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I keep thinking of a new one everyday. This is today's... I most definitely will not miss my underwear rolling down underneath the crease of my stomach. Is it only me who has this problem?

Most definitely not - happens to a lot of us ????

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I will not miss everyone always hearing me coming because my thighs rub together and make that swishing noise. My co-worker jokingly said I always know it's you. She didn't mean any harm but it just made me think of something else I will not miss

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I will not miss hating cloths shopping

I will not miss dreading going to some function or another because people will see how fat I am and my fiancé is skinny and them probably wondering what he's doing with me.

I will not miss over eating

I will not miss feeling guilty about everything I put in my mouth

I will not miss having to figure out what diet to try next

I will not miss being overweight

I will not miss being able to eat way more than my fiancé at times and wondering what he is thinking when he sees I have more food on my plate than he does but I'm soooo hungry I don't care

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I am new to this site and already feel very comforable. I have been dealing with being over weight my entire life. Diets work for me for a couple months and I fall off the wagon. I want to enjoy my life the way it is intended to be. At this point where I am at, it's hard to just go up my stairs without huffing and puffing. I don't like who I have become. All of those things mentioned, I deal with.

1. Flying and having to smoosh my son between my husband and I because I cannot fit into one seat.

2. Wanting to nap on my days off and gorge on fast food.

3. Not being able to play beer league softball with my husband becuase I am too out of shape to run to first base and not be embarrassed.

4. Swollen ankles all the time, and I am not pregnant!

5. Being a skip and a jump away from diabetes.

6. Knee pain

7. Having only two pairs of pants that fit me, and I sew them once a month to keep the together. They are in such bad shape.

8. My chins!

9. Chaffing between my legs when it is hot out.

10. Not being able to shop with my healthy friends at the mall because nothing fits me.

11. Crying when I look in the mirror at home because I dont't know how I got to this point in my life where I weigh so much, and not knowing how to change it.

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Thank you everyone for being so brave and vulnerable. I love reading everyone's posts.

Here are a few things that I definitely won't miss:

  1. Feeling invisible
  2. Feeling ugly
  3. Sweating profusely
  4. Having to buy ugly shoes
  5. Saying no when I really want to say yes
  6. Not fitting into movie theater seats
  7. Not fitting or barely fitting into restaurant booths
  8. Not being able to bend over to tie my shoes
  9. My back and knees hurting all he time
  10. Snoring
  11. My double chin and fat face
  12. Swollen ankles
  13. Being afraid to go on a date because of the rejection
  14. Being afraid
  15. Buying ugly clothes and speaking of clothes I won't miss wearing a 4X
  16. Not being able to get on the ground to play with my nieces
  17. Having to ask for a seatbelt extension when I fly
  18. Not having enough room between my belly and my steering wheel
  19. Not going to visit family because I'm so embarrassed about my weight
  20. Not being able to fit on the rides at amusement parks

Things I'm looking forward to:

  1. Feeling pretty again
  2. Feeling accomplished
  3. Going on more family vacations
  4. Exercising and feeing good
  5. Buying regular size clothing
  6. Buying beautiful shoes
  7. Going on dates
  8. Having sex! (I'm so embarrassed at how long it's been)
  9. Showing my face and not feeling ashamed
  10. Feeling like I have a voice w/o feeling judged
  11. Being able to run, hop, skip
  12. Maybe having a family of my own
  13. Getting my hair cut and actually liking what I see in the mirror
  14. Going to Disneyland and having fun like a kid again

I know there is so much more in each category. But it's all I can think of right now. Sending my best to all of you!

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Thank you everyone for being so brave and vulnerable. I love reading everyone's posts. Here are a few things that I definitely won't miss: Feeling invisible Feeling ugly Sweating profusely Having to buy ugly shoes Saying no when I really want to say yes Not fitting into movie theater seats Not fitting or barely fitting into restaurant booths Not being able to bend over to tie my shoes My back and knees hurting all he time Snoring My double chin and fat face Swollen ankles Being afraid to go on a date because of the rejection Being afraid Buying ugly clothes and speaking of clothes I won't miss wearing a 4X Not being able to get on the ground to play with my nieces Having to ask for a seatbelt extension when I fly Not having enough room between my belly and my steering wheel Not going to visit family because I'm so embarrassed about my weight Not being able to fit on the rides at amusement parks Things I'm looking forward to: Feeling pretty again Feeling accomplished Going on more family vacations Exercising and feeing good Buying regular size clothing Buying beautiful shoes Going on dates Having sex! (I'm so embarrassed at how long it's been) Showing my face and not feeling ashamed Feeling like I have a voice w/o feeling judged Being able to run, hop, skip Maybe having a family of my own Getting my hair cut and actually liking what I see in the mirror Going to Disneyland and having fun like a kid again I know there is so much more in each category. But it's all I can think of right now. Sending my best to all of you!

So many of these things I struggle with also!

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You know what I do at the beach and pool? I get shorts for Walmart and a cute tankini from target! They go from sizes 16w-28w in stores! No need to wear capris!! :)

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Love this thread!

I won't miss going to bed wearing granny panties and waking up in a thong!

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Soooo true!

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Amen! Or waking up with my pj pants below my waist!

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I won't miss having to turn sideways and think skinny just to get in and out of a bathroom stall. Omg who are they building these stalls for??

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