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I want to wear a dress without shorts underneath. Maybe try surfing again.

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I want to wear a dress without shorts underneath..

Amen to that!

I just want to feel good about myself again

Just Do It!!!

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I want to enjoy day by day without all the drugs I have to take today.

I want to do the Susan g Komen without having to stop for air.

I want to shop in the regular size department without getting looks.

I want to get on a plane and fasten my seat belt without an extension.

I want to buy a sexy swim suit.

I want to live life!

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Keep em coming!

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I want to play with my grandson ALL DAY without being winded or hurting..

I want to go on a cruise, with an awesome bathing suit to an amazing place..

I WILL go white Water rafting through the Grand Canyon on my 50th..

I WILL go on a long distance motorcycle ride that doesn't hurt or embarrass me...

I WANT TO LIVE!

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I want to:

Not overpack when I travel because I never know what will make me feel fatter and ruin my day because I hate being in my skin.

Kickboxing.... Yeah kinda always wanted to do this but I feel ridiculous.

Dance for more than a minute and laugh it off because even though everyone says I dance great, I just don't think a fat girl like me should move like that. And I think people will make fun of me from a distance.

Work all day and run around ( I am a chef) and just be tired, and not in so much pain I can't see straight.

To look at myself in a mirror and not to be disappointed that my mental picture of myself is not what I am seeing.

To actually look at the whole me in a mirror and not just pieces at a time.

To wear a bra that fits well, and not have armpit fat. And then try to shimmy it back into the bra ( some of the girls here might know what I am talking about. Raise your arm to do something and plop... Right back out.)

No more CHUB RUB !!

I have just hit my pre surgery goal weight yesterday! I am very happy.

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I want to be able to play with my daughter without being in pain or without having shortness of breath...

I want to be able to stand beside my man and know that he is lucky to have me...

I want to look great in my wedding photos when I get married in may...

I want to be able to wear a bathing suit without worrying about what people think about me...

I want to wear shorts for the first time since I can remember...

I want to go to a Water park and have FUN!

I want to go to an amusement park and not worry about wether I will fit in the seats...

I want to go shopping and not have to buy plus size clothes... I want to say good bye to lane Bryant bras and panties...

Sooooo many things I want... I could go on and on and on...lol

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This one cracked up Hubby:

I want to go streaking without my thighs slapping together.

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Lmao.....thighs slapping together! So true!!!!

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I want to be a skinny bride next fall when I walk down the aisle.

I want to have skinny sex ( all the time)

I want to run a 5k

I want to wear a dress and not get chub rub.

I want to shop like a normal girl and not have to try on everything.

I want to shower with my fiancé.

I want to keep up with my 1 year old.

I want to flash someone.

I want to not worry about how big I look in a booth at a restaurant.

I don't want to be the big girl with the pretty face anymore.

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  • Buy a cute retro dress @ Anthropologie
  • Go on a hot air balloon ride with my daughter
  • Run the Color Run with my sister.
  • Get a cute short haircut
  • Go to the annual fundraising gala for my daughter's school in a fabulous dress

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I want to chase my daughter around the park

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I want to have more children

Be careful what you wish for! lol

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I want to go shirtless when ever, where ever it's appropriate; the beach, doing yard work, etc.

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I want to go shirtless when ever, where ever it's appropriate; the beach, doing yard work, etc.

so glad to see your profile pic to know you are a man hahahahahahaha

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I haven't thought about this at all really, except that I have always wanted to run but have been too heavy. So let's see...

Run

Savor feeling good physically for many days in a row

Not being the fat girl or fat lady all of the time who is always feeling self conscious and awkward

Stop buying "temporary" clothes that are super cheap because my size changes

Not sure what else. I'll keep thinking.

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