Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

I may have a unique experience... I have suffered with Interstitial Cystitis since for 36 years. I have dealt with it by consuming large amounts of plain Water very quickly. Whenever I don't get enough water through my system, I am in pain that feels like a urinary tract infection. My biggest concern, was how I would deal with this after surgery, when I can't drink 20 ounces of water in 5 minutes. Decided to burn that bridge when I got to it. 5 weeks post gastric sleeve, I have, for the first time in 36 years, been pain free. wow! It happened right away at the hospital. I could tell coming home that I was dehydrated and I was waiting for the pain to start. Struggled to drink and waited some more. Couldn't understand where the pain went. It dawned on me that I have been a coffee drinker since about age 15 and I hadn't had any coffee yet. So I waited to have coffee. Waited to see if the pain came back without it. Still no pain. Terrified to drink coffee now. I never thought I would be rid of this condition. I've had herbal tea. No issues. I'm keeping an eye on what I eat/drink and waiting to see what happens. But as long as the pain doesn't come back, I will not drink coffee. I was a MAJOR coffee drinker before surgery. No more.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm in UK and I was offered coffee 2 days after op whilst still in the hospital. I did not drink more than one cup a day when I came home, and I drink maybe 4 cups a day now, no sugar or cream for me just a dash of milk. It's right that your tastes change. I used to really enjoy a glass of wine but now I'm totally not bothered, much to my partners pleasure as I m always designated driver now!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You might discover the coffee doesn't agree with you anymore after the surgery. But here in the uk coffee is permitted after surgery. I wouldn't allow such a small thing to get in your way for not having surgery. Good luck

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I gave up coffee and I LOVE coffee but I love my kids more. My father died early this year from heart disease. Heart disease is a slow decline that robbed my father of a better life. He was basically home bound for almost a year with constant medication. Guess what was a contributing factor? Yep, obesity. I felt like I was at a fork in the road: on one side the life I was leading which would inevitably lead to a decline in my quality of life and a painful death or doing something to improve my health so that I could live better and spare my children the burden of my choices.

If you can't do it for yourself maybe you can do it for those who love and need you.

Obviously it doesn't have to be GS but surely you realize that your body especially every year you get older is suffering the effects of being morbidly obese? I was 341 in my late 30s and it was happening to me, enough that now at 41 I had to do it.

sleeved on 08/09 surgery day 268

<a href="http://www.3fatchicks.com/"><img src="http://www.3fatchicks.net/img/bar098/slider-ard/lb/298 /180/270/.png" border="0"></a>

Sorry to read about your father's passing. My condolences.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

This is how I mourned giving up my Diet Coke. I was an addict. As of today, I am 17 days free. I switched to unsweetened ice tea (don't care for it), and each few days I would decrease the amount I consumed by 1/2, until last Friday where I quit caffeine all together. Last week I was HORRIBLE to be around! Every single person in my life got on my last nerve! As of this past Monday, I've be without moodiness and/or a headache. It was really easier than I expected. I look back now and think, "WOW, my body was addicted to chemicals and caffeine and that's not good!" I feel better now and I'm definitely not crazing the refined sugar as much. Good luck with the trials and tribulations in which you are about to embark. You got this!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My surgeon allowed for coffee as soon as I was allowed liquids. The most common reason some don't want it on the approved list is because fear of it causing dehydration. You still have to get 64ounces of Water in addition to any coffee you drink.

With that being said, I drink coffee everyday. I usually have a small cup of hot coffee in the morning and an extra large iced coffee in the afternoon.

Edited by provenzee

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was sleeved on 8/15/16 and thought my lethargy and headache was due to withdrawal. My surgeon said it was OK. Surprise, it doesn't taste the same. Half a cup and I'm done.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was told by my team at the University of Washington that "Straws" are a never again after surgery thing due to the air that gets "sucked" into the pouch.

Did anyone else hear this?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

@@Dub awesome! I pray you NEVER have a problem

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Thanks......I'm sitting down and relaxing a bit before getting ready to go in for a long night shift.

Guess what's close at hand ?

Yup....a big ole cup of dark roasted Community coffee brand with Splenda & Premier Protein (vanilla) mixed in. Ah......what a great way to start my "day".

coffee is an integral part of my life.

I no longer smoke cigs, even though I do enjoy a cigar on certain occasions.....

