I posted this in pre op and they suggested I move it to post.....so here it goes :

I know this may be a little inappropriate and I hope I don't offend anyone but It was just a thought and im sure others have thought about this too. So here it goes!

I know the ...willy...looks bigger when men lose weight...obviously because they're losing weight. and i know our ta ta's might droop and sag. I know this from previous weight loss. But what about the ....."hoo ha"? I'll spare the graphicness of the post but you all know what i'm getting at!!! Does it change at all????

How u lost the 42 pounds I'm in the first.month I'm 2 weeks and 2 days out. And I lost 20 pounds in 2 week

Congrats!! Wish I were doing as well! I'm down 19lbs in almost 8 wks.

I posted this in the other as well:

Actually, the inside WILL change. At least according to my gyno.

I went in for my first pap, I am only 20, and we talked about my surgery. She mentioned that larger women have more narrow vaginal canals because all the fat pushing in on it. She asked me about 100 times if I was sure I wasn't a virgin (really awkward). She said once I lose most of my weight it will widen a bit but not much. She said it probably wouldn't be noticeable to a partner but I may notice less discomfort, which I do have sometimes.

LOL! I HAD A NURSE TELL ME WHEN I WAS HAVING MY DAUGHTER "YOU ARE REALLY SMALL DOWN THERE! LMAO WHERE THEY DO THAT AT? REALLY YOU'RE MEASURING ME?

I JUST LAUGHED IT OFF. SERIOUSLY KEGELS REALLY WORK.. TRY DOING KEGEL DURING SEX IT'LL DRIVE YOUR MAN CRAZY!

Okay, in the interest of science I will share a general description of my experience. Before weight loss - couldn't see it, who knows what it looked like. 130# loss, looks pretty normal, I don't notice any loose skin. My inner thighs, have droopy skin, but not in the actual area of interest.

Alright here are my thoughts on the subject. The external mons area will have loose skin, just like the rest of you. It's still a little puffy and when I have a LBL I plan to have it lifted and lipoed as it seems to retain fat more. The lips are now thinner which makes access to the tender parts easier however, get this, it also allows air in so be prepared for farting noises when doing certain positions. Hubby said he didn't feel a difference in tightness of the vaginal canal. I do NOT do kegels as they actually weaken the ligaments but instead do squats which firms up the muscles that keep everything tight.

Technically I guess we could google "how much fat is in a va jay jay" and then get a study done on yours before and measure the difference. I fear I may never stop laughing. I'm just waiting for someone to tell me I'm immature because it's a serious question. And it is. But.....

Ummm... did she jus say D P!? With smiley faces... Lol... bahaha... sry, i worked all night n im giddy... i had to :-)

Hi all what are u doing to minimise the sag?

I am 3 weeks PO and worried

I am so glad I came across this! I have wondering the same thing. Great topic for us women.

i needed this laugh lol

Um, the outside has shrunk, but the inside seems the same at 9 months out and 100 pounds lighter. As a matter of fact, things seem to fit better/deeper these days. TMI?

everytime i see a post from u u are always so positive and helpful u are great!!!! i see u have been very successful in your journey u are my inspiration im hoping i one day will be at the 100 pound mark i was sleeved sept 24 and i been in this stall at 230 poinds for 3 weeks its making me very unhappy but i will not give up

these posts have made my day... i have been sitting here on day 3 of post op and just putzing around when i found this and had quite a laugh. i had wondered about this many times because i carry most of my weight in my tummy and was wondering how it would look after a significant weight loss.

anyways thank you for bringing this up both my future body and my whohaa thank you for starting this. <3

I have been looking forward to vajazzling mine when I'm done with weight loss.

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Any of you have problems with dryness? I really need some suggestions..,....this is not fun

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I will just be happy when I can see mine again. I haven't seen it in 15 years. LOL

Any of you have problems with dryness? I really need some suggestions..,....this is not fun

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Yeah, spit. His.

Any of you have problems with dryness? I really need some suggestions..' date='....this is not fun

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Drink more water. You're likely not thoroughly hydrated.