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Looking for an accountability partner who I can be Facebook/texting friendly with! I had gastric bypass in March of 2015, and initially got to my lowest weight of 179. However, my current weight is 205. My husband and I have finally reached a point where we want to have a baby but I also don't want to start out at the weight I currently am. I've fell of the weight loss motivation wagon and need someone to help me get back to where I want to be. It's definitely taking a hit and I've been more depressed than I've been since my surgery. I'd like to lose 50 lbs at least! Please let there be a friend out there!

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16 minutes ago, nikkidarrie said:

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Which gastricbypass did you go with ? And what it is you have been goi g against and doing thay has made you begin to gain the weight again? If you dont mind me asking



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Hi, I had my surgery August 24, 2015. I had gastric bypass surgery and am down 150 lbs. I can be emailed at cazam5@cox.net

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I had gastric bypass 6/8/15. My SW was 248, LW 175 (for a hot minute) now I'm up to 201. I was 185 in May when we had to put my beloved rescue dog to sleep. It was the most traumatic thing I've ever been through. I still have my emotional/boredom/anxiety/pain eating issues and need to work on those in therapy, but here I need to get back on track with my eating, and following the rules, like no drinking half an hour before, after and during meals, and not eating until I'm past full. Plus I need to plan and make better food choices. I'm working with a new nutritionist, have a therapist and workout at a great gym, but I need daily support and accountability if I'm going to lose these last 20 pounds. It looks like I found a good group!

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Hi, I had RNY 12/26/16. I'm only down 20 pounds! Need help!!

I started to say I lost weight slowly too and you're right on track but I did the math and realized I lost 40lbs within the first two months, so I'm wondering if you should check with your surgeon. I have a couple questions.

How much weight do you have to lose? What's your start weight and goal weight?

What's your age? I just turned 50 and was going through menopause. I had a partial hysterectomy five months after surgery and now am on HRT.

Are you hitting ur Protein and Fluid goals?

RNY 6/8/15 SW 248 LW 175 CW 197 GW 180 "Eat to be the person you want to be."

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Looking for an accountability partner who I can be Facebook/texting friendly with! I had gastric bypass in March of 2015, and initially got to my lowest weight of 179. However, my current weight is 205. My husband and I have finally reached a point where we want to have a baby but I also don't want to start out at the weight I currently am. I've fell of the weight loss motivation wagon and need someone to help me get back to where I want to be. It's definitely taking a hit and I've been more depressed than I've been since my surgery. I'd like to lose 50 lbs at least! Please let there be a friend out there!

Hi my name is Jenny and I just had my bypass on Feb 16, 2017. I had the surgery mainly so my husband and I could have a baby. I think we could help each other. You can find me on Facebook under Jennifer (Edelman) Anderson. Or email me at jen8984@yahoo.com.


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Hey! I'm Tracy! I am also looking for an accountability partner. I just posted to this page as well. I had my surgery June 2015 I haven't quite made it to my goal weight, and like you my husband and I would like to have a child but I want to wait until I am at a healthy weight. I want to lose about 50-60lbs as well. My current weight is 222. You can find me on FB Tracy Nicole Caruso or email me at tracynicole5181@gmail.com

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