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Since when do men enjoy a sausage fest anyways..

I guess that would depend on the man, Shonda. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

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Gentlemen,

I work in a Dr's office with 17 other women. So don't talk to me about periods or cycles I deal with it everyday. I need some help in eating less. Are all of you weighing your food at meal times or are you just sighting it in with your eyes saying that looks like so many enough food?? Most of the time I am not weighing food so is that why my weight loss is at a slow pace??? Let me hear from all the other men.

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Gentlemen,

I work in a Dr's office with 17 other women. So don't talk to me about periods or cycles I deal with it everyday. I need some help in eating less. Are all of you weighing your food at meal times or are you just sighting it in with your eyes saying that looks like so many enough food? ? Most of the time I am not weighing food so is that why my weight loss is at a slow pace??? Let me hear from all the other men.

You may want to start a new thread with this topic.

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I track calories in and calories out.

But to tie the two together, the other day I was showing my wife how the BodyBugg recorded extra calorie burn while we were having sex. She didn't find it as informational as I did?

But, she did note that like most excercise, that if it lasted longer I would burn more calories??? I wonder why she mentioned that?

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I track calories in and calories out.

But to tie the two together, the other day I was showing my wife how the BodyBugg recorded extra calorie burn while we were having sex. She didn't find it as informational as I did?

But, she did note that like most excercise, that if it lasted longer I would burn more calories??? I wonder why she mentioned that?

:mad2::lol::wink2::lol:

Oh my that is sooo funny. Maybe you can get her a bodybugg too and see who can burn the most calories:tt2:

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Gentlemen,

I work in a Dr's office with 17 other women. So don't talk to me about periods or cycles I deal with it everyday. I need some help in eating less. Are all of you weighing your food at meal times or are you just sighting it in with your eyes saying that looks like so many enough food? ? Most of the time I am not weighing food so is that why my weight loss is at a slow pace??? Let me hear from all the other men.

Great question!

Unfortunately I am a woman so I'm unable to respond to this here, as this is the "Men's Room".

JTA: It's messy in here, mind cleaning it up a bit?

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i really like the ladies myself. ladies feel free to talk to me anytime.......

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But, she did note that like most excercise, that if it lasted longer I would burn more calories??? I wonder why she mentioned that?

*giggle* :)

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I don't want to start a whole thread on this but guys...I've lost 118 lbs. My husband has totally lost all sex drive. Granted, he had a brush with prostate cancer, very mild, came through treatment and the next day went BIKE RIDING, needless to say, I doubt it has impacted his drive. He's 53, I've asked him straight up if he is getting it elsewhere, he laughed. He chalked it up to fatigue.

I'm trying to be realistic here. Could any dude on here feel fatigued for 8 months? It's now been over a year since I've been with him.

"Counseling" is out of the question. He isn't the touchy feely type who taps into his emotional well of talking to strangers about his thoughts.

Meanwhile, his new hobby is raquetball and he doesn't miss his regular game. The reason I add this is where he won't come up with places for us to go as a couple, he will go to events with a friend or two and they go for the good seats.

I'm not the type who prints out responses as snaps, "SEE, THESE guys aren't blah blah blah.." I guess I want a guys perspective on this.

Is it the amount of weight I've lost and he's just waiting for me to hit home? ( what's another year?)

Age thing?

Loss of interest?

All responses are appreciated, I am can handle all sides of the coin so if you feel like saying it, go for it.

Thanks.

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