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I'm 2 weeks out and without too much detail... My sex life with my boyfriend is up and running!!!

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I had sex the same week with no problems. It's all about finding a position that is comfortable for you, and easy on your incisions. I would just say refrain from overly aggressive sex, LOL.

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LOL I waited about a week and thats all I could wait..

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My husband and I only waited a couple days, and we were fine. Like others sad start off slowly nothing crazy, but I'm only 5 weeks out and we can do crazy again no problem!

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If this is all true..then I have nothing to worry about at all for surgery tomorrow. I mean if you girls are having sex the same week as you had 3/4 of your stomach removed then why in the world having I been stressing, biting my nails off and writting in case I should die letters to my family...lol...and I dont even care about sex. My hope was to work in the first week..lol

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Whoa there lady, first week sex is a lot easier than going back to work......Unless you lay down on your back at work that is. :P

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You all are pretty funny in your responses:) I had sex about 2 1/2 weeks out, but probably could have sooner:)

Don't worry you'll be fine. You'll know when your ready.

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Whoa there lady' date=' first week sex is a lot easier than going back to work......Unless you lay down on your back at work that is. :P[/quote']

Oh man lmao!!!!

You're hilarious but it's so true!

I need a job like that :P

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I think you can have sex when you are ready....wait 6 weeks before you start wearing lamp shades and swinging from chandliers...lol

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I hope my husband doesn't read this thread, I told him 6 weeks and he believed me. He doesn't need to know the truth :)

Revision 1/31/13 by Dr Cabrera and Venezuela in MX

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My doc said 2-3 weeks. ???? I hope?

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Not everyone gets stitches....I didn't. I had steri strips...and my incisions were completely closed by day five. I had sex at about a week out....and it was great. Heck I gave birth' date=' had my va jay jay stitched up from the v to the a and still had sex less then 3 weeks after that. All those dissolvable stitches were gone by then even.

Try it...if it hurts then don't do it....if it doesn't.....yeah you! Lol[/quote']

Wooohooo!!! Ridem' cowgirl. Ok ladies read and take notes this chickee is making sense here. cliff notes 1. Steri strips on the belly 2.disolvable stitches for the cooter 3. Don't wait or hesitate get into bed and love someone!!

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Oh man lmao!!!!

You're hilarious but it's so true!

I need a job like that :P

Currently accepting applications!!

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I hope my husband doesn't read this thread' date=' I told him 6 weeks and he believed me. He doesn't need to know the truth :)

Revision 1/31/13 by Dr Cabrera and Venezuela in MX[/quote']

So wrong!!

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