I saw the dietician Today. I feel good he measure my belly. Wow! I have a 33 inch waist it was about 42 inch before surgery & diet. He advice me on food & such. He told me he doesn't want me eating anything with fat. So make sure it's zero. I guess now I have to watch out for sugar & fat.

I come home feeling good next appointment in 2 weeks. Tell hubby why the f** did I do that for. He starts with why do you need a dietician for? You don't know how to eat? Who you were raised by didn't they teach you the right way to eat? I was like ok I'm sorry I mention anything. I won't say anything else. He says my 4 year old needs one. (She has a nutrionist & she's still not gaining enough weight,but she's fine.)

Now I'm feeling sorta bad. Like only this group & Facebook has support. I feel sad like no one cates but I'll be fine. Thanks for reading

Keep your chin up no man will make you a strong woman you have to do that your self.

Of course

If you need a ear to pull on feel free to yell over at me iv been down this long ugly road before

If you need a ear to pull on feel free to yell over at me iv been down this long ugly road before

Thanks I know what I want now. I want to be mentally prepare. It's not easy after over 16 years to be depended on a man to take care of you even if you work also. I don't talk to my mom so I'm not going to beg her to take me in. I'm not going to a friends house. That's not my style. I need my bills paid & I need my own money to get what I need.

Luv ya!! it's hard I know cuz ive been there but when ur ready and have had enough u will be ready to go, just stay strong and remember u an ur kids are precious

Luv ya!! it's hard I know cuz ive been there but when ur ready and have had enough u will be ready to go' date=' just stay strong and remember u an ur kids are precious[/quote']

Thank you yes my kids are number 1 that's why I'm not moving yet to get into a worst place or neighbor. I have to suck it up for a while. Before I make the final decision I will however attempt to convence hubby to get counseling. I will never ever tell him I saved money to move. If he feels- thinks he's too macho to go then I'm just leaving, I'm not wasting more of my life with someone that won't change his ways.

I wanna strangle this man... I made some sramble eggs with salami, toast with butter, bacon & cafe. He leaves the house knowing Breakfast is on the table. He comes back looking at the time saying is it 2pm in other words I give him breakfast at that time. When i make breakfast it's between 9am-11am

It's like a night mare.

Mamiof3kids I looks at it this way

Some people are not worth the jail time.

My wife's ex was just like your husban he would push a woman around but wouldn't push me. Had to ask him one day to his face if that made him feel like a big man. I can't tell you what he told me to go do to myself. So I ask him to see if he was man enough to push me. He couldn't get away from me fast enough.

13 years ago he was coming out of the bar that he hangs out in at closing time and somebody beat the crap out of him( not me) I was 600 miles away and could prove ithis girl friend says he hasn't hit her since then.

Be Strong

Mamiof3kids I looks at it this way

Some people are not worth the jail time.

My wife's ex was just like your husban he would push a woman around but wouldn't push me. Had to ask him one day to his face if that made him feel like a big man. I can't tell you what he told me to go do to myself. So I ask him to see if he was man enough to push me. He couldn't get away from me fast enough.

13 years ago he was coming out of the bar that he hangs out in at closing time and somebody beat the crap out of him( not me) I was 600 miles away and could prove ithis girl friend says he hasn't hit her since then.

Be Strong

Thanks

The guy sure got what he deserve.

Update Mr. Macho man will attend counseling to see if this marriage could be saved.

Update Mr. Macho man will attend counseling to see if this marriage could be saved.

I'm so happy for you! I hope things will work out for you - just remember it will be a process. Best of luck and we are here for you xo

Update Mr. Macho man will attend counseling to see if this marriage could be saved.

I'm happy for you too. At the end of the day you can say you tried. Best wishes to you.

Thanks I'm still saving secret money just incase.

Great that's a step in the right direction for him. Shows he may care after all. Good luck

That's good to hear, on both fronts saving money ( just in case ) and he is going. Hope everything works how it is suppose to.

Update Mr. Macho man will attend counseling to see if this marriage could be saved.

Yeahhhh best news of the day. .