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14 hours ago, Krimsonbutterflies said:

My son was murdered this week, he died yesterday morning and took his last breath at 5: 46 AM. I'm devastated and trying to understand why this is happening to us, me. I will be taking a break from BP, postponing my surgery next week, because I have to prepare to lay my only child to rest. He was my biggest supporter of this surgery, so I'll be back because he was going to be there with me and believed in this.

My heart is hurting and forever broken.

I am SO sorry for your loss! Prayers for your family ❤️

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Heartfelt condolences in the loss of your child. I am truly sorry for you.

I lost my middle sister in the beginning of my Wls journey. Lost my mom 11 months ago.

I think that you are smart to postpone your surgery and allow yourself time to grieve. We are all here to listen when you need us. Wish there was more that I could do for you.

(((Hugs))) thoughts and prayers your way.

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My condolences. We'll all be here for you when you're ready. Then we can continue supporting you on your weight loss journey.

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My sincere condolences.

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May you and your family receive condolences and healing energy My heart hurts and screams for you and your son.

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I am so very sorry!! Can't even imagine your pain and sorrow. Take care of yourself. Lots of HUGS!!!

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I’m so very sorry, I lost a son at age 12 and it was and is very difficult. He would be 27 now. I’m only sharing this so you don’t feel so alone.
I don’t know how you feel, having a child murdered is unfathomable.

I do hope you take your time, seek help, find a support group and find friends that will just let you talk or not talk about it.

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There are no words....I am so sorry for your loss. We are all here for you.

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And more hearts & hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗🤗😌So sorry I can’t even imagine!

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My heart hurts for your broken heart and unimaginable loss. There are no words that can assuage, so I just add my heartfelt prayers, hugs, and support to all the others on BP.

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I'm so very sorry for your unimaginable loss. My heart breaks for you. Sending prayers.

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