Hello everyone, Warning beware of jealous people in your life. So my now ex but also my daughters father has as I feel always tried to sabotage me. I gained close to 100 pounds in the last 6 years since I've been with him had a baby got super comfortable and let myself go. Well since my surgery and before he was never with my lifestyle change he would bring fast food and candy into the house, he didn't work out with me on a regular basis (and mind u he is athletic and a boxer) there was no genuine encouragement nor support. He was and is a serial cheater. He told a girl he cheated on me with about me getting the surgery before i even had it and just recently told another woman i believed to be a friend but he was sleeping with her too that I had the surgery and now I think i'm better than ppl and they laughed about how I'm still big and my body gone be a mess (I seen the messages) the disrespect is at an all time high. Bottom line is I am better than what they obviously thought of me. This change has been the best thing that has ever happened to me, I'm happy about life again, I see the changes in me mentally, spiritually, and physically. I'm looking forward to the future and learning not to settle or accept anything I'm discovering my worth and now I'm glad I can close that chapter in my life and looking forward to my journey and finding someone new that sees the Goddess in me

down 83 lbs and not stopping

Edited January 23, 20179 yr by Renea Glover

Congratulations! You look gorgeous. I'm so happy you don't measure your happiness with anyone's approval or disapproval.

You, my lady, are 100!

Edited January 24, 20179 yr by Laura62

U go girly! Been there done that! Now I'm engaged to the kindest most loving man after 2 horrible marriages that dragged me down. U R so gorgeous inside & out. Never ever give up on U!

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Yes and u look amazing...the more love u give yourself the more true love u will recieve just keep loving

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God is Good. You look beautiful. Move forward just as you are sweetie.

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Beautiful!!! Keep it going

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Hello everyone, Warning beware of jealous people in your life. So my now ex but also my daughters father has as I feel always tried to sabotage me. I gained close to 100 pounds in the last 6 years since I've been with him had a baby got super comfortable and let myself go. Well since my surgery and before he was never with my lifestyle change he would bring fast food and candy into the house, he didn't work out with me on a regular basis (and mind u he is athletic and a boxer) there was no genuine encouragement nor support. He was and is a serial cheater. He told a girl he cheated on me with about me getting the surgery before i even had it and just recently told another woman i believed to be a friend but he was sleeping with her too that I had the surgery and now I think i'm better than ppl and they laughed about how I'm still big and my body gone be a mess (I seen the messages) the disrespect is at an all time high. Bottom line is I am better than what they obviously thought of me. This change has been the best thing that has ever happened to me, I'm happy about life again, I see the changes in me mentally, spiritually, and physically. I'm looking forward to the future and learning not to settle or accept anything I'm discovering my worth and now I'm glad I can close that chapter in my life and looking forward to my journey and finding someone new that sees the Goddess in me

down 83 lbs and not stopping

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My soon to be ex husband is now doing the same thing to me. He brought fried chicken in the bedroom the day after I came home from surgery. Mind you that was a first. It hurts so bad. I've been fighting tears for 3 days now because I found out he was cheating yet again with this female who use to call me all kinds of fat this and that; which he found funny. The sad part is he talked about her with the other women he is also cheating with. I just prayed and said God heal my heart! I'm down 70lbs the last thing I need is another health issue because my husband is sleeping around. Life is too short! We deserve God's best! Your like me you were beautiful before and you're beautiful now just healthier! Stay encouraged!

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Edited January 24, 20179 yr by beautifully2114

You go girl !

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You look AMAZING! Not to mention you truly sound happy. Leave that negativity behind.

Hello everyone, Warning beware of jealous people in your life. So my now ex but also my daughters father has as I feel always tried to sabotage me. I gained close to 100 pounds in the last 6 years since I've been with him had a baby got super comfortable and let myself go. Well since my surgery and before he was never with my lifestyle change he would bring fast food and candy into the house, he didn't work out with me on a regular basis (and mind u he is athletic and a boxer) there was no genuine encouragement nor support. He was and is a serial cheater. He told a girl he cheated on me with about me getting the surgery before i even had it and just recently told another woman i believed to be a friend but he was sleeping with her too that I had the surgery and now I think i'm better than ppl and they laughed about how I'm still big and my body gone be a mess (I seen the messages) the disrespect is at an all time high. Bottom line is I am better than what they obviously thought of me. This change has been the best thing that has ever happened to me, I'm happy about life again, I see the changes in me mentally, spiritually, and physically. I'm looking forward to the future and learning not to settle or accept anything I'm discovering my worth and now I'm glad I can close that chapter in my life and looking forward to my journey and finding someone new that sees the Goddess in me

down 83 lbs and not stopping

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Now it's time to find a real man who loves and supports you no matter what. It took me 3 tries and I am the most happy I have ever been!

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As a boxer, he must have gotten too many shots to the head causing brain damage...you look great! Keep it up and don't lose that confidence!

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You are darling, and deserve so much better for uourself!!

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You look marvelous!!!the 83lbs was his BS lbs .....Keep up the good work nobody lost nothing but him..

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I pray you continue to excel in your journey... many blessings

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I've had similar issues with my daughters father more so on the talking about me with other people including our 5 year old daughter whom would come back and tell me how she was sad about the things he would say about me. (Things like "I don't like to take care of myself or our daughter therefore resorting me to surgery").

People can be cruel and judgmental but it looks like you aren't letting him be a butt drag you down. You are so much better than the petty people out there.

You look amazing and you are a beautiful woman. My ex used to do the same thing to me, and it really affected my self-esteem. After we were no longer together, I realized he was so insecure and hated himself, so he verbally attacked me. It was pure emotional abuse. So glad to hear that he is your EX.