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Sometimes it gets on my nerves to hear people talk about how perfect their husbands are (especially when I know better) and mine is so not perfect. We've had an amazing marriage for going on 12 years now. We had a slight "hiccup" if you will back in Sept, so no one is perfect. That being said, my husband is amazing. My daddy is severely morbidly obese. My husband is getting a little money next year from his employee stock. He found out thay they do surgery in Mex for over half the price and my husband told me that he would loan my daddy the money for his surgery. I was shocked! And then the reason for his generosity was both heart breaking and incredibly thoughtful in the same breath. His father was killed a year and a half ago by a texting driver. He tells me that he is willing to pay for my daddy's surgey because he lost his dad at a young age and didn't want me to ever experience that loss. I get the warm fuzzies in my very small stomach just replaying that in my head. What an amazing man. I called my daddy and he was just floored by the news and talked to my husband for 20 minutes thanking him for his generosity. What an amazing man. Sorry for the gushy, mushy rant. I am not telling anyone around here about our money and I had to tell someone!!!

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You have a lovely, caring man.

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wow, that brought tears to my eyes. you are so lucky to have him.

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What a generous, loving man. Continued blessings to you both!

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that's awesome! as happy as your dad is, i bet your husband feels even better. i know from self experience that when you have the opportunity to help someone, it's one of the best feelings in the world. i'm sorry to hear about his dad and your husband sounds very compassionate!! does he have a single brother for me? lol

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That is sooooo awesome!!! He's a keeper!! What a blessing.

(my husband has a problem with a toenail...but other than that, i can't find anything wrong with him! Pretty close to perfect. ;) )

:lol:

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that's awesome! as happy as your dad is' date=' i bet your husband feels even better. i know from self experience that when you have the opportunity to help someone, it's one of the best feelings in the world. i'm sorry to hear about his dad and your husband sounds very compassionate!! does he have a single brother for me? lol[/quote']

LOL No, both brothers are married, but if you could run one of the wives off, I'd be eternally grateful!!! Can't stand one of them. Plus, I think I got the best out of 3!!!

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wow, thats wonderful, he is indeed a keeper!

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That made me tear up. That is so amazingly sweet! What a wonderful man!

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After having a baby and recently sleeved, I'm extremely emotional and this made me cry!! What a great man! You are very lucky.

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