's all caught up to me. Now I'm heavier than I've ever been, my BP is on the rise and so is my cholesterol. My arthritis is terrible in my knees and ankles. I retired a couple years ago and I hate it because I can't do any of the things my husband and I talked about doing at this time in our lives. It's time to move forward.....

My surgery is scheduled for Nov.11th. I'm excited and scared at the same time. I'm hoping that others that are getting ready to have their surgery in November might be interested in connecting to create a support group. Let's make this journey together and be there to support one another no matter where we live or what our ages may be.

I've been looking at many of the other discussions and some are great, but I have a hard time keeping up with all of them in different places. I'm wondering if a group like this would make it easier to keep tract of whatever we want to talk about.

What do you think????

I look forward to hearing from folks.

Deb

Hello. I'm new to the group. My date is Nov 10 in Memphis TN and I'm nervous as hell lol. Starting to question my decision.

Being nervous is ok. If you weren't the slightest bit nervous, I'd be worried about ya! This is a huge decision and will make the rest of your life healthier and physically easier to live. I don't know about you but I have such difficulty doing some of the most basic things. The thought of no more insulin or pills, and never having to find the largest chair in the room is absolutely worth it. Good luck to you! You can do it!

Hi! Mine is scheduled for November 11th. I am so very excited. Ready to start my new life

Nov 19th is my date (lap ban). I am starting liquid diet tomorrow ????. I am ready, I have been practicing for weeks now. What I mean by practicing it is, I have gone a few days without eating ( liquids only) just to see how I feel. The first day I did get a really bad headache but after that the headache went away. I did that a few times and so I think I'm really ready for the full 2 weeks. Already lost 8pds. I will be cooking for the week for my family. Big pot of chiili, spaghetti sauce, and stew. I will label everything and they are set. We had a family meeting because I need their support. The 2 weeks before and 2 weeks after are the hardest. I am determined to do this. I am nervous and scared but I am also very excited.

Hi! Mine is scheduled for November 11th. I am so very excited. Ready to start my new life

Me too. I'm really excited too, and look forward to being able to buy those "skinny" jeans next year at this time. Problme is that I'm really starting to panic. I'm not sleeping very well, and I find myself a little fixated on the things that can go wrong. I know that's not good. When I catch myself I try to get back to thinking all the good reason why I'm doing this.

Hello. I'm new to the group. My date is Nov 10 in Memphis TN and I'm nervous as hell lol. Starting to question my decision.

Please don't question your decision. I think all of us on this board have done that, and after you do it once or twice you begin to realize that there isn't anything on this planet that we deserve to do for ourselves more than this surgery.

I'm on Nov. 11th. This group is a really good one. The support is great and the people are wonderful. I think next year around this time we should all pick a date to Celebrate together no matter where we are. How we celebrate can be decided as this year unfolds.

I'm November 13th and also in NC!!

I can't believe it. I looked at your profile and recognized your doctor's name. I live in Monroe.... I'm having my surgery done at CMC Northeast on the 11th. We definately need to get together. Maybe after we're on our way and feeling good we could meet somewhere ( like a park) take a nice walk and sip some Protein Water together.

Message me if you're interested in trading contact info.

Deb

Its so great to see so many caring people on this board, I am truly blessed to find you all so looking forward to the new friendships and being able to support one another!

Jenn and Jeffrey...........Welcome to the group!!

DaBliss, thank you for adding me as a friend! Anyone else is welcome to also if you'd like

Julie

Thank you for welcoming me!! Is it possible for you guys to friend me? I've tried to figure it out, but I can't seem to get it. Anyhow I'm getting very excited as the clock ticks towards Tuesday.

Hi I'm Jenn I have surgery in Fairfax Virginia November 4th. Would love to keep up with anyone on this thread. Get in touch. Good luck to all with their upcoming surgeries.

Hi Jen. How's that cold. I've been praying for you.

Anyone freaking out yet? The first round of November surgeries is about to start (unless someone's hospital does weekend surgeries)!!! Can't believe I only have three more days of work, then I'm having surgery!

Surgery first thing in the morning!!! Scared but very relived

Yay!! You will do great!!

Anyone freaking out yet? The first round of November surgeries is about to start (unless someone's hospital does weekend surgeries)!!! Can't believe I only have three more days of work, then I'm having surgery!

Yay congrats! ???? I'm freaking out already and I'm only on the 18th! Good luck, you will do great ????

Hi Jeffrey thanks for asking the cold is a little better. I rested all day yesterday and drank tons of fluids , I've been gargling with salt water and taking it easy today. I think I'm going to be okay for surgery. It hasn't moved to my chest yet that was what I was worried about. Hopefully tomorrow will be even better and maybe I won't even mention it to my surgeon. Also thank you Schwinn girl 1987 for welcoming me to the group. Good luck to you Jeffrey coming up on Tuesday.... keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Lashante23 good luck with your surgery in the morning. You got this.

Surgery first thing in the morning!!! Scared but very relived

Good luck in the morning to you ???? we'll be thinking of you !