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I beg your pardon for the title but a young person of the male gender (won't refer to him as a man since that implies a level of maturity that he obviously doesn't possess) hollered at me whilst I was riding my bike "you have a saggy ass so you better move it!" Although it is true that I have a saggy ass and many other saggy body parts, I've gotten complacent I guess about fitting in with regular, non-obese, folks and was rather taken aback. Having been obese and for my entire life I have been on the receiving end of many a cruel remark or look of disgust, pointing, stares, snickering, even unwanted groping, more times than I can count, sometimes from members of my own family. I usually turned the other cheek and went on my way. Today, however, I found myself boiling over with anger. I caught up to said young person of the male gender at a stop light and yelled at him "my saggy ass is better than your flat dick!" Then I stood up on the pedals and rode furiously away. I'm feeling a bit ashamed of myself for stooping so low.

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All I c an say is .......ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha .....lol

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So many times, so many times I have wanted to retaliate and put so called butt heads in their place. I applaud you @Chelenka. It is time for you to stretch out and make the world know your there.

Sticking up for yourself is something that most of us that have suffered from obesity have hung our heads and walked away as if we deserved such treatment.

Jack Arses like him deserved it. He probably treats his girlfriend like that! Good for you!

I no longer let it ride if I am near it or it happens to anyone anywhere. No matter what I speak out!

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Dear Saggy Ass Sisters, for so long we have taken snide comments without reacting or with a bucket of tears. I am hoping that with all of the other positive changes coming from weight loss, that I, too, will find my voice and speak-up like Chelenka just did. (What a great comeback. LMAO for me too!) I tell you what, my new saggy ass is a lot easier to manage than my old 53" belly.

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Way to go girl! You got one in for all of us lololololol

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Good for you, dumb asses like him give the rest of us males a bad name.

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Lol!!!! :D I literally laughed our loud!

It's okay to stand up for yourself, which is what you did. Don't look at it as stooping to his level; rather, look at it as giving him a piece of his own medicine!

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Stupid jerk. Should have told him it wasn't just flat, but small too. LOL.

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Hilarious! you just made my day!

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good for you!!!! i love it.

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Hey, you had every right to give it right back to him. Individuals like that are really good at giving it but have no idea how to take it. You did great, and I'm still laughing :)

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