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Looking for inspiration - did you find love post sleeve? Split up from husband almost 3 years ago after 30 years together (i was a child bride, ha ha) and have made no effort with the opposite sex - forgotten how to, lack of confidence, lots of reasons.

But even at this early stage, am now getting some male attention and it's all positive. So that gives me hope - but would love to hear your stories....

Thanks

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I was sleeved on April 4th and down a total of 65 lbs. starting weight 303 current weight 238. I was single for the past 3.5 years due to low self esteem too!! I'm finally getting my sexy back, lol! I actually had a nice coffee date yesterday and was feeling good about myself. I too had no interest in dating either, but it's amazing how much more confidence I'm getting as the pounds are falling off! Luv my sleeve :) rock your sleeve and your confidence!!!

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That's amazing, both the weight loss and the way your feelings have changed. I know that for someone to love me, I have to love myself - and I am starting to be believe I am worthy of that.

Thanks for sharing, hope the coffee date is the first of many - or maybe the start of something special :-)))))) Keep in touch, will let you know how things go at this end!

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That's amazing' date=' both the weight loss and the way your feelings have changed. I know that for someone to love me, I have to love myself - and I am starting to be believe I am worthy of that.

Thanks for sharing, hope the coffee date is the first of many - or maybe the start of something special :-)))))) Keep in touch, will let you know how things go at this end![/quote']

Love yourself then others can love you.

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