I'm so excited and terrified at the same time! I went out with a guy on Saturday night...and Monday night...and last night. He's called me every day since Saturday...and we email a couple times a day. He asked me out this Saturday- he wants to go to a super nice restaurant and made reservations.

As I'm writing this, it sounds so silly that I'm so surprised...but I have dated a whole bunch of players over the last four years or so and this actually feels really weird to have a guy be doing the right things. How do you get over the feeling that you don't deserve it?

He makes me laugh, he laughs at my jokes, he kisses like a rock star, and is so cute I just can't stand it. He hasn't even gone up my shirt yet!

At my heaviest, I found it easiest to date guys from large people personals. He's the first guy that I've dated in YEARS that I didn't find on one of those sites- he's from Match.com, actually. When I've dated a guy who I know likes big girls...I don't get nervous about getting naked. I tell my friends, "Ah, he knows his way around the back fat pretty well". Well, this guy didn't put that he was looking for a bigger girl in his profile so I'm so nervous but I've discovered that he knows his way around the back fat, too...so it's killing me to know if he's dated other bigger girls. I'm trying so hard to just sit back and not over analyze everything but it's so hard!

I haven't told him about the band yet. I'm nervous about that, but he is such a nice, non judgemental guy I think it will be ok. If it isn't, then he's not the guy for me I guess. I have to tell him soon or it will drive me crazy.

So..that's my excitement. Any tips on how to not over analyze and just enjoy it all?

Megan

I'm so happy for you, wishing you continued happiness. And don't forget to keep us posted, cause I sure don't want to miss any of the details. No seriously, I am so very happy for you, you deserve this and more.

Love always,

Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Woo hoo, he left stuff???? That is so cool!!!!!!!!

Patty

Finally, a good, juicy thread! So darn humdrum around here any more. Two more days till the St. Paddy's Day episode, and don't even think of leaving out any details!

Amen, DeLarla.

I will be keeping a keen eye peeled for the next episode! I love this stuff.

Thank you Meagan for sharing your joy with us!

Megan,

I also met my hubby on an online matchmaker site (married 3 years as of 3/8)! Matter of fact, it was match.com also! He is the BEST, KINDEST, MOST GENTLE, LOVING, WONDERFUL man ever! I don't care what people say about internet dating services.... this was the best thing I ever did in my life. Of course, I had to kiss a lot of frogs before getting to my prince but he was worth it!

P.S. About your shirt, make him work for it girl!

OH MY GOD. Guess who just suprised me by stopping by? He wasn't supposed to get home from Denver until tonight but thought he'd suprise me when they flew home early. Am I dreaming?

So, I told him about the band, and then we did it.

I don't have the energy to type. Must rest. I'll fill in the details later.

Oh, he had on a shirt that matched his eyes perfectly.

mmmm

Megan

So, I told him about the band, and then we did it.

I don't have the energy to type. Must rest. I'll fill in the details later.

Megan

So much for making him work for it, huh, Princess?!

Oh, that's right, he worked!!!!!! You so crack me up Megan!

OMG, I just rushed in here planning to type, "I'm too busy to catch up, did they do it yet?" And there ya go! Girl, ya got me all giddy! Are those bluebirds and butterflies floating around your head?

Woo Hoo!!!!!!!!!!

I feel giddy too!!!

Get some rest!!

Patty

LOL!!!

Megan, girl, PLEASE use a little sensitivity for those here who may not have "done it" in a long time (you're welcome, Leatha!! )!! It's bad enough to know someone else is getting it, but the "...must rest... can't lift head... more later..." is just rubbing salt into the wound... ROTFLMAO!!

Since you're so "tired," I'm going out on a limb here opining that means it was wonderful... So congrats!! I am SO thrilled for you!!! :D

xxooxxooxxoo

HOT DAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good for you - so does he have any friends????? LOL

Yippee! And think of all the calories you're burning!

WOW Megan!!!! Sounds like you had a BLAST!!!!!! Im so happy for you! and Im glad you dont have to worry about telling him about your band anymore, since you already told him LOL... HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!

He sounds wonderful, but I need to be the Devils advocate, Do you have his phone number and have called him? And do you know where he lives? So far from your posts he has called you and been to your place but not visa versa. Sorry to have to ask but a friend of mine got burnt big time by a married man, who inadvertently forget to mention to her about being married but always had an excuse regarding reasons he could not give here anything but his work # or never invited her over to his place. Oh I'm a bad house keeper, or my roommates home or whatever. Putting that aside I hope He REALLY is a nice guy. I'm married to one for 18 years not and he still makes me smile.