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My DH took the kids to my mom's house last night for dinner, I was at a work function. They were all flipping through digital pictures from our vacaton together in April at Disney. ANd my husband finnally saw the differences. My mom said, he was like holy sh#t, I can't believe this was 7 months ago. And some beautiful things.

DH is never one to comment on my weight, hell he watched me gain 100 pounds and never said a thing. A blessing and a curse rolled in one. SO this was big for him. I called my mom on the way home last night on the cell and she gave me the scoop. When I got home DH was waiting up for me, there a midnight still in my suit - I got a slew of compliments. I asked where this was coming from ( I knew damn well but hey)

he finnaly noticed and I'm estatic! (sp)

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My goodness - how could he NOT notice? You have to be one of the fastest rabbits on the site. You've lost almost 10 pounds a month.

Good for you. You must be thrilled (I know I would be!)

P.S. Were you in Disneyland or World? I'm a closet Disneyphile - shhhh, don't tell anyone.

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That's so funny and so wonderful! Silly hubby, sometimes it takes them a while, but they get there. Kiss him sweet!

btw, I think it's spelled ecstatic (?) yep...I looked it up :D

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I too have one of those hubbies who never made me feel bad about gaining weight. I totally agree about the blessing/curse thing...

Your DH sounds like a keeper! Congratulations on your weight loss!! :D

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Congratulations on being noticed! My DH was always the type that would say, "are you going to eat that", but now he tells me almost everyday that I'm falling off to nothing, needless to say, I'm far from that, LOL.

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That's wonderful, Debby!! My husband and my best friend were the same, in that they didn't notice til I got out the 'before' picture. I guess it's just the seeing each other every day thing - makes it hard to tell.

Very happy for you :D

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That's awesome! Congratulations!

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