Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Ladies with large chests...



Recommended Posts

Thanks so much guys! The ladies in my support group didn't give up they bras, just their underwire ones. Most of us had the same surgeon so maybe HE positions the port a little higher. If he had to wear a bra that probably wouldn't be the case! LOL I'll definitely address it with him pre-surgery. You guys are the greatest! :thumbs_up:

My port is just above my belly button. But I did have an insision RIGHT where my underwire is in the front.

I only didnt wear an underwire for 2 days after surgery. I think i just went bra less which for me is worse then wearing an underwire.

I am at a 44F and was going to have to find a new bra because they stoped making it in F

But I just bought 44DD and they fit. little snug but they fit.

So I am happy. and my cup dosent runith over lol:biggrin2:

So dont give up your bras just cause others do. Wear what is right for you.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I think I am opposite of most of you. I am looking forward to wearing underwires. I am a 48 DDD/E. I am also short--5'0". Whenever I get a bra with the right cup size, the underwires are larger than life! They dig up into my armpits. When your obsese and short, finding anything to fit is so hard. At least I don't have trouble with shoes fitting!

When I was in my teens and early 20's, I was a C cup, and I could wear underwires. I am so looking forward to a little shrinkage! Right now, I wear bras with no underwires, and so the girls land on my stomach. I am lucky that I haven't had neck or back problems related to my breast size. I think this is because my fat belly acts as a shelf for them to rest on and takes the pressure off my back! I guess the belly has some benefits.

I will definitely be getting a breast lift after surgery. I just know when I lose the weight, they will look like a ball in a bag!

Someone mentioned buying bras for $150.00 from a specialty bra shop. I would gladly pay $150 for a bra that fits right. Does anyone know if you can have bras custom fitted?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I kind of like my girls and I really dont want them to go too far after I have my band. If they could perk up a little I wouldnt mind!! LOL

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Bras fit nice now that I have lost a few pounds. I have gotten a little smaller but am still really shapely. I might just get away nice breasts after all, but a tt may be unavoidable.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My surgeon had me mark on myself with a marker where my bra, etc hit so he could make sure to put the port in a place that wouldn't hurt. Everything fits so much better now, but that's the first place I loose for some reason. I have to double bra when exercising or playing softball. Otherwise, I'd knock myself out!! LOL.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Ladies,

Just wanted to let you know that the surgery went great. My surgeon really placed all incisions very well and none of them interfere with my bra's. Right now I'm wearing non-underwire, but that's only because of the pressure. They do not irritate the incisions. The pressure from the wire is kind of too much, so while I'm out of work, I just wear a regular bra. I look forward to my underwire soon though. My bra's no longer fit me, so I'm off to Cacique soon to purchase some more.

Thanks for all the replies! :wink2:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have a general question. I was originally in a 40D to a 38D and now am wearing a 36DD.

I know I am not filling out the cups on my original bras in that there is empty space in the tops and my straps are always sliding down my shoulders no matter how they are adjusted. However, my cup is now a DD which seems like maybe they are bigger but that doesnt make any sense.

Does the number also affect the actual cup size or am I just confused?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

HeatherO---the way it was explained to me at my one and only bra fitting, was that they first measure the fullest part of your bust---then just below, where the band sits----which ends up your band size---the 38 say----and the difference in the 2 measurements determines the cup size. Like if there is only a 3 inch difference that means you need a C cup, a 4 inch difference is a D cup, 5 inch difference a DD. Now I am NOT saying that is the right correlation, but that is how it was explained that the cup size is determined.

So if you have lost a lot of weight through your back, and through the 'side boobs' under your arms, the measurment would be bigger.....moving you to a smalller band size and a larger cup size.

It is not uncommon. Some people carry a lot of weight in their breasts and when they begin losing weight they all go away----others lose everything around them, and they remain (me too!)---whatever the size you end up, buying a bra that fits good and is comfortable is well worth hunting for!!!

Kat

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm currently wear two underwires that are sized 46FF. I bought 2 bras that were 44G online, and were too small to wear. They sat in my drawer for about a year, and now I'm wearing them :smile:

HeatherO - DD is bigger than a D. You should have stuck with a D or tried smaller.

