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To find a partner that will not only be able to support himself and his offspring but maybe pay a bill or two for me!

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Only 2 things left for me to do that I have not fulfilled. Having sex with my man while he is standing up holding me up(not sure what that position is called). I use to run track/field in school but always wanted to train to run a marathon and I plan to achieve that after weight loss.

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Can't wait to shop for cute and chic clothes at regular stores. So sick & tired of big girl stores that have hideous styles!

Buy Tons of oh so Sexy lingerie! Gotta get rid off all the granny underwear!

Get playful & naughty with "toys" (don't have any) -- that will be a huge surprise for both of us.

Wear high sexy heels

Buy boots that fit my calves

Wear Skinny jeans

Take Strip tease or burlesque lessons

Get nice swimsuit and not wear granny ones for a change dde1c

Get rid of this CPap machine that works too well as a contraceptive. One look and it's enough to wipe out all of your sex drive!

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high heels and rollerskating

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To find a partner that will not only be able to support himself and his offspring but maybe pay a bill or two for me!

I know thats right!:)

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Hopefully, WHITE PANTS this summer! :)

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Go on roller coasters again!!

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To find a partner that will not only be able to support himself and his offspring but maybe pay a bill or two for me!

I love this!!!

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Walking on road and nobody looking at me twice !

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Ok' date=' here's my real dream. I never went to a dance in school, no prom because I didn't have a boyfriend and back then plus size prom dresses were unheard of. I want to buy a slinky, blingy, sexy evening gown and go out with my husband. I don't have a clue where we would go LOL, I don't care if we go to the movies, I just want the experience.[/quote']

Take a cruise! I feel the same! I think most cruises require an evening gown, but that's one of our goals to do a cruise. =)

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I was skinny and never went to prom ...a local radio station here has a second chance prom...it was so cool I got to go to prom with my husband... I hope to hear about you buying that dress and having that night with your hubby it was one if the things I missed out on too!!!

That sounds adorable! How creative and that would be special to do that with my hubby!

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That sounds adorable! How creative and that would be special to do that with my hubby!

Do it it was a great night

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When I drop my weight I am going to try pole dancing classes I always wanted to do that...and I am 13 & 1/2 mo post op...ove only lost 96lbs n im so upset obviously it is still decent but im afraid thats all i will loose my wedding is 17 & 1/2 months away I need to be at @least 230lbs by then but im at 413 now im feeling really hopeless n i cant yalk to anyone else bcuz no-one understands

You are beautiful at any weight. Please don't listen to people who lose more weight or faster. You are doing an excellent job. Believe in yourself and know that what ever weight you are at your wedding will be fine and so much better than before you started. Learn to love the process and yourself. Our bodies, genes, metabolism etc are all different. Just look at the fact that you've lost 96 lbs.That is excellent. I still have 100 lbs to lose but I don't mind losing slow. My skin will go back better and my hair won't fall out! I'm really proud of your successes. Keep up the good work. Write me anytime you need to talk!

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Run the Disney Princess 1/2 Marathon in 2014!!!

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