My husband left me three days before surgery which I had on February 12th and it was extremely hard and painful to cope being in the hospital with no husband on my side to support me!!! Would love any feedback from anyone especially if you gone through this painful experience....I'm battling Anxiety and Depression

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I have four words for you.....alimony and child support.

I say forgive him ask the Lord to bless him, move on and ..

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1 Peter 5:7

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Yes, definitely Miss Mac!! Lizh22 thanks for your words!! Appreciate!!

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Oh my Goodness! You're a beautiful QUEEN, and he'll regret his decision on his way to Hell!

Stay prayerful???????????????????????? and shine like the Diamond ???? You are! ????

Praying for you & also for your kiddos going through this. I would say don't look back no matter what, because I would guess at some point he will come back regretful (as easy as it sounds I know it is hard for the first little while.) The Lord has something in store for you.

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Thank you so much everyone!!! God bless you all!!

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This site is all about supporting each other and having each other's backs. I know that well.

My S.O. committed suicide the morning of my sleeve surgery. I feel what you are feeling all over again. It hurts on so many levels that your head can't wrap itself around all of your heart's aches.

The mantra that got me through:

I never knew how strong I was until being strong was the only option I had.

Let the sorrow and the heart ache flow over you and then "let it go".

Be kind to yourself. You deserve it.

Prayers going up for you.

Keep posting and sharing. It helps.

Omg Valentina I'm so sorry

Have to agree with other posters, if someone is going to do this at that point in time, you are probably better off starting your new life without that baggage.

My gracious ... that is a total low hugs to you.

Oh my goodness that is the worst thing I could imagine Valentina I am so sorry

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Sooo sorry Valentina .......thank you so much for your words!!! I really appreciate!!

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Thank you All!!! For your support!! It's Awesome!!

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So sorry to hear this. Hang in there!

Thank you all for your kind words.

Omg Valentina I'm so sorry

Oh my goodness that is the worst thing I could imagine Valentina I am so sorry


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Sooo sorry Valentina .......thank you so much for your words!!! I really appreciate!!


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Thank you all for your kind words.

I told my story to illustrate that there is life after the total loss of support. I cried, I denied and I got pissed. THEN, I got back on track.

I had to remember that I had my WLS for ME. I had to relearn to love myself,--to learn that I am worthy of a happy and healthy life.

I takes time, but there truly is a new life out here. We just have to go and get it!

Just keep posting and the wonderful folks here, (myself included now) will help keep you focused and on track. We all really do care for one another. You'll not have to take this well rewarded journey alone.

I promise.