Looking for inspiration - did you find love post sleeve? Split up from husband almost 3 years ago after 30 years together (i was a child bride, ha ha) and have made no effort with the opposite sex - forgotten how to, lack of confidence, lots of reasons.

But even at this early stage, am now getting some male attention and it's all positive. So that gives me hope - but would love to hear your stories....

Thanks

I was sleeved on April 4th and down a total of 65 lbs. starting weight 303 current weight 238. I was single for the past 3.5 years due to low self esteem too!! I'm finally getting my sexy back, lol! I actually had a nice coffee date yesterday and was feeling good about myself. I too had no interest in dating either, but it's amazing how much more confidence I'm getting as the pounds are falling off! Luv my sleeve rock your sleeve and your confidence!!!

That's amazing, both the weight loss and the way your feelings have changed. I know that for someone to love me, I have to love myself - and I am starting to be believe I am worthy of that.

Thanks for sharing, hope the coffee date is the first of many - or maybe the start of something special :-)))))) Keep in touch, will let you know how things go at this end!

That's amazing' date=' both the weight loss and the way your feelings have changed. I know that for someone to love me, I have to love myself - and I am starting to be believe I am worthy of that.

Thanks for sharing, hope the coffee date is the first of many - or maybe the start of something special :-)))))) Keep in touch, will let you know how things go at this end![/quote']

Love yourself then others can love you.