Kat817 is correct. Also, I've found that the cup is not the same size when going to smaller sizes. The cup on a 36D is not the same size as a 40D.

so if previously, there was a 5 inch difference when you were 40 around, and making the assumumption that your breasts didn't get smaller, the difference is now a 9 inches, which means you'd have to go for a bigger cup for a 36 bra.

But with the weight loss, your boobs probably got smaller also, which is why it's important to take the measurements.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

yes indeed - getting fitted is the first step! I always used the ribcage-bust-difference calculation using a tape measure, and thought I had it right. Bra's seemed ok (no uni-boob, or digging in shoulder straps, etc). However, as a weight loss mini-goal reward, I went to a bra shop and got properly fitted - what a difference. It is difficult to appreciate how having someone else measure you properly and exactly can make such a difference. To me, that service alone was well worth it!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm currently wear two underwires that are sized 46FF.

Pixel - do you mean that you wear two bras at the same time? I've always been busty; I'm a 42DD and have never thought about wearing two bras. I'm not being a smart aleck when I ask this: why do you need two bras? I'm wondering if I'm missing something here! :confused2:

Thanks!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

lol I was wondering the same thing.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hey Ladies,

I'm currently wearing a 40JJ (or occasionally a 42H from Lane Bryant). I buy most of my bras from Bravissimo (www.bravissimo.com) - they are overseas, but had pretty bras in my size - what a revelation!:crying:

I hope they don't go too far...I am, like one of the other posters, bigger around (width of breast) than long. They don't hang too far right now, but I would HATE to lose a lot of fullness and have them start hanging. I've been a every-single-day bra wearer since my teens.

I had the dreaded double-boob for a while (boob sticking out above the cup) when stores didn't carry anything but DD as their largest size - I hit that landmark in high school. I stuffed myself into DD's for quite a while, and only after visiting a professional fitter did I realize I didn't have to stuff the girls into a smaller package any more.

I love underwires - they support me like nothing else. The only thing I've found that supports me better is my leather dress, which I wear braless, because it's got steel boning in the torso - but I digress...

I will measure quite often as I reach landmarks in my weight loss - I still have some smaller cup sizes (I kept one or two) and will move to those when I need to. I hate the 'uniboob' look - sports bras have NEVER worked for me. I also stopped wearing the 'minimizer' bras - they seem to compress you and move you to the side - I don't need any more padding under my arms :wink2:

I've never tried two bras at a time - even during exercise class - but I could see how perhaps wearing one 'normal' bra and a sports bra (over the top) with no distinctive cups could help keep bouncing at bay...

I will say that if you go to a fitter, try to find one that is NOT associated with a particular store - some of them try to fit you into what the store carries, which may or may not be the actual size you need.

Also remember - if you go down a band size, the cup gets smaller too - at one of Oprah's bra interventions, many many women were told to get a smaller band size and a larger cup size!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • KeeWee

      It's been 10 long years! Here is my VSG weight loss surgiversary update..
      https://www.ae1bmerchme.com/post/10-year-surgiversary-update-for-2024 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Some days I feel like an infiltrator... I'm participating in society as a "thin" person. They have no idea that I haven't always been one of them! 🤣
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • ChunkCat

      Thank you everyone for your well wishes! I totally forgot I wrote an update here... I'm one week post op today. I gained 15 lbs in water weight overnight because they had to give me tons of fluids to bring my BP up after surgery! I stayed one night in the hospital. Everything has been fine except I seem to have picked up a bug while I was there and I've been running a low grade fever, coughing, and a sore throat. So I've been hydrating well and sleeping a ton. So far the Covid tests are negative.
      I haven't been able to advance my diet past purees. Everything I eat other than tofu makes me choke and feels like trying to swallow rocks. They warned me it would get worse before it gets better, so lets hope this is all normal. I have my follow up on Monday so we'll see. Living on shakes and soup again is not fun. I had enough of them the first time!! LOL 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×