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Superfreak...dude I feel you. I feel like I could go on and on myself. I even find myself getting aroused some much easier and faster til it can get annoying. lol. But you know what Im glad you put this up because I wanted to but my wife wouldn't let me. LMAO!!!. So I want to back up everything that you said. If I had known I would be like this..I would have done it sooner. I did this to be healthy but this new found manhood is one hell of a perk. In this case "Believe the Hype".

You can't tell your secret lol! Wifey won't like.

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I love this topic! Thank you ouroborous for bringing this up! Not to get too graphic here' date=' but one thing I have really enjoyed during sex is being able to watch what is going on down there! I have lost 131 lbs in my journey and in fact just hit my goal (yea me!) while my wife has lost 30 lbs and is at her ideal weight range. It is amazing being able to see what I missed for so many years. It is such a turn on to see my wife "work her magic" as well as watch "the action" of the "motion" down there! (That's as non graphic as I can get.) And yes, it's true...IT GETS BIGGER!!! Woooohoooo!!! I've read about the hormones in both men and women get released into our system that were previously stored in our fat cells. I believe this! Sex is better than ever![/quote']

Graphics are good ;) We're all adults. Have fun!

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I have yet to be sleeved and I am most certainly not a man but I have a question:

As is I have an "above average" sex drive and I am honestly afraid of how awful I'll be post op with the hormones and the new confidence. My fiancé doesn't have my drive. He doesn't complain and enjoys what we do' date=' but I'm scared I'll end up tying him up in the house and breaking the poor thing lol. I'd post this in the powder Room but it seems most women there are complaining about being groped too much by their men and I see myself chasing mine down. Guys? Opinions?[/quote']

Lol! Love it. ^^^^welcomes groping

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Lol! Love it. ^^^^welcomes groping

Haha I can't help it! If I've got boobs this size and I'm not breast feeding a child since I have no kids they had be a pay off. If I carry cantaloupes everyday they had better get some action!

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Haha I can't help it! If I've got boobs this size and I'm not breast feeding a child since I have no kids they had be a pay off. If I carry cantaloupes everyday they had better get some action!

Lol! I want new boobs after this. I haven't been sleeved but I can imagine after baby and then losing a lot of weight. ;)

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Lol! I want new boobs after this. I haven't been sleeved but I can imagine after baby and then losing a lot of weight. ;)

Hope they don't end up like mine... From DD to a small C... Like wet tube socks lol

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Sadly, the partner that I had this... encounter with has since moved on, but I've confirmed that the benefits persist, since then.

Hooray, sleeve!

I keep saying that it's too bad you live in Washington state. ;)

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I have yet to be sleeved and I am most certainly not a man but I have a question:

As is I have an "above average" sex drive and I am honestly afraid of how awful I'll be post op with the hormones and the new confidence. My fiancé doesn't have my drive. He doesn't complain and enjoys what we do' date=' but I'm scared I'll end up tying him up in the house and breaking the poor thing lol. I'd post this in the powder Room but it seems most women there are complaining about being groped too much by their men and I see myself chasing mine down. Guys? Opinions?[/quote']

I am with Liz...I am in my prime(40's) and he has never been able to keep up with me...boy am I in trouble!

I always feel like teenager...I can't keep my hands to myself EVER (:

And my husband was again the brother/husband idea(I asked jokingly)

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I just experience this for the 1st time last night! 1st time since my surgery! Yippee

Congrats, how does it feel? The same as the usual one or another level? :)

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I am with Liz...I am in my prime(40's) and he has never been able to keep up with me...boy am I in trouble!

I always feel like teenager...I can't keep my hands to myself EVER (:

And my husband was again the brother/husband idea(I asked jokingly)

What do you mean brother/husband idea?

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What do you mean brother/husband idea?

I was being silly...like the show sister/wives

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Whew, I was a little concerned, but afraid to say anything. Lol.

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I was being silly...like the show sister/wives

Ohhhh ok I get it now. I was like huh? Your husband is your brother? Lol! Was totally confused. :P

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Ohhhh ok I get it now. I was like huh? Your husband is your brother? Lol! Was totally confused. :P

Lol...no Jerry Springer here :)

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Now I am REALLY looking forward to my surgery! Will be able to set my inner 'ho free....ha ha! Super post!

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