I no longer drink diet or regular sodas........

I only cuss on certain occasions that arise daily........

I'm well mannered in traffic.....except I believe the speed limit is more of a suggestion than anything else.....

I've made significant progress with becoming a solid citizen.........but I will retain certain vices.....the ones that bring me great pleasure and are small scale evils......such as coffee.

FWIW, I'd have told my surgeon to piss off had he not okay'd me to enjoy the mean Beans again. Lucky for me he condoned the stuff once my turbo sleeve was good 'n healed.

Now....were this a day off......I may even do something totally crazy.....replace the Premier Protein with Kaluha or Bailey's Irish and get this party started righteously........

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Even with bypass, the coffee ban, if the doc has it at all, is only for a short period of time. One of my BFFs couldn't do without coffee, she had bypass. She did develop intolerance to full fat milk, but can still get skinny starbucks with fat free milk. It's her indulgence now, and she's been successful for over 10 years. Every starbucks within 10 miles of her home knows her and her drink, and it starts with "quenti venti". LOL

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hey @@theantichick How are you doing??

Doing good. Sore, but nothing too bad. I don't like heavy opiates, dilaudid just gave me headaches, so tramadol is taking care of most of the pain for me. No nausea, tolerating liquids and Protein shakes beautifully, if really slowly. It'll be midnight before I hit my Fluid goal, and I doubt I'll hit my Protein goal today, maybe not tomorrow. But in the short term, I know the hydration is most important. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

The deal breaker for me with this WLS is coffee. I could give a crap about tea and booze. But my beloved coffee I caN not do without. Wait, let me rephrase that. Without coffee , heads will roll. I am willing to give up smoking (cigarettes) I don't do drugs don't care about booze. And willing to leave behind my chocolate and carbs. I hate to say it but coffee may be the thing to stop me from doing this. Thanks for reading.

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

I read your post with an oversized coffee mug in my hand. I only put it down because I type better with both hands. :) I begin most mornings with a cold brewed coffee and high Protein almond milk (from The Vitamin Shoppe) or Fair Life, and typically have a second one late in the afternoon. Neighbors are doing construction right now that makes me feel like a dentist drill is beside my ear, so I went for the second mug earlier to help calm my head.

Bariatric surgeons and nutritionists have their own policies about coffee, with some instructing their patients to abstain from it from life, some advising not having it for the first six months or thereabouts post op, and others simply recommending that you begin slowly and see how you respond. The last one was what I followed, and it's worked out blissfully for me. I found an excellent Decaf brew and used that during my first couple of weeks, then very gingerly tried out the real deal. There are are several Protein powders that are coffee flavored, such as Chike (not positive on the spelling), and contain some caffeine. I don't really care for them much now that I can drink whatever coffee I please, but they were lifesavers when I was starting out. I definitely would not advise that you gulp down a huge mug of coffee during your first month of post op when you're still delicate and healing, but if you get the green light from your surgeon's team you could try the protein powders and decaf. I just had a few sips of an iced coffee a couple of weeks out. Waited to see how I'd respond. Then proceeded. I gradually have added in more coffee. Now I'm back at having half a pot's worth a day. My blood pressure yesterday was 90/63, and it's typically in that range. It's never even reached the higher end of normal in the past six months. I'm one year post-op as of 8/18. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Some days I feel like an infiltrator... I'm participating in society as a "thin" person. They have no idea that I haven't always been one of them! 🤣
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • ChunkCat

      Thank you everyone for your well wishes! I totally forgot I wrote an update here... I'm one week post op today. I gained 15 lbs in water weight overnight because they had to give me tons of fluids to bring my BP up after surgery! I stayed one night in the hospital. Everything has been fine except I seem to have picked up a bug while I was there and I've been running a low grade fever, coughing, and a sore throat. So I've been hydrating well and sleeping a ton. So far the Covid tests are negative.
      I haven't been able to advance my diet past purees. Everything I eat other than tofu makes me choke and feels like trying to swallow rocks. They warned me it would get worse before it gets better, so lets hope this is all normal. I have my follow up on Monday so we'll see. Living on shakes and soup again is not fun. I had enough of them the first time!! LOL 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Still purging all of the larger clothing. This morning, a shirt that I ADORED wearing ended up on top. Hard to let it go, but it was also hard to let go of those habits that also no longer serve my highest good. Onward and upward!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×