So, let me first say happy Mother's Day to all of the moms on here. Secondly, I want to let you all know that I'm currently 161 lbs... which is 11 lbs away from my goal weight of 150 lbs.

?????????????? round of applause for that being that this is month 5 for me.

Tjirdky, let's discuss the topic at hand. Anyone who has followed me know that my journey with my husband has been bad . Well , it's reached an all time low. We were asleep 3 nights ago and the phone kept vibrating. I told him to answer and he wouldn't. Well we have 2 kids that are outside of the home right now so I said let me make sure it's not the kids texting him. But my gut told me this is gonna be bad. But I checked anyway. This is what I saw " You left your rubber in my bed and my baby found it""" with lil joking emoticons. OMG... my heart dropped to my toes. I felt he was cheating but didn't know for sure. Let me also put this out there. My husband had not slept with me in 3 1/2 weeks at the time. So I knew something wasn't right. I had been praying to God for a revelation in this marriage be it whatever way, good or bad because my spirit knew I wasn't being treated right and I knew he was messing around. Heck I had just caught him maybe 1 month before that trying to hookup on Facebook. So, needless to say I told him I want a divorce and this was it. No more will I be the hurt wife who is trying to sacrifice herself for her husband, nope. Already have been consulting legal counsel because it's over. Now, he swears he is gonna do right and wants his family. I told him he had 21 years to do right and if he wanted his family his penis oils have stayed in is pants.

Ohhhhhh.... here's the agonizing part for me. This is the same woman he had an affair with on me 13 years ago. Same dirty tramp. I'm like oh no that means this never ended. Which he swears it was only one time. Yep I believe that like I believe in Santa Claus. I cried for 2 days straight. Then I said forget this , on Mother's Day I put on a backless sundress ( in my new size 8 yassss) went out shopping ,had a great time with friends and felt like I was coming into my new, happier peaceful self. I am still very hurt but I thank God for revealing his evil because I don't want an std or aids because he is a hoer.

This surgery has truly changed my life. The old me would have cried and just took him bk and dealt with the pain. But not the new confident, strong Diana that this surgery helped to bring to surface. I posted before that I knew we were gonna divorce , just didn't think it was gonna be like this but it is what it is. There is someone out there who will cherish me and love me for the jewel that I am.

Thsnk you guys for all your support throughout the months. You have truly become my family.?

16 minutes ago, bigjoe1234 said:

Any before and after surgery pictures

Yes I have posted some in previous forums but I will post another one just for u. The first pic was one week after surgery and last one was like 3 1/2 months or maybe 4 months after surgery. And I just posted what I look like in the core area today. I'm still working though

19 minutes ago, tanyamann32 said:

Your doing the right thing because he has proven it will never stop !

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That's what I said... no more of this crap. Time to go.

23 minutes ago, Newme17 said:

And great job on your loss too! Looking very good!!!

Thanks hun!

Nice progress

Horrible to hear this is happening to someone who sounds like a great person. Though I do believe you will weather this storm.

As an aside, damn woman... you are killing it! You're going to give men whiplash from turning heads!

25 minutes ago, Newme17 said:

Hon. I'm happy for you right now. It's time to move on. God always turns what was meant for evil for His glory. You are/will be walking in His glory. That moment needed to happen so He can start your new life. Hang in there hon, I believe the moment you are officially divorced, a weight will be lifted. That's a good thing. ? Bless you hon!

Aww.. I receive that. I know this has hurt me but I prayed for it to be revealed and God was merciful enuff to reveal his dirty lies. I was still borderline about divorce but this last thing has made me say oh no. It's done!!!

Just now, BigViffer said:

Horrible to hear this is happening to someone who sounds like a great person. Though I do believe you will weather this storm.

As an aside, damn woman... you are killing it! You're going to give men whiplash from turning heads!

Thank you !!!! I'm trying to be like you.. I don't have the guns but my son has been showing me exercises for my shoulders, biceps and tri. He plays football so he thinks he is a trainer as well, lol. But thanks so much for the compliment, made me smile ?

5 minutes ago, bigjoe1234 said:

Nice progress

Thank you. I'm trying to hit goal by the end of June.

Everything happen for a reason I know it hurt but you just have to move on I been in a situation just like that and I thank God for it because of her cheating I married the women of my
Dreams

5 minutes ago, bigjoe1234 said:

Everything happen for a reason I know it hurt but you just have to move on I been in a situation just like that and I thank God for it because of her cheating I married the women of my
Dreams

Amen... look at God. It hurts but I feel so much better that I have actually done something about it now. I'm done. N I think he is scared of someone else giving me what he didn't , which is unadulterated, full fledged love.

You got this Diana! You will still be hurt and be angry for awhile but you will also have peace. You will be able to breathe soon. Go get a massage, girl and some pampering. You look darn good!

Been working these abs doing the ab challenge I posted about maybe 4 -5 weeks ago. They are not that cut yet but I have trimmed a small bit of fat from my abdomen. I'm ready for a two piece I believe. Lol.

Your results are amazing! His loss!!

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Been working these abs doing the ab challenge I posted about maybe 4 -5 weeks ago. They are not that cut yet but I have trimmed a small bit of fat from my abdomen. I'm ready for a two piece I believe. Lol.

Your results are amazing! His loss!!

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Been working these abs doing the ab challenge I posted about maybe 4 -5 weeks ago. They are not that cut yet but I have trimmed a small bit of fat from my abdomen. I'm ready for a two piece I believe. Lol.

Your results are amazing! His loss!!

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First off, you look amazing.
Second, you're so strong! So glad you're standing up for yourself, and getting rid of a person that treats you like this.

A beautiful, smart woman will always do good for herself. Go girl [emoji6]

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