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Luv ya!! it's hard I know cuz ive been there but when ur ready and have had enough u will be ready to go, just stay strong and remember u an ur kids are precious

Kizzy you look wonderful keep up the awesome work!!

You look terrific !! I hope to get down to a size 6

Yes I had my RNY gastric bypass open an My scar is only about3 inches long but I was also told that mine was one of the smallest incesions my Dr. Had made idk why but that's what the nurses told me . My Dr. Also only does open RNY surgery , I won't lie it hurt to do anything take showers getting up going to the bathroom etc. You really need someone to help you with the first 2 weeks luckily I had my husband . You will do fine though the pain when I got out of surgery was a burning sensation from very deep inside my stomach area an even the morphine drip every 20 min was just taking the edge off but you will get through it walking really helps you heal faster an you will start to notice it by week 2 of recovery Goodluck and Godbless

That's so great !! I have been shopping at VS also I used to wear a 44 ddd an know I wear a 38dd an size large undies !! It's so wonderful to know that I dnt have just lane bryant of fashion bug anymore , Anyways great job keep up the awesome success !!!!

Hey Susie welcome!!

Well it depends if you have any health problems because of being overweight and if you have been on a supervised weight loss plan like Jenny Craig or nutri- system cuz I was on Jenny Craig when I was in my teens an my Dr. accepted that so I did not have to do the 6 month weight loss thing people have to do I got approved in like 2 months

I know ! When I lost weight and became about a size 14 I noticed people looked at me different in a good way , an as I lost more weight their was a acceptance that I never felt when I was heavy I mean I would get guys tryin to get at me when I was heavy but now its respectfully done not gawking but things like opening the door an just things like that an everytime I go somewhere without my Hubby I gatta go the other way when I see a guy tryin to flirt but it's sad how the world treats a heavy person vs a thinner person

Hello personally I like Bariatric Advantage because it's like 160 cal and like 35 grams of protein they have a whole bunch of flavors too just go to their website bariatric advantage . Com hope this helps

Yes you carry your weight good!!

Funny cuz I do the same for my kids an Hubby lol I enjoy watching them enjoy the food I make crazyyyyyyy

I feel bad for the ladies that don't get enough support from their hubby's mine supported me and still does to the fullest an it helps so much. He's even gunna pay for my plastic surgeries, I didn't think he would be so supportive I thought he was gunna pull a insecurity thing on me an make things hard or what not but he didn't he's been so great!! I prey that some of the ladies that are going through a tuff time somehow get the support they need from their spouses

I think everything will be fine I do happen to notice that their are little words of Faith on here as well, but I do try an mention it when possible but really no responses , but we know without GOD none of this or anything else would be possible .

Well you know that soft food doesnt hurt your new stomach as much an also you may not feel the pain the same way than if you were eating meat. That's what I notice anyways yogurt an things like that I can eat about 6oz but meat or things like that 3 bites hello goodbye I'm done lol your doing fine

Yea I do the samething when it doesn't come up on it's own an it's making me feel so sick Don't feel bad:)

I don't think she's jealous, an you know that's you're opinion that he's the hottest guy on here we live in a world filled with hot guys it's not all an Internet world

O no were not enemies , you give direct straightforwardness advice an good advice St that we need more people to do that instead of skipping around the subject you're a great person an from NEW YORK!!! New yorkians tell it like it is

I've had my niece tell me before I had the surgery if I was pregnant and I was so embarrassed and I really do have a large body frame and big bones my Dr. Told me that he said my goal weight I'd 160 for my height I'm 5 ft 8 in and 185

Well the way you will know you are full is when there is a feeling of fullness and satisfaction. Don't overfill your new stomach though because you will have such a strong sensation to vomit and very violently. and as time goes by your brain will automatically know what your limit is because it's used to eating a certain amount all the time but that's what happened in my case I don't know if everyone kinda feels that way but I hope it helps you at least a little bit

No it's ok you did not upset me at all everyone sees things differently sometimes an that's ok it's natural

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. it shouldn't be like this , I really hope and prey it will get better for you and they fix whatevers wrong hang in there girl

You know what beleive what you want I DON'T CARE !!! I can only say I try to live by God's rule's an it's hard ,, but he helps me to do the right thing an I know he can Only judge me and everyone have a good day and Godbless