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Im wondering how my dear BF is going to handle me after surgery since he cant even keep up with me now...lol

Ive been heavy my whole life ...I love Sex ....but dang all of you have made me realize I might become a fanatic once I get a taste of sleeve sex :-D

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I'm the same... I love sex now.. wonder what it will be like after surgery ;)

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I never had issues during my obese times, when my wife and I did the no pants dance together for the first time, she had to tap out and get a bottle of Water from the fridge, it seems to take me for forever to get the task done, again, no issues however during the process, just seems to take me longer than I guess average guys, or at least the ones I speak with.

Post op sex: I'm down about 85 pounds, and we've discovered we can't go "quickie" style in doggie anymore, it causes too much pain. My wife has lost 30 pounds as well, so I think the combination has made a huge difference. To the ladies, be crazy careful when you've lost a lot of weight, from my wifes reaction there was no pleasure about it. To the guys, be easy for the first little bit until you've tested the "canal" and make sure nothings going to get hit/jarred around that isn't supposed to be. We are trying new positions, last night we did something I'd ALWAYS wanted to do and it was amazing. Know those scenes where the guy picks the girl up and is standing while cradling her with her legs wrapped around him? Hell yes.

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i have a boner too :D

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I just need to add another reply, because I didn't want to keep seeing that last reply show up at the top of my subscribed posts on my VST app anymore, LOL

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Wow just saw that, really wish I didn't quite honestly.

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He was a busy boy last night! :P

Perhaps, but...some things are quite honestly supposed to be kept to ones self.

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I'm back and 5 months post op. Hello men's room! I'm a slow loser, only lost 50lbs do far but I will take it with a smile (and after a leak) grateful to be alive! I haven't lost any hair, I can actually fit in my fiancé's boxers and get back in some cuter clothes and my sex drive is....

GONE!

Completely! What the crap?!

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I'm back and 5 months post op. Hello men's room! I'm a slow loser' date=' only lost 50lbs do far but I will take it with a smile (and after a leak) grateful to be alive! I haven't lost any hair, I can actually fit in my fiancé's boxers and get back in some cuter clothes and my sex drive is....

GONE!

Completely! What the crap?![/quote']

Welcome back Liz!!!

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Welcome back Liz!!!

Thanks darlin'!

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Holy cow, this thread is STILL going????? LOL :P

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Holy cow' date=' this thread is STILL going????? LOL :P[/quote']

It leads me to believe as sleevers, we're hornballs :P

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Lucky girl!

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