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Now I am REALLY looking forward to my surgery! Will be able to set my inner 'ho free....ha ha! Super post!

Spoken like a true fellow Hoosier freak! ;)

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Best.Thread.Ever. :D

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I re-read this original post yesterday - thoroughly enjoyed it. :)

Thanks for the best thread on this forum!

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New to this site, with no surgery date as of yet. But I was curious and this seems to be the best forum for my question. Since we're talking about sex I want to know if any women or men having sex with female sleevers have noticed that it is easier to achieve orgasm. And I'm not talk about a "c" orgasm, I'm talking about the ones I've dreamed of, the ones from deep inside that make a woman's head spin. Just curious and I know I'll get more reponses from posting in the mens section than I would in the girls section.

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New to this site' date=' with no surgery date as of yet. But I was curious and this seems to be the best forum for my question. Since we're talking about sex I want to know if any women or men having sex with female sleevers have noticed that it is easier to achieve orgasm. And I'm not talk about a "c" orgasm, I'm talking about the ones I've dreamed of, the ones from deep inside that make a woman's head spin. Just curious and I know I'll get more reponses from posting in the mens section than I would in the girls section.[/quote']

Yeeeaaahhhhhhhhhhhh. Enough said.

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Then all one needs to do is become uninhibited about excess skin... Oh and find a good man... But this is jumping way ahead of myself. But dreaming of the future is always fun!!!!!

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I'm only 7 weeks post op but I can definitely tell a difference already and they can too.

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Thanks

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Waiting for this day 3 weeks post op, my wife is considering surgery, hoping that our non existent sex life will change, & be closer to when we were 1st married! You know sex nearly every night, instead of the current, sex every 6 months ( if Im lucky)! Its both our problems, but REALLY miss a little Mommy/ Daddy time!!!

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How long were you guys told you needed to wait before having sex after surgery.

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My doc kind of winked-winked and said no vigorous movement for at least several weeks, and no serious exercise for six weeks. I can tell you that my incisions/abdomen were still pretty tender last week when, um, things were tried. :) Gentle, gentle!

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Thanks Jeff!

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Awesome thread...it's nice to have somewhere to go where you can discuss some personal info. My hubby and I are enjoying each other once again :) Since I am only 3 weeks out I expect it's gonna get much better. We'll have the honeymoon we never had ! Lol and since I've had a hysterectomy there's no chance of an accident happening ;) Enjoy ladies and gentleman enjoy :)

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