Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Did you ever dislike your band?



Recommended Posts

I am starting to see a couple folks say at one point in time they disliked their band. How many of you at some point after your surgery disliked your bands? This is important i think to those who either just got their bands or are planning to. I often wonder if when i get my surgery if i will hate my band at some point. I think it would be helpful to hear if others, at some point, disliked their bands but then came to love them later on. This way if i happen to experience that i can just push through until i love it! Hope that makes sense. I am not even sure it makes sense to me the way i wrote it. :). Hope everyone is doing well.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

on the contrary, i am only 10 months post op, best thing i ever did.....well, besides marrying my ole man, having my son and having dobermans.....

i cant ever see myself (hate/dislike my band) even if it developed complications later, i would be grateful for what it has giving me right now, my life back...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Me too. I sometimes have a love/hate relationship but that's just because sometimes our stomach lining swells and makes eating a little more challenging.

One thing that most newbies don't hear often is, some people cannot give up their addiction to food and it's so much easier to blame the band than take responsibility for their own failure to follow the rules and eat healthy sensible foods. There's probably not a day that doesn't go by that someone isn't crying for help here on this site, due to their lack of willpower to stop eating chocolate or ice cream or you name your favorite fattening food? Or, their inability to eat small bites and chew properly? And it's so much easier to eat slider foods like milk shakes, chips, soda pop, cake, lasagna, fried foods. Many of these folks find reasons to hate the band simply because they cannot give up the foods they love.

There are those who have other issues as well. Reflux, vomiting the band from it's original location(slip), band failure just to name a few of the other complications that can piss off anyone who spent $10K for surgery.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have to say unfortunately I ignored my band, but after getting back on track and losing again it is the best thing I have ever done and I feel the best I have ever felt.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I don't dislike my band, but I sure dislike what it's done to my GI tract. I love that I'm under 200 lb and can shop in any store. I love that I can walk better, do more, but living with a motility disorder is very much a compromised quality of life. Different problems. The only + is that I feel better about how I look.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My only regret is that I could not loose weight and stay in shape on my own will power, and that I had to resort (last resort) to corrective surgery to do what I was unable to do.....

BUT

With that behind me...I couldn't be happier with the results, my new lifestyle, having my health back, looking and feeling 20 years younger, and loosing all the weight that there was possible to loose.....

Who cares if it was the easy way out....any way out is fine as long as it works...and it did!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I don't dislike my band, but I sure dislike what it's done to my GI tract. I love that I'm under 200 lb and can shop in any store. I love that I can walk better, do more, but living with a motility disorder is very much a compromised quality of life. Different problems. The only + is that I feel better about how I look.

What are your Mobility Issues...if you don't mind me asking...if you do that's alright. I can understand, it's none of my business really.....It's just that happens to be the field I work in so I'm always curious.....

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

What are your Mobility Issues...if you don't mind me asking...if you do that's alright. I can understand, it's none of my business really.....It's just that happens to be the field I work in so I'm always curious.....

I don't dislike my band, but I sure dislike what it's done to my GI tract. I love that I'm under 200 lb and can shop in any store. I love that I can walk better, do more, but living with a motility disorder is very much a compromised quality of life. Different problems. The only + is that I feel better about how I look.

It's motility, not mobility, though I have that too.

Achalasia

Gastroparesis

IBS

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

What are your Mobility Issues...if you don't mind me asking...if you do that's alright. I can understand, it's none of my business really.....It's just that happens to be the field I work in so I'm always curious.....

Mobility: sacroiliac dysfunction and spinal stenosis at L4-L5. I've been on disability since 2/07.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I don't dislike my band, but I sure dislike what it's done to my GI tract. I love that I'm under 200 lb and can shop in any store. I love that I can walk better, do more, but living with a motility disorder is very much a compromised quality of life. Different problems. The only + is that I feel better about how I look.

It's motility, not mobility, though I have that too.

Achalasia

Gastroparesis

IBS

Thanks for sharing....aside from what I do, my wife has been a PT for over 35 years and is the Rehab Director of a facility.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Nope, love my band. Don't like PB'ing or getting stuck, but the easy way to avoid that is follow the rules.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks for sharing....aside from what I do, my wife has been a PT for over 35 years and is the Rehab Director of a facility.

When my SI joint went out in '07 I did PT for a year 3x week. I transitioned to chiropractor after my progress plateaued, still see him every couple of weeks for adjustment. My right SI dislocates. My left knee needs replaced...not surprising the rt SI is a problem. I went from being unable to walk without assistance to walking 1.5 miles...it's painful but I CAN do it :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

When my SI joint went out in '07 I did PT for a year 3x week. I transitioned to chiropractor after my progress plateaued, still see him every couple of weeks for adjustment. My right SI dislocates. My left knee needs replaced...not surprising the rt SI is a problem. I went from being unable to walk without assistance to walking 1.5 miles...it's painful but I CAN do it :)

Oh, I'm so glad I read this MsMaui. I have severe arthritis in my right knee...no cartilage left, basically bone on bone and at this point, my hip and leg are affected as well. The muscles are very weak and I'm in pain all the time. I need to lose a total of 117 lbs and I'm making progress...49 lbs. down so far. I was hoping at this point to have less pain and be able to walk more without the cane, but so far, that's not happening. I do have more stamina but that's more about the weight loss rather than walking easier. I see you have lost 90 lbs. so I am hoping I just have to lose more weight before seing some improvement. I'd give anything to just be off that damn cane....

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Any problems my band has given me are nothing compared to what being fat was doing to me. Worth every penny and one of the best decisions I have ever made.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Oh, I'm so glad I read this MsMaui. I have severe arthritis in my right knee...no cartilage left, basically bone on bone and at this point, my hip and leg are affected as well. The muscles are very weak and I'm in pain all the time. I need to lose a total of 117 lbs and I'm making progress...49 lbs. down so far. I was hoping at this point to have less pain and be able to walk more without the cane, but so far, that's not happening. I do have more stamina but that's more about the weight loss rather than walking easier. I see you have lost 90 lbs. so I am hoping I just have to lose more weight before seing some improvement. I'd give anything to just be off that damn cane....

Losing weight has helped my knee. I had multiple injuries (skateboarding, skiing, softball, volleyball and working on my feet 26 years) and ended up having most of the articular cartilage, the meniscus, both medial and lateral removed and had chondroplasty done on a 15x15mm lesion with marrow edema. I had artificial synovial Fluid injections too, which helped. Have you tried the synovial Fluid injections? You have to do a series of 3 or 5 exactly one week apart. It really did help though.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Eve411

      April Surgery
      Am I the only struggling to get weight down. I started with weight of 297 and now im 280 but seem to not lose more weight. My nutrtionist told me not to worry about the pounds because I might still be losing inches. However, I do not really see much of a difference is this happen to any of you, if so any tips?
      Thanks
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Clueless_girl

      Well recovering from gallbladder removal was a lot like recovering from the modified duodenal switch surgery, twice in 4 months yay 🥳😭. I'm having to battle cravings for everything i shouldn't have, on top of trying to figure out what happens after i eat something. Sigh, let me fast forward a couple of months when everyday isn't a constant battle and i can function like a normal person again! 😞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • KeeWee

      It's been 10 long years! Here is my VSG weight loss surgiversary update..
      https://www.ae1bmerchme.com/post/10-year-surgiversary-update-for-2024 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×