Let's make this the official January surgery date thread. I will be having my surgery on 1/31/2020. I was certain that I was going to have the vsg, but I'm learning more and leaning towards the rouxny (rny) gastric bypass. Whatever you decide, let's get this thread started and support one another. I'm just starting it, but anyone can feel free to jump in and keep it going ?.

Any one on the 9th ??

I'm close, I'm the 8th [emoji3]

13 hours ago, Krimsonbutterflies said:

For those of you having surgery on Monday, I've been reading that your anxieties are into overdrive. Practice slow deep cleansing breaths and sleep in your most comfortable positions that you know you aren't going to be able to sleep in for awhile. Take a long relaxing bath (because we you are going to be relegated to showers for along while), go get a nice pedicure tomorrow (those include a foot massage), change your sheets and before you leave for the hospital make your bed up nice and pull the covers back (leave a gas-x instead of a mint on the pillow, lol), buy flowers for your room for yourself and a nice card with kind words reminding yourself why you are proud of you!!!! Make a basket of things you need and put it by your bed within your reach, lay comfy loose pajamas on your bed & put your slippers by your bed, put a fresh towel in your bathroom, change your toothbrush just because, get new batteries for your remote controls ( I assume we all will be watching lots of TV in between naps & walks in the house), get a new journal and pens to write, borrow some books and etc...

There's plenty of ideas above to keep you occupied until Monday and you can always pray or meditate, download the calm app or go on YouTube and find the Honest guys, I love the meditations offered :

This is my favorite one, they offer many. Stay busy pre-pampering yourself, because you deserve it.

Thank you for all of these ideas. I did let myself have a good “anxiety cry” this morning and it helped me to reset and put those big girl panties on.

43 minutes ago, Silvernova said:

Thank you for all of these ideas. I did let myself have a good “anxiety cry” this morning and it helped me to reset and put those big girl panties on.

You're welcome and know that you are not alone. I have a good anxiety cry when needed, better to release that energy.

Today, makes pending surgery more of a reality for me, this is the last time I'm babysitting my grandson before surgery. I need the next 3 weekends to finish preparing and organizing, prior to the 31st. I've been declining social engagements as far as into March, I never realized how much people celebrate around libations and food. I'm going to focus on self- recovery, new lifestyle norms and exercise. This change is happening to me and not everyone else, but I get the anxiety and fear of the unknown. Some of my relationships may not survive...January 2021 may look very different from January 2020.

Edited January 5, 20206 yr by Krimsonbutterflies

Hi everyone

I’m having a gastric bypass to day at 11am because of my reflux disease and hernia will be dealt with as well, I am over weight but I’m not the biggest I have been, but have not had much appetite for a long time due to reflux which is a good thing in a way as it has changed my relationship with food so it makes this journey easier. Hope everyone’s surgery goes well [emoji3] I’m in England

21 hours ago, rene50 said:

Thanks for the prep tips! ? I especially like the tip on changing your sheets before surgery, so your bed is nice and fresh when you get home. I have my Vitamins, Protein Shakes, and Jello, but still need to get broth, and I guess, GasX?? I plan to make some homemade broth before surgery and freeze it in ice trays, but I would also like to get some broth packets.

I'm having surgery in Puerto Vallarta during a family vacation and I'll be there for several days after the surgery. I've been stressing about what comfy clothes to pack for after surgery and for travel home and I found these dresses on Amazon. They are inexpensive, $18-$21 a dress, and I think they will be very comfortable, like wearing a nightgown! I already have 2 short sleeved t-shirt type dresses, so I think the 5 dresses, a sweater, a pair of Birks, and a pair of nice sandals will be my complete wardrobe for the trip. The only robe I have is a big, warm fluffy one, so I may try to find a lightweight wrap robe that will pack easy.

Any other tips?

Clean sheets are nice, but my surgeon and for previous surgeries it is recommended to minimize germs. I have to shower and wash with antibacterial soap, hibiclens, the night before and morning of and use clean towels after each shower. Hibiclens is what they use to wash their hands prior to surgery. They are trying to minimize the risk of infection from what I understand. I am doing whatever my surgeon recommends as they are the experts.

Edited January 6, 20206 yr by Uomograsso

22 hours ago, yesenia1016 said:

Any one on the 9th ??

I was supposed to be on the 9th but the hospital had an issue with the operating rooms, so I am scheduled for the 10th.

Okay guys, I’m down to about 32 hours!! Let’s talk about hospital bags....what are you guys packing?

Also, day 6 of the liquid diet is down! I found a great protein shake that I really like. Tastes like chocolate milk, it’s not chalky or overly sweet. Core Life by Fairlife. I found it at Publix and Walmart.

4 hours ago, DebDown said:

Okay guys, I’m down to about 32 hours!! Let’s talk about hospital bags....what are you guys packing?

Also, day 6 of the liquid diet is down! I found a great Protein Shake that I really like. Tastes like chocolate milk, it’s not chalky or overly sweet. Core Life by Fairlife. I found it at Publix and Walmart.

Read the hospital bag thread, lots of great ideas. What are your essential items for your comfort?

Chapstick and my pillow probably. I just got a call from the hospital. I have to be there at 8am tomorrow. This time tomorrow I will be on the other side. OMG. Today is really the first day I’m hungry. It’s day 7 of the liquid diet, and day one of clear liquids. I’m hangry. I wish I knew how to quote/reply previous posts from this app!

Wishing you the best! You will be in my prayers tonight. Let us know how it goes.

Hi everyone! My gastric sleeve surgery date is 1/15. Gotta admit I am a bit nervous.

1 hour ago, rene50 said:

Wishing you the best! You will be in my prayers tonight. Let us know how it goes.

Thank you so much! It still feels unreal. Like something will go wrong between now and then and it’ll get canceled. I’m a worry wart ??‍♀️

Chapstick and my pillow probably. I just got a call from the hospital. I have to be there at 8am tomorrow. This time tomorrow I will be on the other side. OMG. Today is really the first day I’m hungry. It’s day 7 of the liquid diet, and day one of clear liquids. I’m hangry. I wish I knew how to quote/reply previous posts from this app!

I am right there with you! Just got the call to be there at 6:30 am! We will do great [emoji173][emoji173] I'm also very nervous and a worry wort but I'm trying my hardest just to keep a positive mindset... good luck!!!

38 minutes ago, breavsg said:

I am right there with you! Just got the call to be there at 6:30 am! We will do great I'm also very nervous and a worry wort but I'm trying my hardest just to keep a positive mindset... good luck!!!

Ooh you’re tomorrow too!? Yay! I can’t wait to compare notes with you from the other side. We got this!